I have been tryin to get with this girl for a while, flirting here and there, and we go out together like shopping and what not right, i asked a freind to talk to her and see if she is really into me or not, my friend told me that he asked her if she likes me and was interested and a relationship, she said she had to think about it.....does that automatically mean a no is followed?

actually, no it doesn't.

because she wasn't giving you the answer first hand, therefore doubt exists that she'd say something like that and mean "no" to save you the pain...

perhaps she simply meant what she said *shrug*

just give it some time, and dont change what you're doing, either she'll come around or she won't, hakunamatata

If she had feelings of "like" for you and undertones of said "like" and it's furtherment were basis for your outings, then she would have said either "Yes" to your friend, or "No", because perhaps she was too embaressed or didn't want to admit anything to just anyone.

What it sounds like to me is that she thinks your a "safe" guy and she can hang around you all the time without worrying about you jumping her at any given moment.. Then again, you could just plain out ask her like grown-ups do instead of coming on an internet forum and asking help from the lack-luster relationship experience of we the Totsizens.