Ok im posting this topic coz it something that bothers me all the bloomin time (and if i use unsual words just put it on account of me being british :P)

Anyway, im 18 years old and a complete virgin. I mean i havent even got off with a gurl. Not that i havent tried (well actually i havent, just its always been from gurls who feel sorry for me not getting off with someone yet or drunk gurls, and i aint into that) and it does my head in sometimes!

So i was wondering who else here is a viring, how much of a virgin, who likes virgins ( twist that how you want) and who can remember that far back in some cases.

And before any of you say its coz im a saddo or fat (granted im not skinny but thats far from the point) most of my friends are gurls, of which i have had a thing for all of them and of which not one of them hasnt became a better friend with me after finding out. SO anyways, ure comments would be nice so plz plz plz post

'C'. The correct answer is always 'C'!

Oh: Me, them, them.

Yeah they feel sorry for you.

Most of your friends are girls who like you just the way you are....they're using you.

quote:Originally posted by mongolia_d:

Ok im posting this topic coz it something that bothers me all the bloomin time (and if i use unsual words just put it on account of me being british :P)

Anyway, im 18 years old and a complete virgin. I mean i havent even got off with a gurl. Not that i havent tried (well actually i havent, just its always been from gurls who feel sorry for me not getting off with someone yet or drunk gurls, and i aint into that) and it does my head in sometimes!

So i was wondering who else here is a viring, how much of a virgin, who likes virgins ( twist that how you want) and who can remember that far back in some cases.

And before any of you say its coz im a saddo or fat (granted im not skinny but thats far from the point) most of my friends are gurls, of which i have had a thing for all of them and of which not one of them hasnt became a better friend with me after finding out. SO anyways, ure comments would be nice so plz plz plz post

Your problem is you're gay, anyone that writes like that is always wishing he was wearing a pink leather skirt and a blonde wig.

lol gay! you really think i havent heard that one before. Well i suppose just because im more articulate than you, and have a larger vocabulary than a five year old that makes me gay in your eyes does it?

Well, if oyu think im gay thats your opinon, but i really think you need to get your fucking head adjusted if you think you can judge someone just by the way they type!

quote:i really think you need to get your fucking head adjusted if you think you can judge someone just by the way they type!

Your sloppy written communication tells me that you are a nogoodnick who no doubt aspires to live off the dole and showers no more than twice a week. From your punctuation and vowel-to-consonant ratio, I'd say you're about 175 cm tall, have brown eyes and short hair, and your wang hangs slightly to the left.

Given that you used the word "gurl" and fail to capitalise words, I also conclude that you exhibit flamboyant ghey (not homosexual, GHEY) tendencies and will probably be E-gheybashed to death before your 20th birthday.

[This message has been edited by Gray (edited 07-22-2004).]

lol you know what grey, you are a sly one. As for my physical stats you gave, im 165, not 175cm, but other than that my physical stats are correct as you gave them. My poor grammer is because i touch type and always too damn busy to read through that i read and as for puncuation, i did A-level physics, os that side of my brain just never woke up when it came to working on computers.

HOWEVER, the other things i do not appreciate you saying. I am far form a nogoodnick acutally, i am usuallyvery quiet and keep to myself, extreamly talkative if you know how to get me to talk, have no desire to live on the dole seeming as im going to Keele University in September to study Criminology and Sociology, of which it is internationally renound for being the best at teaching. I have a passion to work for either the police force or Home Office, something in crime prvention anyway. And i shower 2 times a day, not 2 times a weel thank you.

Finally, the gay flamboyances, lol that can be put down to my mongolian trek last year. You do tend to become slightly more flamboyany after spending an entire month non-stop with 11 girls, but i dont care about those, thats part of who i am, bash it all you want, just shows how narrow-minded all you american yokles are.

Well i guess thats all i have to say for now, anyone else care to comment? Preferably comments what arent inulting or use curde language please.

quote: just shows how narrow-minded all you american yokles are.

