i sat up alll night on monday night with this girl just the two of us in my mates garden an talked. I really wanted to put the moves on her and even though i have been told b4 that she really likes me i couldnt do it.

im scared that we might have kinda moved onto the friendship stage which would suck.

After a whil of talkin we began a topic about sex an she askd how many girls i have been with, not really being ashamed of my number i told her that it was six (hey im only just 17) then she told me that she has never slept with a guy and she said that she has now lost respect for me bcos i hav slept with so many ppl.

as u can probably guess i am fuckin confused an i am goin to a club wit her an her mates tonight but i just dunno how to play this now!?!?!? help!?

I think you've lost your chance, bud. Maybe if you apologise with a smile and reassured her about how much of a nice guy you are you could get another shot, don't beg mind you (girls hate beggers).

im thinkin mayb just tell her that i hav changed and now i just wna hav lik a relationship.

im not into just havin sex all the time nemore.

i cant tel her i was in love wit all the girls cos 4 of them wer whil i hav been on holidays...

i mean she still invited me to go out 2nite so she must still hav some interest.

mayb i take her off on our own an we have a chat...she sent me txt message sayin 'hey do u fancy comin out with me and a few my mates 2mro? mayb i wil get a whil to chat to ya 2moz xo' so we will c wot happens eh

shes too close-minded if shes gonna get up ya for sleepin with six girls! ive fucked about 30 and no one cares.find a new chick.

Yep, ya screwed up, dude, your 17, and you've already slept with 6 ppl, damn. There's no shame in that, but you don't tell a girl that, don't ever tell a girl right off the bat, how many ppl you've slept with. This is still fixable, but not likely, but it is possible, your just gonna have to bust your ass to get back with this girl.

i feel like i'm in a foreign country! ah!

and i'm not picking up on any of the languauge!!!

she just txt me bout an hour or so ago to make sure i was stil comin 2nite an she sed that some of her mates hav dropped out an it mite just b me an her.

i sent her 1 back sayin she can call it off if she wants but nah she said she stil wants to go out

i wud drop her for avril lavigne

Yeah, with chicks, it's not neccessarily the more the better. All the same, six isn't a huge number. I'd lose respect for you the higher the number goes above 10 (you're only 17).

This girl is weird. If she really liked you, it wouldn't matter how many chicks you'd slept with, really. Why do you care if it's moved into the friend stage if you're not going to do anything with her anyway?

well i think it is the friendship stage....maybe not tho

even if we r just friends then i stil dnt want her thinkin bad of me

if its just gna b the two of us tonight we will c if is friendship stage or not

unless im drunk im not gna try nethin...ill wait an c if she does

Pussy! You can't wait for the woman to act, you gotta make a move or it's gauranteed to hit the friendship stage.

well guys i went out with the girl on thursday night

i wasnt very drunk an neither was she and i wasnt going to make a move and then she asked me to dance and so we did

after a while it kind of seemed like there was no one else there except us and she was dancing like on me...it was great

she had her back to me and for the first time during the whole night her friends fucked off even though she had been dropping major hints to them all night

then when she was dancing with her back to me she just turned her head around and looked at me for a second and then we kissed...this sounds really pussy to me but it was probably the best kiss i hav ever had and even though it seemed like we were kissing for only a min or so, all of a sudden it was time for her to leave because her mates were like 'come on its time to go'

at the min i have a free house because my parents are on holiday and she said...'do i have to go yet?' to me

After this i was like 'you dont have to go with them but maybe we should leave now'

and we did leave...today is saturday and she only went home this morning

lol lucky fucking cunt, but hey good on ya mate. Just dont fuck anything else up ok?

Ummmm, I've NEVER met a girl who's against how many girls I've slept with. In fact, it usually seems they like it if you've had a large amount and then give them the impression that they're the special one that may be able to tame you!

Use it to your advantage, throw in some innate arrogance mixed with being a good person and girls will flock to you regardless of how may you've been with... and if they 'do' get you, they'll feel a much better sense of achievement than if they were to shackle down with some guy who's barely had any experience.

This is just from personal experience, anyway.