okay, when i have sex i dont get any pleasure at all.just fucking pain! I dont even wanna get close to a huge dick! I've had sex like 2 times, does it get better every time or something?

Perhaps you should try a smaller dick?

Though if even a guy who's hung like an Oscar Meyer frank hurts you, you might want to see a gynecologist. Also, you might try masturbating more, with and without objects: You're probably just young and fresh, and need to gradually introduce your pearly gate to some stretching/frictional/dilating action. Y'know; like breaking in a new pair of Levi's. Go easy, though; I'm not telling you to try and force in your fist, or anything.

Or learn to love anal sex, maybe. =\

By the way, mail me or get AIM or something, sometime. No, that's not a come-on; it's good to chat with totizens.



[This message has been edited by Bleedthrough (edited 07-15-2004).]

If intercourse hurts, your probably doing it wrong. Perhaps you need to loosen up some. Find a smaller cock, work it good, but no to long, but often. Try stuffing yourself full of your fingers, see what feels good to you.

Actually it does get better every time... it will fucking hurt the first few times but trust me, it gets much better.

quote:Originally posted by fletch_999:

If intercourse hurts, your probably doing it wrong.

You're doing intercourse wrong!!

Sex gets a lot better after a while. My first time was.. weird and not all that enjoyable. But the second time was with a different guy and it was GREAT.

Your body type and his size can clash a little, specially when you're still tight. Lube and saliva should help make that easier.

Sex for me hurt like the first million times. Here is what I did (and I now have the best time of my life): I slathered a bunch of lube on both me and him. I got on top of him, legs on either side, so I was right above him in the correct position for him to enter me. Then I had him thrust himself upwards into me. Yes, don't ask whether it hurt, because it did. Although not as much as you would expect. I found that the sudden pain was much better than the slow pain with him trying to be "gentle". I just got it over with and every time after that, it hurt substantially less. The lubrication and him just shoving into me all at once were the important bits.