Hypocrisy at its best.

quote:Originally posted by mongolia_d:

Ok im posting this topic coz it something that bothers me all the bloomin time (and if i use unsual words just put it on account of me being british :P)

Anyway, im 18 years old and a complete virgin. I mean i havent even got off with a gurl. Not that i havent tried (well actually i havent, just its always been from gurls who feel sorry for me not getting off with someone yet or drunk gurls, and i aint into that) and it does my head in sometimes!

So i was wondering who else here is a viring, how much of a virgin, who likes virgins ( twist that how you want) and who can remember that far back in some cases.

And before any of you say its coz im a saddo or fat (granted im not skinny but thats far from the point) most of my friends are gurls, of which i have had a thing for all of them and of which not one of them hasnt became a better friend with me after finding out. SO anyways, ure comments would be nice so plz plz plz post

I'll be quite honest with you. I'm a guy, 18, and also a Virgin. It used to bother me, but good 'ol internet porn has changed things over the years.

I kinda want to know what it would be like to be a virgin at 18.

I kinda feel bad because alot of times I'll tell a girl i'm a virgin because for some reason chicks dig that. Also the number of women i've slept with really turns girls off.

quote:Originally posted by ustasa:

I kinda want to know what it would be like to be a virgin at 18.

What's it like being a non-virgin at 18? I just know that my life seems much simpler without worrying about where I'm going to get laid on my days off...

quote:Originally posted by ustasa:

I kinda feel bad because alot of times I'll tell a girl i'm a virgin because for some reason chicks dig that. Also the number of women i've slept with really turns girls off.

Hehe, that's sooo cute.

Well, now I don't feel so bad. To answer the starting post, I'm 15 and have never gone on a date or anything, and am almost DEFINITELY going to aspire to be an 18, if not 20 year old virgin.

lol, its amazing that as soon as i go for a walk to watch the sunrise and try to find my center, everyone comes online and starts to post! lol oh well, i suppose it doesnt matter anymore, ive found my center and to hell with being a virgin, itll happen when it happens and thats all that matters. Still doesnt mean i dont want to know bout everyone else though lol

Although this may sound quite strange, I miss my virginity. It wasn't lost to someone whom I loved, and I kick myself in the ass for it daily.

I wanted to wait until I actually found that one, the one where it wasn't sex...it was making love.

To me it seems more passionate, more meaningful.

Well, although Im going to sound like a loser, I will admit I am for that reason.

I miss my virginity.

[This message has been edited by Saline Colors (edited 07-22-2004).]

Lol well that makes me feel a bit better, which isnt a good thing really lol. to think someone misses the one thing i want to get rid of because they only want to lose it to that "one" just like i do for my first time, huh stange way the world works isnt it?

I'm 15, and I'm of course a virgin. I don't even know anybody my age who's not a virgin, although since 15 is the magic number in a lot of cases, I'm sure things will have changed once school resumes. In the past two weeks or so I've rounded the bases with a girl who's really dug me for awhile, and I've liked as well. She didn't tell me until recently, but now the sky's the limit. I'm now stuck at third base (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=third+base&f=1&sourceid=Mozilla-search). Not that I'm stuck, it's just kind of a bit of a leap to home. I'll probably wait awhile and see what her input is. Being popular helps. Not being in the popular clique; they're a bunch of rich bitches with a cumulative IQ of a corn muffin. Just being well-known and well-liked. Whatever you do, if you're with a girl you like enough to have sex with, don't surprise her, talk it over first. If you don't, well, that's about the worst idea since Greedo shooting first.

To me my virginity was a precious thing, but it was broken because I had poor judgement.

Think what you want.

lol it seems the overall opinon so far is that viginity in some cases should be cherised and you should make sure you lose it to the right person. Well that does help me feel better i guess lol, mind you i wish some of my mates had read summit like this coz some of them are truely fucked up after losing it (im talking anti-depressants over the pricks that used them, suicide attempts, things like that: geez what has the world came to if people try and kill themselves over a lack of judgement)

I'm approaching my 20th year of virginity, and I look forward to 20 more. Makes me more attractive to certain ladies (they wanna be the first to "break me"), and quite frankly, at my age women tend to be more trouble than they're worth.

Hey now, I never said I was so distraught that I attempted suicide and such. but yes, it did make me feel somewhat shitty afterwards.

