Question for the females, why do you get a thrill out of anal sex? Does it stimulate something or what? Soz, I'm just interested why girls find anal sex so pleasurable. Please, please, no gay jokes, I'm begging you.

The rectum's loaded with sensitive nerve endings. If you do any serious stretching of the area without properly "training" her for it (gradual, slow, with a small (blunt and clean!!) object, and an assload of lube; pun intended), you're going to hurt her, and she's never going to let you in the back way again. If you have a little patience and go at her pace, I promise that you'll eventually be hearing her beg for you to slide it up her ass now and again.

The same nerve-ending thing more or less applies to males, by the way, just in case any "friends" of yours were...curious. Anal stimulation ALONE isn't too too likely to make you (er, your "friend") cum, but in conjunction with, say, masturbation, it'll amplify the pleasure quite a bit. As for women, well..It IS possible to bring her to orgasm via the ass, but she has to like it, first of all, and you have to understand both your woman and her physical anatomy quite well. Do some reading. And no, that one chick who paints pictures by giving herself paint enemas and blowing it out her ass onto a canvas is not cumming. I'm talking about stimulating a "normal" orgasm via an unorthodox stimulatory method.

In short, do some reading and be adventurous about it, if you aren't already. And no worries - IF you do everything right, you won't end up like that poor bastard who started the "I just ruined my sex life.." thread, nor will you end up with some horrible penile sepsis.

Now, go sail the seas of research, Captain Stabbin! Gotta slog through the boring before you get to the fun part, but I promise you it's worth it in the end; nothing quite like giving a wanting woman a good ass-ramming, if I may say so crudely.

Oh, and I'm a guy, by the way, though a fucking well-read one who's speaking from some profound experience. Sorry, but it's true. I'm not a sage, but damnit, I know the Hershey Highway like the back o' me hand.

Mind that all women are different, though -If she just DOESN'T like the idea, don't be an asshole (/grin) and try to push her into it. Otherwise..I wish you luck in your future Anal Adventures, and all, Maverick. Fly it right on up there!

/Me does that Iceman-esque teeth-clicking thing

-Bleedthrough/IR

[This message has been edited by Bleedthrough (edited 07-17-2004).]

I think Bleedthrough is right, you've got to take it really slow. The back door is a very touchey place. As for training her pooper I'd reccomend a small-medium sharpie. It's got no sharp edges or anything. Go for the gold, sport.

I've always just taken some juice from the puss over the starfish and stuck it in... maybe she was into sadistic anal monkey sex all along.

Well, I've asked both my wife and my girlfriend and they both say different things. For my wife it just a very intense and very intimate way of lovemaking, for my girlfriend it's more of a SM thing. She likes it nasty and hard and she even thinks about having two guys doin' a little sandwich with her in the middle. Great perspective I'd like to say.

Future assmen take my advice 'Lick it before you kick it', use a SHITLOAD of lube especially with assvirgins and DON'T force anything !

I allways make sure that everything is very very clean before I get in there, who needs infections ?

Happy Hunting

quote:Originally posted by bongofury:

Well, I've asked both my wife and my girlfriend...

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quote:Originally posted by elf:

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A girl that is his friend.

the "walls" between pussy and ass are very thin. if you ever are in both at the same time (for instance, doin' her in the ass, while fingering her) you can usually feel your dick (not really well, but you still can)with your fingers becasue its so thin. so when you're doing it in her the ol' browneye you'd be pushing against alot of the same nerves as you would during normal sex. I dont know if I explained what I mean well enough, but thats what I think.

quote:Originally posted by Shodan's Own:

the "walls" between pussy and ass are very thin...

I remember from a thread a long time ago that it breaking is a serious risk and it's hard to patch because it's so soft. I think the poster described it as being like trying to make a patch stay sewn onto jello for long enough for it heal...