Ok so my girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and we love each other(some people think its too soon to say that but o well). so one night she goes out with her best friend who i absolutely fucking hate. but anyways. she goes to Wheelies(rollerblading place) some guy comes up and asks her to dance so shes like ok holds his hand all night and even gives him her number.

shes says its only a dance even tho it was all night. but anyways is that just weird or do i onlt think that?

-Juve

I think you're getting fucked in the ass buddy.

Unless he's gay and only got her number so the two of them can share his copy of Kevyn Aucoin's Making Faces, what she did was rather inappropriate.

She could be feeling the constraints involved in a committed relationship, and doesn't yet know how to deal with it. Saying "it's only a dance" is dealing via denial.

quote:Originally posted by Boomer Da'God:

you're fucked buddy.

Dump her.

Maybe she's not as interested in you as you think? I would weary of this guy if I were you. Normally I would say let her be but under these circumstances I think you're justified in being skeptical.

Keep your ears open for mention of his name and what they do together. But if she's going to leave you for him she's going to do it whether or not you give her your permission to see him. Just don't let her use you as a safety. She might hold onto you until she feels the guy really likes her than leave you. That would suck for you.

Without knowing you or her it's hard to say. Hopefully, I'm wrong and she's just a very outgoing girl. If you really feel like she's interested in this guy break up with her. Don't hold on to a string.

She is a really outgoing girl. he phoned twice when i was on the phone with her. she wont give me his number so i can u know tell him off and shit. and she said she felt sorry for hinm cuz he was ``ùgly``

but her friend says she was hot. i dont know what to do...me and my friend were thinking of finding him and showin him not to fuck around. she also said he stopped phoning too. she told me that in the last 5 mins.

thanks for your opinions anyways.

quote:Originally posted by Boomer Da'God:

I think you're getting fucked in the ass buddy.

It really looks that way man.

That fucking sucks, when u have what u want, but it turns out to not be what u want. Man, breakups are fucking hard ass..

All I know is that if my g/f did that I'd be fuckin' pissed. If she's already doin' this shit so early in your relationship, then think of what she'll do later. Fuck her, then dump her.

I think your pretty much screwed. Dump her, sounds like shes interested in this other guy and beating the crap out of him isn't going to help.

Don't worry there are plenty of girls out there

thats why your in control!!

you have to set rules

no giving out number to guys

i dont give number to girls or i dont holla at girls, you dont flirt with guys.

quote:Originally posted by Boomer Da'God:

I think you're getting fucked in the ass buddy.

I know how you feel mate.

I got dumped at a dance and she managed to pick up some other guy that night.

not fuckin cool

dump her ass like a sack of shit

Yeah dude that sucks, just bring up the subject of you doing the same thing, if she doesn't buy that and says somthing like "it wouldn't bother me" then let it go for awhile, if she breaks up with you, and your pissed about it, beat the piss out of him.

i personnaly think your fucked, and well, what can you do about it......nothing... probably exept for tryin to be all she can ever want and hope for the best (or find him, kill him, hide the corps and make sure no-one ever finds out, but that's not really and option is it)

Dump the bitch. She doesn't love you.

Definately innapropriate on her part. When you are in a dedicated relationship, you shouldnt be going around dancing with guys and giving out your number. You just dont do that. It might be a good idea to have a talk with her and see if she is really as interested in you as you thought. If she still seems to be in love with you, at least make it clear that you are really uncomfortable with ehr doing stuff like that.

If i were in your position, i would be pissed.

better keep a close eye on her

quote:Originally posted by Drugs_R_Good:

That fucking sucks, when u have what u want, but it turns out to not be what u want.

Thanks for the brilliant piece of insight...

At this point you can't honestly tell what your chick is going to do, or wants to do, with this guy, but if you only do nothing it will get worse. The only way to stop her from doing it again is showing her you won't let her get away with that kind of shit. Only problem is I have no idea how to show her that without breaking up, which defeats the whole purpose. Anything else you do shows that it pissed you off, but she still came out okay, so she can do it again and get away with it. Unless you beat her...but then you should get your ass kicked...

I'd say a good backfist is appropriate. Equality...if a man fucks around on his girl, he gets his nuts kicked in...if a girl fucks around on her man, she needs to be suckerpunched in the ovaries.

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Um, she held his hand all night and denies any attraction to him. He calls her a lot and her excuse is that she feels sorry for him (even though he's hot- she lied). They danced together. Some might call this um- I forgot the word- romantic? This is not weird. It's a bitch-slap right in yo face. She likes him.

She wants to have her cake and eat it, too.

Are you stupid, or something? DUMP THE BITCH. She's just another shallow, heartless cretin. I don't care how "sweet", "special", fucking "not like other girls" she is. She's a "Sweet" girl because it gets her stares, tips, and phone numbers. "Special" is just codespeak for "She'll let you do an ass-to-mouth". And yeah, she's not like other girls...Just like all the other girls! Shit.

I'm not flaming you. I'm just more than a bit disgusted by the situation. I'm also a bit surprised you didn't know the answer to this the moment you realized she'd been holding his hand for more than, like, 3 seconds. I bet her other hand was jacking him off under the table.

Let her go, my friend. There's plenty of real women out there: Let the little girls play their games.