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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2004-07-12, 00:10
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16 and....
I 16, ill be 17 next month. All ive ever did was make out with a girl. Never anything more. I know its bad, what do you guys think?
And dont say LOSER, cause i already know i am!
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#2
 2004-07-12, 00:35
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Re: 16 and....
You're not a loser, you're a normal teenager with raging hormones. Give it a chance, take things slow... you're getting there but there's no need to hurry. I've had sex with millions of women, well... maybe closer to 20 or 40, POINT IS, I was a virgin until I was 20, and I turned out alright!
You're normal, enjoy the ride.
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#3
 2004-07-12, 00:40
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Re: 16 and....
Don't buy into that peer pressure bullshit. You are normal so just take it at your own pace. You have a lifetime to live your life, no need to rush.
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#4
 2004-07-12, 00:49
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Re: 16 and....
The problem i have is when i date other girls that arent virgins. I am so i dont feel on the same level as her. Than she talks about bullshit on how i have to wait a month b4 i get action but they always break up with me b4 i get anything. Than the next day u c her at a party giving bjs? wtf where was my action, didnt even get to 2nd base with her.
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#5
 2004-07-12, 01:00
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by bilzo:
Don't buy into that peer pressure bullshit.
Thats funny. Last time i checked most 14 yr old boys have sex. By age of 15 like 70% had sex already. And there are facts by my own viewing.
You think maybe getting an escort will b best? Cause im almost 17 and prob had 3 gfs my whole entire live and they prob lasted 2 weeks tops each.
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#6
 2004-07-12, 01:08
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Re: 16 and....
Just take your time Alex... it's not a game of who gets laid quickest. Quality is better than "first". It may seem like a big deal right now but there's responsibility that comes along with that. Don't be the dickhead that's high-fiving your buddies for getting his dick wet while "she" is crying to her friends about being pregnant. It will all come in due time, you're better off waiting for the right moment than trying to rush it for peer's sake. Relax and enjoy.
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#7
 2004-07-12, 01:10
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Re: 16 and....
Ha, I'm turning 17 July 29th and I've only had like 2 girl friends, and we didn't do anything. I mean nothing, like not even kiss, heh. I think this is because I didn't really like them at all but anyways, this isn't because I'm a loser it's just because I'm not trying. I haven't even asked a girl out before, they asked me, this is just because I'm not really interested and don't care, right now I have other things that I'm more interested in, maybe you're doing the same thing, maybe you're just not trying.
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#8
 2004-07-12, 01:55
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Re: 16 and....
True, i havent been trying. My 3 g/fs all have came to me. This is great advice. I guess it is very true that since i do alot and have plans that i actually dont spend time hanging out with girls and chasing them.
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#9
 2004-07-12, 02:02
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Re: 16 and....
you fucking loser!
on a side note: how can you expect a female to fuck you when you think of yourself as a loser.
fucking loser.
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#10
 2004-07-12, 02:13
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Re: 16 and....
also very true.............
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#11
 2004-07-12, 02:15
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Re: 16 and....
becomeaplayer.com (http://becomeaplayer.com)
pickupguide.com (http://pickupguide.com)
enjoy, get laid.
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#12
 2004-07-12, 02:32
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Re: 16 and....
I'm exactly the same as you man..
Think of it like this.
It is going to happen..so stop worrying about it, and just look for your chance..theres really no point in worrying about it, its not that much of a big deal. It will happen. Trust me.
Shittie
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#13
 2004-07-12, 02:34
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by whiteass:
you fucking loser!
You fucking...white...ass...DAMN!
But seriously, if you want to get laid then just put some more effort into it. I am going to have to agree that it really is quality over first. If I were you I would wait..
As for your little statistics, that would leave 25% of boys at age 15 not having sex. Besides, these numbers prove nothing except that there are a lot of slutty horny girls out there.
About your girlfriend offering you play after a month, just put more effort into keeping the relationship alive. If I were you, I wouldn't be dating these sluts in the first place. But that it just me...
EDIT: These 'stats' that you viewed on your own don't mean a thing. Relax and take it slow...
[This message has been edited by bilzo (edited 07-12-2004).]
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#14
 2004-07-12, 03:13
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by bilzo:
EDIT: These 'stats' that you viewed on your own don't mean a thing. Relax and take it slow...
