how can girls hit on guys??? I sure as fuck cant..im so shy around guys that I like so some of the guys that I like might give up if I dont put any moves on them.

Dude, guy think that your flirting with them anyway. The key is to give them a deffinite comeon like a grab or a squeeze here or there. Just go with the flow yo.

P.S. Being stoned might help .

P.P.S. They should have a smoking weed smiley.

Being stoned doesn't help, imo. Get drunk and you're set. I'm not in the mood for much when I'm high.

Be respectable (meaning, no open-mouth gum-chewing or "like, YAH" speak), smile, compliment here and there, be something different, be nice. We aren't so hard to pick up.

With you girls, I'm either A: Sweet to a level just below sickening, B: flattering, C: funny, or D: Direct (I asked a hot waitress out once by saying "Why don't we both have a good night, sometime?" and giving her a napkin with my phone number, when she said "have a good night!" to me). Any combination of the above.

I may not be the hottest guy ever, but god damnit, I'm extremely charming. It's for that reason I'm not one of those never-laid nerds like most people who look like I do are.

quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

The key is to give them a deffinite comeon like a grab or a squeeze here or there.



Definately. It can be hard at times to discern if a woman is interested, or if she's just open and friendly, so if you're interested in the guy let it be known.

Yea, when I am sober.... yea I can't really flirt at all, but when I am drunk..... I am like one of those 80 year old perverts that flirt with every hot person of the opposite sex in the visinity.

If you have trouble getting enough nerve to touch them, try tickling.

It helps if you're attractive, or the guy is drunk.

A not very attractive looking girl practically begged me to make out with her and I was drunk and semi-stoned, so I agreed and made out with her for a bit. I think she probably wanted more, but *shudders*

laugh at their jokes and playfully touch one of their arms while doing so, I'm pretty sure every guy knows what a girl is thinking when she does that.

In case there are any guys that dont

what she's thinking when she does that:"I want dick, preferably this guy's"

Edit: grammer

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If you are atractive, then just find some guy and ask if he wants to have sex for free. If not then find a guy who is waster, it shouldn't be too hard. If you are really desperate then find one of those drunk homelesspeople wandering around the streets. There is an easy way out of everything.

quote:Originally posted by whatatripthishasbeen:

how can girls hit on guys??? I sure as fuck cant..im so shy around guys that I like so some of the guys that I like might give up if I dont put any moves on them.

Because not all girls are shy like you?

It's so weird to see a thread like this. I've never ever had a problem with hitting on guys. Only issue I've had is that I tend to hit on everyone without noticing. Guys are rediculously easy to control. You have like a million options. If you're smoking pot, shotgun it. That's the best. If you're not smoking pot, just touch him a lot. Punch him in the arm, feel his muscles, whatever. Just touch him. He'll get the idea. Giggle a lot if you feel like you should. Sit close to him. ...this is pretty simple shit. Tell him you have a secret, the lean in and gently bite/suck/lick his earlobe. That should seal the deal

It would be a lot easier if you were direct and said: "I want you, but im too shy"

Then, everything falls into place...

Drunk girls are such a turnoff.