When I was 13 i met this girl at a church thing. We both liked eachother and then we dated, she moved and i only see her when i have to go to church when its a holiday. Recently I think about her a lot and I can rember EVERYTHING that we did, and It was amazing. Her family likes me and my family likes her. now im in chicago and I probably wont see her. I really want to see her again, just to kinda see if its still there. I mean she was the only girl i ever felt like I would even thing of marrying. I know she still loves me cause every time I see her at the rare church things we talk and shes told me she still thinks about me. I compare all my other GFs to her.

I was thinking about inviting her to chicago for a visit. but i dont know. I mean She livs 6 hours drive away and I dont want to put that much time in to any type of relation ship.

any ideas or comments or questions welcome.

How old are you now? If its been a while since you talked to her she might think your a creep for just randomly inviting her over

i jsut saw her in february before i moved.

im 18

I'd say to go for it ask her to come to stay with you and your family then tell her how you feel about her

its not my family its my dad and me, and im not home much .

So why the fuck are you asking asshole when the only thing your saying is you don't want a long distance relationship.

That should be your answer right there you stupid piece of shit.

You don't want one so stop talking about it.

yeah, but I fucking love her, like i really want her, but GAH i just dont want to be stuck on her like

i know i cant find anyone as good as her. Like I would marry her in an instant if wanted to but i dont have all my shit together yet.

Arrange a meeting, like to go someplace after one of those church things. Call her, get her AIM address, talk, arrange.