[This message has been edited by bilzo (edited 07-12-2004).]
As Benjamin Disraeli said: "There are three kinds of lies: Lies, damn lies, and statistics".
Poster: I am in a similar position. I haven't really gone any further than making out (except for one or two exceptional situations that occured purely by luck, I assure you), and I feel the same way, especially about hooking up with non-virgins - talk about pressure.
I'm also in the same boat of not taking the intiative with girls. I just don't want to have to actively seek a girl to hook up with, you know what I mean?
That being said, at worst you'll just have to wait until you go to college. Apparently, college is a fantasy-land in which beautiful women and drugs fall from the sky like so many raindrops.
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#15
 2004-07-12, 03:17
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Re: 16 and....
Exactly Stats are shit. How the fuck do u think that they get statistics? They ask the teenagers and guess what alot of these teenagers just lie.
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#16
 2004-07-12, 06:16
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by YupThisAlex:
I 16, ill be 17 next month. All ive ever did was make out with a girl. Never anything more. I know its bad, what do you guys think?
And dont say LOSER, cause i already know i am!
Well, at least you've had girlfriends, and made out with someone. I'm not that much younger than you, and I haven't even done that.
It's probably because I can almost never start conversations with people I don't know that well, and I say 'huh?' as a response to things people say to me a lot. In many scenarios, even when I try to say stuff, a lot of times I find myself unable to say it, or it comes out sounding stupid. A while ago, there was this girl who I really wanted to talk to, and had many opportunities to talk to, and had so many things I wanted to ask her and talk about. Throughout all of these opportunities, I wrestled with myself to try to speak, but I found myself unable, in most cases. During the ONE high school dance I ever went to, I danced very little, and by myself. During a party I went to recently, where most of the people there were girls, I talked very little, and basically stood around, away from the crowd, while most people were dancing and singing along to quasi-rap music that in my opinion was too loud and not very good. Anyways, I left early from that.
Personally, I've recently come to the conclusion that I will never be good at things such as dances and parties, and possibly even most group conversations (which I only succeeded in once, and it was about computer games, with the people in my java programming class); I generally can never jump into them. It's just not my kind of thing. I'm trying to cope with the fact that I'm just not a very social person. I'm just too shy, I have too many doubts, and I think when I should speak instead.
Nevertheless, I continue to try, and I attempt to maintain my self esteem.
So, while it's tempting, and I'm obviously worse than you at stuff like this, I will refrain from calling myself a loser.
Basically, try not to feel bad about yourself.
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#17
 2004-07-12, 07:00
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Re: 16 and....
Big deal. It may seem like every 14yo boy is out getting laid, but its not the case.
When I was 14, not that long ago only a few years ago, about 3/4 of the boys between the ages 13 and 15 were still virgins. I dont think things have changed that much in a few years do you?
And look at it this way. Not everyone gets a root when they are your age or younger. But you dont stay a virging for ever you know, not unless your a priest or a nun. Wait forget the priest, especially if he is catholic. God damn paedodile scum.
Anyways back on topic, dont be so hard on your self. I know guys who are 17 and 18 and still havnt gotten more then head. Thats more then you have gotten, but they are also older then you. So relax and dont worry about it.
And like that other guy/girl said, if you think of your self as a loser, then its goign to be a long time before you get a fuck on a date.
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#18
 2004-07-12, 07:01
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Re: 16 and....
You're fucking right on schedule. Always. Why? One should make his or her own schedule throughout life, not abide by others. I have a tattoo reading "Aut viam inveniam aut faciam" for, among other reasons, situations like this. That means "I'll either find the way or make it". Advice: You'll never FIND the way you need to go; you have to MAKE it. You are the master of your fate, but only to a certain degree - fate decides what lies ahead on the path you forge for yourself.
Don't try to live too fast. Life is fleeting. I'm only 26, but I remember being 6. The 20 years passed have gone by like lightning, but you only notice this in hindsight. Do this: Remember back to when you were turning 7 - ten years.
Feels like a month ago, doesn't it?
No worries. Fate will throw a nice, nubile chick for you to deflower sooner or later. Stay the course.
[This message has been edited by Bleedthrough (edited 07-12-2004).]
