I'll start off with a little exposistion. I've been going on and off with this girl for a while now, we're back on now. She's fairly attractive and can be hot when she wants to. I don't mean to sound hopelessly shallow here but, appearances are a big deal. A lot of times she wears things that don't really compliment her figure. Also, she's not exactly a slut. Now that's a good thing but I'd like her to be a bit more sexual, maybe get her to have sex or give me head.

Now here's the part where I ask for help. How can I tell her in a gentle subtle way to dress sexy? How can I hint to her that we should get a bit more serious sexually? I was thinking about getting drunk with her but last time I did that it didn't work out so well. She was obnoxious to say the least. Oh yeah, one more thing, how can I tell her to shave her bush?

1. Next time she dresses sexily, tell her she looks really nice in that (skirt, shirt, whatever).

2. Just take the normal actions of sexual progression and let her go as far as she wants to (kissing > fingering/handjob > oral > sex).

3. Next time you guys are chatting ask her what things about guys are sexy to her, and hope that she asks the same. If she doesn't, just casually mention it after she tell you what she likes.

You can always buy her something sexy to wear. Special Occasions are nice to sort of conceal the fact that you want to acentuate her ass and titties, but if a birthday whatever isn't around the corner you can always claim it's a nice "just because" summer outfit for her to wear.

then you appear sweet, which can lead to the sexuality you desire.

As for a bald eagle, what was suggest already is the best advice I could think for that. In my travels though I don't think I've ever come across a white woman who wasn't already shaved. Puerto Ricans have been trimmed, and the only black chick I've been with was el natural. Maybe it's a cultural thing, I dunno.

Both great suggestions and I will use them both.

Keep em coming !

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quote:Originally posted by Raiden85:

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shut up

Lead by example. So dress sexy, in a miniskirt and tanktop, she'll get the message.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Lead by example. So dress sexy, in a miniskirt and tanktop, she'll get the message.

Go for it.

jay kay

pz

Why would you want to try and change someone when there are already plenty of women out there who do the things you like, on their own?

I suspect she's someone who likes you a lot, and probably lacks self-esteem. That would explain why you think you can get away with criticizing her choices and persuading her to tailor herself more to your liking.

I don't mean to sound hard-assed, but if you were female and asking for ways to get her guy to improve himself, you'd get flamed for being a bitch who's trying to make a guy change for her.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

...I don't mean to sound hard-assed, but if you were female and asking for ways to get her guy to improve himself, you'd get flamed for being a bitch who's trying to make a guy change for her.

Well, good thing I'm a guy then.

If you're kissing etc u can always try the old hand on head thing where you push her down to your cock...

And with the shaving...shave yours first & show her & suggest she do the same and/or watch some porn together & tell her how u like the girls without any hair...