All I'm saying is that don't be too eager to loose it that any chick who will spread her legs you'll jump on. Fuck a birthday cake for all I care, I'm just putting in my input and saying that I regretted it.

Oh well, take care.

lol i want saying you tried to kill yourself, i was just saying that sometimes that what happens if oyu dont wait

I know, I know.

I'm just in a shitty mood right now, I meant no hostility twards you what-so-ever.

Simply reminising.

meh

saline.

Im still a virign. I'm probably the virginest virgin out there. Hehe, I've never been alone in a room with a girl. Yeah im a sad little 15 year old boy. gargl...

Hey all, after reading this thread, I will give my 2cents.

I am 15 (I'll be 16 in 2 months.) and not a virgin. I lost my virginity to some stupid slut, that isnt even hot. Boy did I get fucking skammmmmmmmmed, hardtime.

If I could do anything to reverse that dumb choice, I would. I really made a bad decision, and I feel really shitty about it. I wish now that I could have not done it, and waited untill marriage. I honestly feel ripped off. That ugly ass slut wasnt worth anything, but yet I got caught the heat of the moment..... I actually really miss it, ... Sometimes you dont realise what u got till its gone :'(...

Man, after her I met the girl of my dreams too.. Her name is Amy, but we have broke up since, she was my first serious relationship, and she is a nice christian girl. Who is waiting untill marriage... Anyways..... She had to let me go because her and her family are going through a midlife chrisis, her stepdad, who has been a farther to her for 8 years, is dying of a rare untreatable chest cancer. He has less then a year life expectancy...... =(...

I really love this girl, and I have never felt such deep and true love. I dont think I will ever find such a absolutely priceless diamond like her ever again... ='( ... I miss her so much... We went out for a month, (my new record...) then she let me go bc she needs time... She said that after that family ordeal is over (basicly after her dad dies =( ) she is interested in getting back together.... but it doesnt look hopefull.. :'( ....... I really thought we had had something so special..

Anyways....... I suppose it depends on the person, and their values, but my viginity is important, but its too late. One bad choice and there it went. It is important to me after, when there is nothing I can do about it.... SO ppl, think hard before you do the deed, there are many other ways of getting your partner off other then intercource...

Anyway

Peace, Love, Joy and Happiness (and all those other philisophical impossibilities, that torture me daily.....)

Peace out, godbless and take care all.

I'm 15 years old, I've fucked two guys. I knew them both well and trusted them. There are some of you who will say it's gross and I'm a little girl (which I suppose I am to some of you), but it felt okay to me. For a little while I wanted my virginity back but now I'm completely okay with it, and I am now sleeping exclusively with the guy I lost my virginity to.

I was drunk this one time and having this heart-to-heart with this guy, about 25 or so, and I was telling him how I wished I were a virgin again. So he told me he was wandering through a forest one day and he met this monk who gave him the power to give girls their virginity back. As silly as the story was, it made me feel fuzzy.

quote:Originally posted by Drugs_R_Good:

Hey all, after reading this thread, I will give my 2cents.

I am 15 (I'll be 16 in 2 months.) and not a virgin. I lost my virginity to some stupid slut, that isnt even hot. Boy did I get fucking skammmmmmmmmed, hardtime.

If I could do anything to reverse that dumb choice, I would. I really made a bad decision, and I feel really shitty about it. I wish now that I could have not done it, and waited untill marriage. I honestly feel ripped off. That ugly ass slut wasnt worth anything, but yet I got caught the heat of the moment..... I actually really miss it, ... Sometimes you dont realise what u got till its gone :'(...

Man, after her I met the girl of my dreams too.. Her name is Amy, but we have broke up since, she was my first serious relationship, and she is a nice christian girl. Who is waiting untill marriage... Anyways..... She had to let me go because her and her family are going through a midlife chrisis, her stepdad, who has been a farther to her for 8 years, is dying of a rare untreatable chest cancer. He has less then a year life expectancy...... =(...

