so i have this problem. it wasnt bothering me at first but now its starting to get to me. my girlfriend, who i love very, very much lives about a half hour away from me. i really only get to see her on the weekends. we are 18 years old and have been together for a year and a half. i completely trust her in every way and i know damn well there's no way in hell she'd be unfaithful, becuase she's completely insanely obesessed with me, or madly in love, whatever you call it. she is (take my word for it) very very beautiful, and that all these guys constantly want her, which of course i've come to expect. the problem is she chills with both guys and girls, but probably more with guys (her and her twins sis) she said though, that she was making some tea and she noticed at the bottom, a small pill dissolving. i dont want to be an asshole and be like "allright woman you can't hang out with other guys" but this is cuttin' it awful close and im about to go up there and start slittin some of these guy's throats. what do i do?

quote:Originally posted by spockcarolla:

[B] go up there and start slittin some of these guy's throats. B]

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[This message has been edited by midgeymonkey2 (edited 07-22-2004).]

I wouldn't worry about it! She loves you and you love her and no matter how many guys crack onto her she'll probably stay with you. Don't get all worried about somthing that probably won't happen and if it does, there'll be plenty of time for throat slitting and the like. Enjoy this woman while you can, don't spend a second in sadness and doubt.

Whenever I'm upset, I turn to drugs and masturbation. That always cheers me up.

Tricky scenario you have here though. Do you have any potential suspects?

well what i'm getting at is that some motherfucker slipped a pill in her drink.. i dont even like to have such a thought in my head.. it pains me.. put if someone were to drug her and take advantage.. i have no problem taking some lives over that.

Fuck up whoever did that really badly.

Don't kill the cunt, it isn’t worth it.

And just make deadly sure you have the right guy.

But whoever dared pull shit like that on your girlfriend needs their teeth kicked down their fucking rapist throat.

Seems to me she's on the ball enough to notice thngs like a pill dissolving. Sounds like she's capable of taking care of herself. And she told you about it. So rather than flip out like an insane bf, commend her for noticing these things.

The more you encourage her (positively) to look out for herself, the more she'll make a point to be aware of her surroundings and circumstances.

Dude i totaly feel for you. my girlfriend sais she loves me and shit but she always goes to partys and shit with her friends and i dont know if she is being faithfull but its the whole not knowing for sure that really eats me up inside. If i knew was sleeping around i would put her through the same thing but cause im not sure i dont know if i should cheat on her. It really gets me sometimes.

As deadlycindy said, obviously she's no idiot and actually notices her surroundings.

I wouldn't worry abot cheating, but it's easier said then done I suppse. I've been in situations like this to the point I was worrying day and night over it. Then i realized to cut the shit and believe his word over my overwhelming paranoia. It somewhat worked...until the signs were clear then I started getting really paranoid again.

He did end up cheating, but that was the result of conflict and spite.

Unles the signs are clear, don't worry about it! Things happen, and at least she has her head on straight and can recognize what's happening around her.

If she's in love with you, you have little to worry about.

That's my input anyway, goodluck with you and your girlfriend.

saline.

You should be happy you got a smart girl to notice the pill in her drink. She should be smart enough to cut connections with whatever cock was trying this, but at least she noticed.

The very first WEEK I went to college and me and my girl were doing the whole long distance relationship thing, this guy invited her on a trip to new york with him, invited her to a frat party, offered her free bud/e. She says she didn't take him up on any of these offers, but she also defended him saying he was a friend and would never try anything.

Never try anything? He already was trying!

All in all paranoia's a bitch, especially when it's about someone else. Because then you have to handle it very very delicately. If you do the "I don't want you hanging out with that asshole" scenario, that's exactly what she'll do because you don't control her and tell her what to do. If you go to far in the opposite reaction she might fall victim to this creep or just go with it out of lack of respect for you and your wishy-washy ways.

In other words, I have nothing to offer, and this was no help. But it killed time since I'm speedy with no ciggy-butts.

SOMEBODY LET ME BUM A THANG-THANG FROM OUT THEY CIGARETTE PACK!