Ok well i went over my friends house and her cousin was there. and the girl was absolutely beautiful. so we all hun out all day and we ended up laying in my friends bed together with me kissing her neck shoulders and back. finally we kissed on the lips a little, and well i really wanna be with this girl. so now i can't get her out of my head but my friend says shes a bad girl for me, but i still cant get he rout of my head. and i dont think this girl really wants me because i whispered into her ear "i think you should go out with me" and she said "later" and then we never talked about it again. so im crazy about this girl but she lives like 25 miles away. and shes leaving town to go home tomorrow morning. so i dunno what to do any suggestions please?

--DA

Was that a typo? Or does she actually only live 25 miles away?

Why does your friend think she's bad for you? Just ask her out straight-up and see what she says. This subtlety stuff is bullshit. Better to know what's going on.

Aww, infatuation is great.

quote:Originally posted by stephanina:

Was that a typo? Or does she actually only live 25 miles away?

Why does your friend think she's bad for you? Just ask her out straight-up and see what she says. This subtlety stuff is bullshit. Better to know what's going on.

no she does really live 25 miles away. and i want to but i hate being turned down. dont know of anyone who does... but yeah.

Just take a deep breath and ask. You seem to be in enough pain wondering what the fuck to do as it is. Just ask her. She'll either say yes or no. If she says yes, rejoice. If she says no, move on. You've liked other chicks, right? It's also really not that bad to have someone to think about. I like having crushes. The minute they like me back, it gets boring.

She only lives 25 miles away. Unless there's water taking up those 25 miles, that's really not a long way at all. It's probably less than a half hour of driving. Don't complain.

quote:Originally posted by MrMojoRisin:

Aww, infatuation is great.



Yep, we have all experienced it at one point or another.

You have been with this girl for half a day and you now want to be with her? MrMojoRisin is right this time.

Love is driving you, but are you willing to pay for the gas?

quote:Originally posted by stephanina:

Just take a deep breath and ask. You seem to be in enough pain wondering what the fuck to do as it is. Just ask her. She'll either say yes or no. If she says yes, rejoice. If she says no, move on. You've liked other chicks, right? It's also really not that bad to have someone to think about. I like having crushes. The minute they like me back, it gets boring.

She only lives 25 miles away. Unless there's water taking up those 25 miles, that's really not a long way at all. It's probably less than a half hour of driving. Don't complain.



im not proclaiming my love for the girl, i just like her alot. and well i did ask her and she said maybe next week if she comes down. and 25 miles is alot when i'd have to ride a bike that far. im only 15 i can't drive...

hey, takes me 30 min to ride 5 miles, so 150 minutes to ride 25 miles (assuming good constant pace), that's just a lil over 2 hours, not too bad, and plenty of exercise (other than what you get when your at her house ).

quote:Originally posted by MrMojoRisin:

Aww, infatuation is great.

It's the only way to go. It's so elating.

Rich, either go for it or don't. No grey area, you know I can't stand your whining about this crap. If you don't go for it next chance you get I know I'll never hear the end of your "love struck" self. Good luck with it man..

- Peace

For fuck's sake, my normal male friend - YOU'RE HORNY FOR HER. I'm not saying she isn't funny or loveable or charming: She's female. I'm saying that you're misinterpreting your Testosteronical (I made that up) impulses: They're telling you to grunt, bend her over, and then take her as your mate for five minutes, not fall in love with her.

YOU'RE HORNY FOR HER. IN LUST. NORMAL MALE - IT'S OK, BUT IT'S DANGEROUS IF UNCHECKED.

I'm not saying you might not be together someday, or something. I'm saying that right now, your dick is likely rock-solid and you're fantasizing about sinking your tongue into her, but you don't realize it. Think hard, and DON'T fucking let this get out of control, man. Oh, and beware feminine charm: It's great if you can anticipate it (as in, deduce her true intentions from it), but it can result in complete ruin for you, too - She might not have meant to, though; teenage girls are subject to their own hormonal impulses, emotion, and histrionics alike.

Moral of the story: You might save love for at LEAST college. Right now, I have two words for you: Fuck buddy.

Good luck in your travels...Now, would you please..bring me a glass of wat-er..?

quote:Originally posted by stephanina:

[B] The minute they like me back, it gets boring./B]

You remind me of a certain character in an episode of Scrubs...

Maybe,... you should just fuck her, then ask if she wants to start something up, if she doesn't FUCKIT, you already got some ass!!!!

Sounds like a typical high school crush. Trust me on this, we have all been there (most of us at least). Doesn't seem very likely that you will be able to have a real relationship with this girl, but at least you can have some fun when she comes to town .

quote:Originally posted by DeadlyAssassin:

no she does really live 25 miles away. and i want to but i hate being turned down. dont know of anyone who does... but yeah.

You hate being turned down? As opposed to all us people that love being turned down?

quote:Originally posted by DeadlyAssassin:

any suggestions please?

--DA

go fuck yourself

DA

i would jump to the opportunity, but you made yourself vulnerable, that was waaaaay too fast for you to ask her out, ask for her digits, then talk.

in other words, your easy

[This message has been edited by Kosmonova (edited 07-18-2004).]

just go for it, honestly...

if nothing else it'll get a load off your back

Yea... Mojo is right, it's nothing but infatuation my friend. Trust me, in a week you'll forget about her. You'll be alright man.