Now i've pleased very easily many girls in my 17 year lifetime since my first time at age 13, so I know what i'm doing, but my girlfriend of 5 months and I have made love probably 35+ times and i'm not sure she's feeling anything. She doesn't make noises with normal intercourse, except when i use my fingers ALSO when having intercourse, and she still doesn't seem to get the most satisfaction. We've tried MANY different positions and i can last for a long enough time for a girls to get off, but she just can't seem to orgasm. What do you people thing??? is she having nerve problems or something or do I just have to keep going or something. But the other thing is that she doesn't LIKE it when I touch her clitoris even though it brings her pleasure!?! whatcha guys thing? thanx for any advise or personal experiences you share!

Even after a few months it looks like she's still kind of timid. It's pretty common (or so I've heard) for girls to tell guys not to do the things that actually bring them pleasure. Instead they just let themselves be bored by normal intercourse. In general, penetration isn't the big orgasm-maker for most girls. It's clit action. She probably doesn't want to show signs of pleasure (moaning, shaking, ...other stuff). That, and a lot of girls think they're going to pee when they receive pleasure.

That's all stuff that I've gathered from being on totse for awhile. I don't really know this shit from experience

I have never orgasmed (how the fuck do you spell that?). I've only come close one time, and I made the guy stop because I started getting really dizzy and seeing funny. That's sort of unrelated, I just wanted to mention that people have weird stuff happen sometimes. Anyway, are you guys using lube? Also, was she a virgin before?

Seems to me like glitter punk has it right. Either that or she is a frigid bitch. I know how that can be. Except with me, the sex is always amazing for both of us (her screaming, and moaning like a retard) but she just never feels like getting into it to start with.



I don't know why, she says she doesn't know why, and frankly, I am starting not to give a fuck anyway. If I want to cum, I'll fucking do it myself. I'm not going to fucking beg for shit.

She wants it, she can come and get it, I'm pretty much done making advances. Wouldn't you if you always got turned the fuck down, or even worse, ignored?

Bah!

quote:Originally posted by mobassassin:

Now i've pleased very easily many girls in my 17 year lifetime since my first time at age 13, so I know what i'm doing, but my girlfriend of 5 months and I have made love probably 35+ times and i'm not sure she's feeling anything. She doesn't make noises with normal intercourse, except when i use my fingers ALSO when having intercourse, and she still doesn't seem to get the most satisfaction. We've tried MANY different positions and i can last for a long enough time for a girls to get off, but she just can't seem to orgasm. What do you people thing??? is she having nerve problems or something or do I just have to keep going or something. But the other thing is that she doesn't LIKE it when I touch her clitoris even though it brings her pleasure!?! whatcha guys thing? thanx for any advise or personal experiences you share!

Or there is the possibility that in real life you're shit in bed and the other girls were faking it to keep you happy...

think about it.

Twiggy's most likely right.

Just give her a good ol fashioned donkey punch. When she turns around to say "what the fuck" shoot one right up her nose. POW!

quote:Originally posted by stupid noob:

Seems to me like glitter punk has it right. Either that or she is a frigid bitch. I know how that can be. Except with me, the sex is always amazing for both of us (her screaming, and moaning like a retard) but she just never feels like getting into it to start with.



I don't know why, she says she doesn't know why, and frankly, I am starting not to give a fuck anyway. If I want to cum, I'll fucking do it myself. I'm not going to fucking beg for shit.

She wants it, she can come and get it, I'm pretty much done making advances. Wouldn't you if you always got turned the fuck down, or even worse, ignored?

Bah!



drop her, that relationship will never work. if sex has already become a difficulty, you can be sure that you're not right for each other. Its just going to aggravate you and make you feel like shit, and in turn you'll make her feel bad as well.

Of course, I am assuming that you are somewhat young, if you've been married for a while then ignore what i just said.

Well, I'm 22, and we ahve been together for 2 years. Everything else is fine for the most part, she just has no sex drive I guess.

If it's going to end, she is going to have to leave me. I am happy where I am. As happy as I can be right now anyway.

You are right about it being aggravating, and making her feel like shit. That's why I said fuck it, I don't want to feel like shit, and I don't want to make her feel bad.

It feels like we are married though. We sure act like it.

Hey, here's a good idea. Fucking talk to her about it.

QUOTE:

"Or there is the possibility that in real life you're shit in bed and the other girls were faking it to keep you happy...

think about it."



Well they did a pretty fucking good job of it, with the shaking, screaming, moaning, saying my name uncontrollably and are like over 20 girls REALLY faking it retard. Fucking thing about it before you try to use you mouth unsuccessfully like your dick works. Don't worry bout that part, they orgasm so much they squirt ok?!! thanx anyways though!

Another good idea: combine the penetration with clitoral stimulation.

My girlfriend didn't like sex with me at first, due to bad experiences with her past boyfriends. Matter of fact, she said it hurt. Now, my above-average sized penis might have had something to do with it, but that's besides the point.

What I did was take it slow. I didn't fully enter her until like the third time we had sex, and when I DID, I used this technique I read about in Men's Health. The clit's like the penis for women, and their vagina's like our balls. Crude analogy, but it's true. What you do, is you brush up against her clit WHILE you enter here. I suck at explaining it, so I'll just transcribe what it said in Men's Health:

quote:Because you're so busy, and opportunities for sex are so rare, you want to substitute quality for quantity. It's time to add to your aresenal the sexual position that certain researchers claim is the best in the world.

Now, normally, the greatest sexual position in the world is any position that involves us. But check this out: Sex therapist David F. Hurlbert conducted a study in which men and women made love using what's called coital alignment technique, or CAT. When the couples in the study used CAT, 75 percent of the women had orgasms during intercourse. And 90 percent of the women reported that CAT intensified the strength of their orgasms; 60 percent said the techniques boosted their libidos.

You employ the technique by starting in the missionary position, with your weight on your elbows and her knees slightly bent and raised. Now, slide your entire body up, so that your pelvis is slightly above hers. In this position, the base of your ardent manhood is rubbing directly on her white-hot passionflower.(We write adult greeting cards on the side.) Relax your upper body and allow her to bear your weight. Now have her press her pelvis into yours; you respond in kind. Allow her to set a rhythm that feels right to her, and keep up the tango until the ceiling collapses.

Fellas, I'm telling you, try this out. We went from her just lying there with a pained look in her eyes to her legs wrapped around my torso, pulling me as tight to her as possible, and biting the fuck out of my shoulder.

quote:Originally posted by mobassassin:



Well they did a pretty fucking good job of it, with the shaking, screaming, moaning, saying my name uncontrollably and are like over 20 girls REALLY faking it retard.

Actually, man, those are signs that they ARE faking it.

quote:Don't worry bout that part, they orgasm so much they squirt ok?!! =

Suuuuurrree they do. And I bet they scream to the high heavens while they do it too, am I right?

quote:Originally posted by I_Like_Traffic_Lights:

Just give her a good ol fashioned donkey punch. When she turns around to say "what the fuck" shoot one right up her nose. POW!

i like the use of the word pow. i'm off to view bukakke. i laughed out loud btw