My b/f and i were having sex last nite.... and we were at it pretty rough, after a fe minutes it started to hurt, its like the side of my insides hurt really bad....

It happened before, i was wondering what's the reason for this.

Usually that happens to me when we make love for hours, but this time it happened within minutes of us starting.

What kind of hurt? Burning, cramps, sharp pain, sore, throbbing,...?

Sounds like you're being rubbed raw. After a while you'll dry up and you'll stop producing natural lubrication. Sex without lube = pain. That is, if the it's the walls that hurt.

Invest in some water-based lube and things shouldn't hurt as much.

If it's your cerivx that hurts, try positions that don't have such deep penetration and keep your ankles away from your neck.

[This message has been edited by MrMojoRisin (edited 07-19-2004).]

Maybe you guys just got into the rough stuff a little too soon. Try pacing yourselves next time.

@ green lantern, its more like a burning sensation.

@mr mojo, yeah there was an instance where i did get dry and he did put it in..we stopped cause it hurt, then after a while when i got wet again, it still hurt....

quote:Originally posted by ZANESGIRL:

@ green lantern, its more like a burning sensation.

@mr mojo, yeah there was an instance where i did get dry and he did put it in..we stopped cause it hurt, then after a while when i got wet again, it still hurt....

You were probably just still sore from hurting earlier. Try the lube thing.

To answer the question posed in the title: yes, it's normal. Now listen to Mojo.

COOL, THX GUYS

quote:Originally posted by ZANESGIRL:

COOL, THX GUYS

No problem. That's what I'm here for.

I hope, I just sincerely hope, that you have not busted your ass.

Astroglide or K-Y can be very helpful as your lubrication level may change with your cycle.

You are now fully entitled to tell your bf that you bust your ass for him.