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#19
 2004-07-12, 07:18
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by YupThisAlex:
I 16, ill be 17 next month. All ive ever did was make out with a girl. Never anything more
i'm with you, man! then again... i got a feel under the shirt... but that doesn't count. you wave a penny at that ex o' mine and you get a blowjob an' a half. just because you havn't gotten far with a chic don't mean shit. i find i get more respect from people because of that. if you don't get any further than that, and girls hear about it, yer a friggin' magnet.. unless you didn't choose that. i, on the other hand, have some morals, and because of that i get girls wanting to go out with me. but i'm bi, and it's slightly annoying when you only get girls. then again... meh, the more the merrier
- Shalakai
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#20
 2004-07-12, 16:50
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Re: 16 and....
I'm 20, and I have yet to kiss a girl (I don't care)
Feel free to use me as an example to feel better about yourself.
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#21
 2004-07-12, 17:56
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by YupThisAlex:
I 16, ill be 17 next month. All ive ever did was make out with a girl. Never anything more. I know its bad, what do you guys think?
And dont say LOSER, cause i already know i am!
DUDE, I thought you were this kid Alex in my old neighborhood... except hes 17 and hes only made out with a girl and he isn't that big of a loser but he has no luck with the ladies.
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#22
 2004-07-12, 21:34
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Re: 16 and....
Dude dont worry about it your not a loser. Infact use that to your advantage. Its now cool to be a virgin trust me. My friend lies about beeing a virgin all the time and all these girls want to break him in so he gets hella pussy.
Just next time dont avoid it. Tell the girl that your a virgin and your proud of it. Then she will want to get on to you to break you.
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#23
 2004-07-13, 00:28
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Re: 16 and....
It's not a bad thing and you shouldn't always believe what your guy friends tell you. I believe that a good 40% of the guys in my graduating class are virgins. The thing is there are guys who are virgins, guys who've had sex once, and then guys who have had a lot of sex. Don't be the latter, its not that much fun.
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#24
 2004-07-13, 00:44
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quote:It's not a bad thing and you shouldn't always believe what your guy friends tell you. I believe that a good 40% of the guys in my graduating class are virgins.
Thinking of about 30 random guys that I know, from all areas of the social spectrum (I know you were all going to imply that I hang out with one group of people and it was inaccurate) from wigger to punk to stoner to ghetto to just plain white, only 1 or 2 of them are virgins.
But I have more respect for people who are virgins and are not self-conscious about it than for people who are man-whores and brag about it to everyone within earshot.
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#25
 2004-07-13, 01:13
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by YupThisAlex:
I 16, ill be 17 next month. All ive ever did was make out with a girl. Never anything more. I know its bad, what do you guys think?
And dont say LOSER, cause i already know i am!
Dude, I'm 17 and I've never even made out with a girl. I've never kissed a girl, I've never done anything. People hug me, but that doesn't count cause I never hug back.
Edit: I've never had a girlfriend either. I think relationships are a huge ass waste of time. It's not like you get anything worth while out of them. Unless you live in a state with alamony and you bad a rich chick.
[This message has been edited by Adian (edited 07-13-2004).]
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#26
 2004-07-13, 01:21
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by ChickenOfDoom:
Well, at least you've had girlfriends, and made out with someone. I'm not that much younger than you, and I haven't even done that.
It's probably because I can almost never start conversations with people I don't know that well, and I say 'huh?' as a response to things people say to me a lot. In many scenarios, even when I try to say stuff, a lot of times I find myself unable to say it, or it comes out sounding stupid. A while ago, there was this girl who I really wanted to talk to, and had many opportunities to talk to, and had so many things I wanted to ask her and talk about. Throughout all of these opportunities, I wrestled with myself to try to speak, but I found myself unable, in most cases. During the ONE high school dance I ever went to, I danced very little, and by myself. During a party I went to recently, where most of the people there were girls, I talked very little, and basically stood around, away from the crowd, while most people were dancing and singing along to quasi-rap music that in my opinion was too loud and not very good. Anyways, I left early from that.
Personally, I've recently come to the conclusion that I will never be good at things such as dances and parties, and possibly even most group conversations (which I only succeeded in once, and it was about computer games, with the people in my java programming class); I generally can never jump into them. It's just not my kind of thing. I'm trying to cope with the fact that I'm just not a very social person. I'm just too shy, I have too many doubts, and I think when I should speak instead.
Nevertheless, I continue to try, and I attempt to maintain my self esteem.
