me and my babys mom have been togther for almost 2 years on and off. more off than on. and it never fails, she treats me like shit just to start a fight(usually over the phone) and she says we fight to much and thats why we are not together. well she moved in with me and we are fucking i guess i told her i want more and she doesnt know. for a couple weeks it was fucking great but she went down to go house sit her moms house while they are were on vacation and know shes being all shitty again. i love this girl to death and i want her in my life, this is the only girl i could ever consider marrying, by the way im not a 15 year old punk talking about being in love and marriage, im ready to settle down and have a family but she acts like a bitch. is there any advice for getting her to calm down and not be afraid to commit to someone(she has commitment problem)

She had a kid. How can she have a commitment problem?

I'm unclear on something. She went to house-sit her mother's place, but when she came back did she move back in with you?

When she starts a fight, just try to ignore it. If you really love her as much as you say you do, just take a deep breath and remember what you like about her. Try to tune her crap out.

What was happening when it was going so well? You were on a roll, just try to get that going again. Recreate it.

well she moved in before the housesitting thing and the commitment problem is with guys. its genetics her moms had like 10 husbands, this is an exageration as i dont know the real number but it gives you and idea. and she hasnt got back yet shell be back tommorrow. and everything was going well we were best friends again and more you know

Maybe you should just have a "no phone unless necessary" policy. It sounds like things are much better in person.

And just to clarify, commitment isn't genetic, commitment-phobia is learned (which would explain the relationship to her mother's marital habits).

i wasnt really serious bout the genectics but its cool, i like sarcasm