I really love this girl, and I have never felt such deep and true love. I dont think I will ever find such a absolutely priceless diamond like her ever again... ='( ... I miss her so much... We went out for a month, (my new record...) then she let me go bc she needs time... She said that after that family ordeal is over (basicly after her dad dies =( ) she is interested in getting back together.... but it doesnt look hopefull.. :'( ....... I really thought we had had something so special..

Anyways....... I suppose it depends on the person, and their values, but my viginity is important, but its too late. One bad choice and there it went. It is important to me after, when there is nothing I can do about it.... SO ppl, think hard before you do the deed, there are many other ways of getting your partner off other then intercource...

Anyway

Peace, Love, Joy and Happiness (and all those other philisophical impossibilities, that torture me daily.....)

Peace out, godbless and take care all.

Since when is intercourse the only way to lose your virginity? Personally, I think that anything should count. I mean, virginity isn't so much physical as it is psychological. It has to do with sex being a new experience. I don't see how the method of sex should affect that.

And what's this stupid stuff about waiting until marriage? I mean, it's only a way for religion to regulate sex, and make sure that people associate it with a religious ritual, and to make sure that people respect their rituals.

I suppose that this had a legitimate purpose hundreds of years ago, which was to try to prevent people from having children before they could take care of them, but now that there's a multitude of protection options, it's just another excuse for the church to have power over peoples lives.

15, 16 in 2 months, and ya, still a virgin...i really dont try, ive gotten with chicks, but never past 3rd base...and i frankly dont care that much...i meen, theres gonna be college!

quote:Originally posted by abnormal989:

Im still a virign. I'm probably the virginest virgin out there. Hehe, I've never been alone in a room with a girl. Yeah im a sad little 15 year old boy. gargl...

HA! I got you beat. I'm 19, and the same is pretty much true for me... aside from what I refer to as "the incident with the hobbit," which nobody needs to know about.

I had an epiphany when I was a little older than you. It happened when I was surfing, and I came across "hentai", crudely drawn japanese cartoon porn.

I thought to myself "People actually jack off to this? It's a drawing!"

My train of thought went on from there and I realized that human sexuality, like practically anything humans do is completely arbitrary, and pointless.

Add to that the fact that most people refuse to take the time to figure themselves out (and thus become interesting enough to have a real conversation with) and there's really no reason for me to care about sex at all.

1. I am a virgin

2. I have a kinda preference for virgins

3. You have bad spelling and gramma

i would want a virgin, would be nice to be one again, it's a special feeling

i would also like to fuck one again (long time ago) cause damn they're tight

and yes i remember bein a virgin, i liked it and was quite proud of it (did quite some things to keep my virginity)

quote:there's really no reason for me to care about sex at all.

Don't you do things because you enjoy them?

True, it's not a huge emotional landmark (or it wasn't for me, at least). But it's fun. The same reasoning could really apply to surfing the web, or playing basketball, or playing cardgames, or smoking pot, or going to amusement park or a beach with friends...

People think about it too much. Sex is a lot of fun, and that's the reason people should have it. Yes, do it with people you care about and trust, but really, there's not a whole lot to it.

^15? Well I'll be a son of a bitch. I thought you were something like 25. All the more props to you.

And hey, Saline, try to treat it as a life lesson, not some kind of fuckup on your part or something that you should question yourself over. You're a quality person, and I know it (do you?): Believe me when I say that I do know exactly where you're coming from, on the "I wish it had been someone I loved" level, and that part of it is completely understandable, but I'm just saying, don't kick yourself in the ass for it, you know? I'm kind of rambling; sorry for that. Your thoughts and feelings regarding your experience was just a little heartrending to me, is all (not your fault - just because I can relate, but also because it strikes me as something that pains you a little more profoundly than is evident in your post, and I hate seeing good people in pain).

As for the topic...

Well, I lost my virginity to Kelly. Enough said.

Sure, she was an eager, motherfucking hot virgin.

Sure, watching her hot breath fog the mirror which she also had her tits smooshed against while I was slamming her sweet, virginal little fuck-gate from behind, while grasping her hips to pull her towards me hard when I thrust (much after the expected apprehensions/hymen thing/etc) was SO fucking hot.