So, while it's tempting, and I'm obviously worse than you at stuff like this, I will refrain from calling myself a loser.
Basically, try not to feel bad about yourself
same for me in the bold
[This message has been edited by celbii (edited 07-13-2004).]
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#27
 2004-07-13, 15:37
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Re: 16 and....
18 year old virgin. sorta sucks. i find women (in my case anyway) to be a waste of time, that always leads me to drugs.
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#28
 2004-07-13, 15:43
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by YupThisAlex:
I 16, ill be 17 next month. All ive ever did was make out with a girl. Never anything more. I know its bad, what do you guys think?
And dont say LOSER, cause i already know i am!
How are you a loser? I once knew a 22 year old virgin, who had gone about as far as you. Maybe not even that far.. And whats the big rush with getting laid/doing shit with chicks? If you haven't done it, then you haven't. Nobody cares, so quit worrying about other peopels views, and worry about yourself.
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#29
 2004-07-13, 20:11
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by whiteass:
becomeaplayer.com (http://becomeaplayer.com)
pickupguide.com (http://pickupguide.com)
enjoy, get laid.
Worked well for me (the second one), but three tips:
1. It takes commitment, you need to be visiting nightclubs twice a week minimum really
2. Make sure you actually do the 'hi' test before you attempt anything else
3. Read the message boards since the field reports are one of the best resources to learn
Even if you can pick up girls without it, it will boost your confidence and erode the 'physical attractiveness' barrier that stops you from getting to know girls you think are 'out of your league'. It'll also make you feel like much less of a loser.
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#30
 2004-07-13, 20:37
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Re: 16 and....
I'm fucking 15 and I've never even kissed a fucking girl. I just don't think about it and it keeps me from oing insane.
JESUS FUCKING H. CHRIST! I'm watching TV right now and Janet Jackson is having a dry humping orgy with like 20 people. they're all just rolling around on the floor humping each other.
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#31
 2004-07-13, 20:47
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by YupThisAlex:
Thats funny. Last time i checked most 14 yr old boys have sex. By age of 15 like 70% had sex already. And there are facts by my own viewing.
You think maybe getting an escort will b best? Cause im almost 17 and prob had 3 gfs my whole entire live and they prob lasted 2 weeks tops each.
Here is my advice: Find something to do. For example, I recently started a completely anonymous independent school newspaper where students can have anything published. I haven't thought about my loser-ship in a few days. And by the way, don't think of drugs as something to do. Drugs are fun once in a while but if you do them whenever you have nothing important to do they'll ruin your life.
edit: If anyone tries to make fun of you for not having sex then they're an insecure asshole. Find some new friends if they make you feel bad.
[This message has been edited by chainy (edited 07-13-2004).]
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#32
 2004-07-13, 22:04
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by ChickenOfDoom:
I think when I should speak instead.
Err... mate? That's not a fault
Conversational skills will develop naturally, but don't worry about it. Almost everyone has the same problem, really, except those who don't seem to be burdened with having to "think" all the time. And you don't want to be one of them.
Remember that public speaking ranks above death in the "Top Ten Fears" list.
As for relationships, I'm the same as some others here: 16, 17 in September, and never enven thought about a relationship. I haven't met anyone I'd particularly want to have a relationship with yet, so I'm not bothered. And neither should you be!
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#33
 2004-07-13, 22:34
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by YupThisAlex:
Thats funny. Last time i checked most 14 yr old boys have sex. By age of 15 like 70% had sex already. And there are facts by my own viewing.
You think maybe getting an escort will b best? Cause im almost 17 and prob had 3 gfs my whole entire live and they prob lasted 2 weeks tops each.
alls i have to say is atleast im not alone out there....only im a couple years younger.
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#34
 2004-07-21, 20:24
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by YupThisAlex:
I 16, ill be 17 next month. All ive ever did was make out with a girl.
oh my GOD!! You haven't had sex, and you're already 17!! You're going to die a lonely virgin!
On a slightly more serious note, raise your hand, bring it level to your face, pull it back, and smack yourself. You're 17, who the hell cares that you're a virgin? Have some fuggin' patience!
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#35
 2004-07-21, 21:15
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quote:Originally posted by Adian:
Dude, I'm 17 and I've never even made out with a girl. I've never kissed a girl, I've never done anything. People hug me, but that doesn't count cause I never hug back.