Sure, diving into herwith my tongue was like tasting a slice of Heaven.

Sure, I wore the scars on my back from her sharp nails like a bunch of little trophies.

Sure, it was a fucking amazing experience, the likes of which I've never matched - except with her.

Sure, I thought I cared about her, and even loved her at the time, and thus, it felt right.

Sure, even remembering the experience is giving me wood right now.

But it was not fucking right.

If you're even a bit familiar with the whole shebang between her and I, you already know why.

I miss my virginity too.

[This message has been edited by Bleedthrough (edited 07-23-2004).]

lost it at 13 to my girlfreind of 10 years, after dating her for 2 more years i moved. We knew eachother since birth and me and her made out at 3(she was 5, she wanted to 'teach me something'). I asked her to be my girlfreind on valentimes day, neither of us knew what it was. Our parents were FREAKED at first. But they figured it was just a cute thing we were doing. I always told her i would grow up to marry her and stupid childhood things.

As we grew and matured I realized how much she meant to me at 9. Her being a black girl, she started being sexually active at a very young age(round 10). I was 8 and we would do stuff a lot, not dirty stuff... but stuff.. when i turnned 11 we started playing with eachother seeing as how we were both active. and when i was in middle school we started oral sex.

when she was 15 and i was 13 she told me she wanted to lose her virginity to someone speial... WA-KA(greatest night I EVER fucking had) stole a couple condoms from a store... because oursexual relasionship was developed so early, we started doing it more and more. We got bored with the normal stuff(we were doing it almost 2 times a day within a year) so we started doing kinky shit. In the summer of my feshman year(As i was going into sophmore year) My parents notified me that we were moving... a year later as im writing this im missing her.

I dont regret it, she was the one person i will always love, no matter what. And i know she still loves me. I still remember her eyes are brown, her favorite gum is bazooka, cuz she likes the comics, she plays guitar, she has 2 middle names, Marie and Khieah, her favorite band is mine too, nirvana.

GAH I miss her so bad... I miss how she smelled like strawberries... I miss how she used to make me run with her every day for X-country(which we both started together in middle school) and how shed watch me box. I miss all the feelings i got when i was with her, now im living all the way across the fucking globe in america...

This blows.... Now i spend my time backstabbing my freinds and laying creepy girls i dont like.

quote:Originally posted by SwordChucks:

Her being a black girl, she started being sexually active at a very young age(round 10)

Man, prepare to have your ass flamed

quote:Originally posted by stephanina:

I'm 15 years old, I've fucked two guys. I knew them both well and trusted them. There are some of you who will say it's gross and I'm a little girl (which I suppose I am to some of you), but it felt okay to me. For a little while I wanted my virginity back but now I'm completely okay with it, and I am now sleeping exclusively with the guy I lost my virginity to.

I was drunk this one time and having this heart-to-heart with this guy, about 25 or so, and I was telling him how I wished I were a virgin again. So he told me he was wandering through a forest one day and he met this monk who gave him the power to give girls their virginity back. As silly as the story was, it made me feel fuzzy.

That 'monk' was probably a Purveyor of Plastic Surgery, who had the power to restore a woman's hymen prior to her marriage to a loaded old man....

quote:Originally posted by stephanina:

Don't you do things because you enjoy them?

Sex is great fun, I'm sure. I just don't think it's the most fun I could be having at any given moment.

I seek greatness, and a sort of perfection. Any given relationship is tainted by lies and insecurities that would be detrimental to my goals.

I don't have the patience for the things that come with having a typical relationship. I don't want a typical relationship, I want a good and honest one, which means finding a good, honest woman, which I doubt will happen anytime soon.

But that's ok, because my life fills me with such joy that I can do without.

I simply have different priorities and values than most people. I understand certain things about life that most people don't need to know, so I find myself alone, but content to be alone.

you know Dromiceius i can truely relate to what yuor saying. ut like you said, your only 15/16 (cant remember and cant be bothered to look back), so your still young compared to other people. Because of this what we feel about being a virgin and have sex may vary dramatically from when were your age. In fact, i jused to think just like that up until last year (whole mongolia expedition thing, long story so i wont get into it. After doing something like that you realise that life isnt about priorities and goals and shit, sure completeing goals and in general just life fill you with joy, it still does me, but after that trip, i want soo much more out of life, hence why this thread was created in the first place.