Edit: I've never had a girlfriend either. I think relationships are a huge ass waste of time. It's not like you get anything worth while out of them. Unless you live in a state with alamony and you bad a rich chick.
[This message has been edited by Adian (edited 07-13-2004).]
I'm basically in the same boat.....i'm 17, almost 18 (in a month and a half) and i've never even made out with a girl, never had a girlfriend, nothing...it sounds like a lot of the people on here either have a lot of sex and like it, or they've ha no sex, and they say they like it, and they haven't done it purposefully (i mean they have concsiously chosen to not try).
Basically, i was in the group of people who just didn't care, until recently. And now that i do care, and i want to try to do shit with girls, i find myself like ChickenOfDoom, fumbling with my words when i try to talk with them, and thinking instead of talking. Not only that, but whenever it seems i'm getting somewhere with someone, it blows up in my face (i took a girl out on a date once, and we were in a cab changing locations from where we were, heading to this hotel party type thing Where i was hoping the night's work would have paid off) she called up her 'boyfriend' who i didn't know existed).
i don't care about stats, i don't see myself as a loser, and i don't want to do anything because of peer pressure, it just seems like i'm missing out on something, and it seems like at this point when i go out trying to talk to girls and shit, they're way more experienced than i am, and i just feel small, and like i couldn't supply what they want....i don't know, i've just been confused about girls lately.
~meaty
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 2004-07-21, 21:35
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Re: 16 and....
quote:Originally posted by chainy:
Here is my advice: Find something to do. For example, I recently started a completely anonymous independent school newspaper where students can have anything published. I haven't thought about my loser-ship in a few days. And by the way, don't think of drugs as something to do. Drugs are fun once in a while but if you do them whenever you have nothing important to do they'll ruin your life.
edit: If anyone tries to make fun of you for not having sex then they're an insecure asshole. Find some new friends if they make you feel bad.
[This message has been edited by chainy (edited 07-13-2004).]
hahaha, it's funny that you've said this, cause since i haven't been able to get with any girls, i've settled for smoking weed a lot...it helps with forgetting about all that crap, and getting it off my mind. It's probably added to the fact that i haven't gotten any, but i wasn't getting any before i started smoking, so no big difference really...
~meaty
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#37
 2004-07-21, 21:54
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Re: 16 and....
hey i have just turned 17 and although i have done oral and had sex several times i know alot of my mates havent done anything cept make out with girls and they are 18+ dnt worry about it most ppl who are our age and say they have done stuff are probably tlkin shit anyway so dnt worry bout it. when you find a girl you really like and she really likes you it will be worth the wait. if you dont rush into it your 1st time will be better believe me 
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#38
 2004-07-21, 22:06
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Re: 16 and....
johnney5's 2 cents:
I agree, any girl who says: "You're not getting anything until one month", is just a slut. Nobody should ever set a time like that, especially if they are giving blowjobs like that. Honestly, i kinda feel like those girls should become pregnant just to teach them a damn lesson.
Im 16 never kissed a girl but...
In 8th grade a girl wanted to go out with me, i said no, that was the end of it. Why did i say no? Well, first im not all that attracted to her, second i wasnt ready for a relationship.
9th grade sucked i guess because i didnt even talk to many girls nor get asked out by one. That year blew by me so fast, i could have changed it a thousand ways easily
Anyway i just finished 10th grade and this is when girls started coming into my life... After thinking really hard about stuff this was the year i realized that sex and all that isnt what its cracked up to be. Sex is a physical feeling, who cant say its a good feeling, but its still physical (well i cant totally say that because the only sex ive felt was my right hand, but ANYWAY), LOVE is what im in for. People might think thats sorta dumb, romance and all that, but you dont have to be romeo and fucking juliet to understand that relationships arent all about sex. Thats what people are making it these days, people date for sex, and usually all that hugging kissing is considered meaningless. All of those girls that are considered "sexy" by all my friends, are now just nothing, im not attracted to them at all. My friends think im retarded, but whatever... Even if some of those girls look pretty, their beauty is shadowed by their sluttyness and dumb "superiority" or whatever, over the other girls. Oh did i mention they are materialistic as fuck?
But as for me,
I like a girl, she likes me, but im not sure if i even want to start a relationship.
I also like her friend, she knows i like her, i want to get to know her before i start a relationship with her friend.
and lastly i dont like "talking about myself" but maybe when u think of someone who feels this way you immagine some "weirdo" or whatever, but no im just a normal guy with more mature insight 
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#39
 2004-07-21, 22:56
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Re: 16 and....
I'm guessing you don't talk to girls much. Start to. It helps. Actually, start talking to everyone. It doesn't matter if they're popular or huge losers, it helps to have acquaintances. After you start talking more, never EVER call yourself a loser. Don't be a cocky bastard either, but dont put yourself down. Finally, don't be a douchebag. That's how I see a lot of guys finding girls, but the girls are stupid sluts who aren't worth jack. I used to be a pretty big loser until I decided to change. It sure as hell wasn't an overnight thing, but it was pretty quick. I can't believe how gay I used to be. :-/
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#40
 2004-07-22, 05:38
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Re: 16 and....
i really can't relate to this thread.i sit at home all day,do nothing,and i fucked 3 different chicks this fortnight.wtf is wrong with you??!anyway,good luck man.*peace smiley*
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#41
 2004-07-22, 05:47
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quote:Originally posted by flipskate1323:
never EVER call yourself a loser.
good advice.self-esteem is what its all about.
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#42
 2004-08-19, 22:46
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its kinda sad that some of you are 18 and havent even kissed a girl [besides you mother] hahaha thats sad anyway.............. having conecctions is always good my first tit was cuz my friends at it wasnt him it was a real gurl pretty hot to
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#43
 2004-08-19, 23:32
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i just turned 13 when i got some and was damn near suicidal then. good thing is, once you get the monkey off your back, its gone forever.
good luck fellas
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#44
 2004-08-19, 23:48
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Honey, in my graduating class [of 17 yr olds, mostly, some 16], I would estimate at least 70% are virgins.
What i would say is that the more inner-city you are, the earlier you have sex [agree or disagree, just what i've seen on here]. For example...here, in my semi-small city, if you had sex at 13 you STILL wouldnt be talked to, and you would STILL be called a stupid whore - regardless if it was just once. so honestly? don't worry about it.
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#45
 2004-08-20, 00:01
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YupThisAlex
hey what he said is so true man
im 15 and i lost my virginty jsut a while back liek a month ago it was great i was on holidays and boned her and left the very next day now tell me that isnt awsome or what
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#46
 2004-08-20, 00:51
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quote:Originally posted by flipskate1323:
I'm guessing you don't talk to girls much. Start to. It helps. Actually, start talking to everyone. It doesn't matter if they're popular or huge losers, it helps to have acquaintances. After you start talking more, never EVER call yourself a loser. Don't be a cocky bastard either, but dont put yourself down. Finally, don't be a douchebag. That's how I see a lot of guys finding girls, but the girls are stupid sluts who aren't worth jack. I used to be a pretty big loser until I decided to change. It sure as hell wasn't an overnight thing, but it was pretty quick. I can't believe how gay I used to be. :-/
Don't listen to any of the afterschool special bullshit or any of the cocks making fun of you, listen to this kid he is exactly right. I'm 16 in 11th grade and I haven't been kissed either and never really gone out with a girl, and just last summer I discovered what this kid is talking about. I thought and tried so hard to get or even talk to girls, it was useless. I would see girls and think so hard about what to say or do, it was fucking gay.
I started just talking to people, its tough, but you have to figure how to do it, its definitely a skill, but after awhile you get used to it. It helps to start talking with kind of the less popular, "loser" type kids, cause you're less intimidated by them. Then kind of work your way up.
One thing to remember though: When I would think about what to say, I would think about how they saw me, they probably thought I looked stupid or scared. Then I started thinking, fuck, they are just like me, they think about how you see them to, despite their almost flawless disguise, they are afraid of initial interaction too. That is the important part, remember that shit, think about it when you're about to talk to someone. People are terrified of new people, but usually after one word, most people will talk back. Instead of walking to school with your head down(like I did all throughout middle school) stand up straight and walk with a smile. It sounds gay, but after you do it for awhile it really changes you. If you walk proud and *humble*-key, don't be arrogant, it really helps. Say hi too, I thought this was so gay forever, it was really childish, I was fuckin dumb, but if you say hi to someone for no reasons, it is amazing what it can do, Fuck, its cool.