By the way, what is it you want to achieve (other than greatness, which trust me, isnt a all what its cracked up to be anyway)that makes any relationship be detrimental to your goals?

Virginity or the lack thereof is overrated and overemphasized. Whatever happens should happen in it's own time.

Sex shouldn't be rushed, one should savor it like fine wine and enjoy it's aroma.

But, if in condideration of most peoples impatience they must have sex now, so be it.

[This message has been edited by Dark_Magneto (edited 07-24-2004).]

Magneto, are you using drugs?

I've had oppurtunities to lose it in the past, but I didn't love those girls and it would have meant nothing to me. So I turned them down. I'm 18, still a virgin by my choice.

21 year old virgin doesnt bother me at all

I have my virginity.

I win teh c00ki3!!!11

Thanks bleedthrough/infra...Your posts always make me feel better.

Oh, and check your friggin email!

I really don't know if I consider myself a virgin; I try not to think about it.

There was an episode when I was five, when my parents were stupid enough to hire a fifteen-year-old, male babysitter. All I remember is him kissing me and feeling me up, can't remember anything after that..but I know things did happen, however far they went.

And then I've had various experiences with girls, but nothing past making out with a guy.

If I were to have sex with a guy right now, I wouldn't feel like I'd competely lost my virginity. I probably wouldn't feel any loss over it, or even think of it as a momentous occaision. I lost my virginity in steps, I guess.

quote:Originally posted by SkiPpYP:

Man, prepare to have your ass flamed

Why? As far as I can tell it is true, most black chicks I know are a lot bigger sluts than white chicks that I know.

I really do believe the whole virginity thing is over rated. Lost mine when I was 16 and I really feel no different now then I did 2 years ago...

quote:I really do believe the whole virginity thing is over rated.

That's what I'm talkin' about.



[This message has been edited by Dark_Magneto (edited 07-25-2004).]

lol, i just realised this is my first ever thread in here and its already got almost 50 responses, hehehe, me soo happy, well hyper actually but meh

I lost it when I was 15 and honestly I didn't even think twice about it. I had been going out with the girl for five or six months and we weren't breaking up anytime soon. And it's nice to be experienced. After we broke up, the girl became a bit of a slut, but it doesn't really bother me.

quote:Originally posted by Dark_Magneto:

Virginity or the lack thereof is overrated and overemphasized

but so is life......

Done everything except intercourse, which in my head makes me a virgin. I could give a fuck about losing it, makes no real difference. It's not like I'm going to see the world in a new light. I think about it a lot, then get all hurt inside and stop. Oh, I'm 16 by the way.

well mongolia that sucks, im sorry man. how ironic... i wish i had my virginity back...nahhh, not really. look at it this way if it helps; sex, definatly over-rated. anywho, i know its fucking lame, but save yourself for someone you really care about. you dont need to loooovvvee them, just dont piss your first time away on just anyone ok.

quote:Originally posted by touchmeimsick:

Done everything except intercourse, which in my head makes me a virgin. I could give a fuck about losing it, makes no real difference. It's not like I'm going to see the world in a new light. I think about it a lot, then get all hurt inside and stop. Oh, I'm 16 by the way.

im in the same boat but im 21 done evrey thing but have sex get to know the person before you do it have to many friends with std's just watch your self

quote:Originally posted by Drugs_R_Good:



I am 15 (I'll be 16 in 2 months.)

quote: Originally posted by Trench Coat Mafia:

15, 16 in 2 months



Why do people find it important to tell everyone how many months they are away from turning a year older?

Anyway, I lost my virginity when I was 15 to my boyfriend, and I don't regret it. It was a bit more "romantic" than a girl I know who lost hers on the front lawn of a day care centre in the middle of the night, to some random she'd only just met, just to get it "over and done with".

What a waist.

Edit: Dumbass typo.

[This message has been edited by soul_assassin_girl (edited 07-26-2004).]