Just be so nice its almost gay, you'll think its stupid, and it does feel wrong, but girls like it. I've had to do a personality change, and its a conscious effort at first.
Also, don't care about getting laid, this happened to me almost at once. It was weird, every night I would lose sleep over getting laid and making out and shit. You just have to completely say FUCK to all of the hype over getting laid, and getting action and all of that bullshit. Its gonna happen, guys that are ugly as fuck get action. Just try to go with the flow, its gonna happen when it happens, you can't change that, and its gonna happen.
Its like when you're worrying about puberty when you're 13, you kill yourself worrying about it, but when it happens you forget about everything before that, it all seems like nothing, all that torture, was really nothing. This is the same shit, just a different thing to worry about, just ride out the torture, and it sounds gay, but everythings gonna work out. And this is all from firsthand experience from me, I love this shit, how shit works, its gay most of the time, but one amazing thing from out of nowhere can change anything, fuck yeah.
Peace. 
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#47
 2004-08-20, 01:46
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I can give u some of my charm Alex. Ul prolly get there in no time pal. What's the most charming thing u've eva sed 2 huh?
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#48
 2004-08-20, 03:26
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Stop fucking complaining. Didnt read past your post. Im 16, most ive done is fuckin hugged a girl... and she was a good friend of mine at that. Ive never had a gf, ive never had any of that shit. Dont fucking complain.
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#49
 2004-08-20, 05:42
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Re: 16 and....
First off, I hate to say it, but totse isn't quite the unbiased sample of whether or not not having sex at your age is normal.
In all seriousness though, NO ONE GIVES A FUCK! Anyone who makes fun of you for being a virgin is a loser and you should stop hanging out with him/her. Anyone who even asks is borderline. It's really nobody's business.
I'm pretty sure a large majority of my friends are virgins, and they're in college. They're not losers either. Some of them just don't like relationships at all, and some of them just haven't had the opportunity. But no one cares and none of them make fun of each other for that.
Just forget about "getting laid" and all that bullshit and have fun. It'll happen eventually. Sex is not the be all and end all purpose of life. That's what drugs are  .
But seriously, stop worrying, it really doesn't matter.
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#50
 2004-08-20, 09:57
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i didn't do anything more than you when i was sixteen, nor when i was 17..... i'm 20 now and have been having sex almost everyday since halfway my eighteenth plus had several threesomes with two girls, 3 this year already, and a few before this year two......so you'll be alright
ohw and you want more than kissin, just believe in yourself but don't brag and don't run after ladies like a little dog
[This message has been edited by dark-easterbunny (edited 08-20-2004).]
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#51
 2004-08-20, 18:07
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Re: 16 and....
Who bumped this thread?... it's very old.
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#52
 2004-08-21, 03:29
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quote:Originally posted by stephanina:
Who bumped this thread?... it's very old.
well you for one. and me.
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#53
 2004-08-21, 04:01
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quote:Originally posted by YupThisAlex:
I 16, ill be 17 next month. All ive ever did was make out with a girl. Never anything more. I know its bad, what do you guys think?
And dont say LOSER, cause i already know i am!
jesus christ, i am in teh exact same situation. except its not a situation. stop bitching and dont watch any more MTV.
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#54
 2004-08-22, 21:00
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yeah dude, i was like u for a while, im about the same age. i wa all wrapped up in that i had standards. now i just fuck ugly girls and girls who nobody else is having sex with cuz they think their ugle or something. it doesnt matter to me, if we both like sex, nothing wrong with having it. but it is kinda pointless without any feeling. i still havent had a serious gf or even actually liked someone for probably 3 years, its kinda weird. but, im a weird fellow.
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#55
 2004-08-23, 19:39
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quote:Originally posted by Adian:
Dude, I'm 17 and I've never even made out with a girl. I've never kissed a girl, I've never done anything. People hug me, but that doesn't count cause I never hug back.
[This message has been edited by Adian (edited 07-13-2004).]
That fucking sucks dude. *thinks of sexy girlfriend wearing stilettos and a thong and smiles*
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#56
 2004-08-23, 22:15
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I didn't loose my virginity till i was 17 but i sure did make up for it betwwen then and 23. hang in there and do what i did, find the slut at school let her copy your homework and bam you are laid.
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