so this is the thing... ive been going out with this chik for like 1 month... weve kissed...touched... all except blow job and fucking .. and fingering... and yesterday , she told me.. well ill come at your house during the night.. so i can sleep with you... i said k... so she arrived.. i was in my sleeping things. boxxers nothing else.. and we started talking talking and getting closer.. untill.. i poped a bonner...... while i was fingering her.. then.. i said.. sorry.. ive gota realy go piss.. so i got up.. and went piss.. she was still on the bed... waiting for me.. so i got back to buisness.. i fingered hr until she said..dam.. thats good... and then i said.. why dont we fuck.. she said na.. im not on the pill... babys.. i convinced her for like.. 30 min.. until she said ok.. so i said.. ill go put on an condom.. but.. THERES THE PROBLEME! .. i could gt my FUCKING dick hard!!!.. for like 30 min i was rubbing , touching .. fucking .. jaking , i even asked hr could i finger you again so that it get back up.. NOTHING! .. PLEASE HELP!

there are several ... things that happed that day...

-i had a drivers licence test...(passed)

-she escaped from hr house to come and see me .. more .. stress

-the fact taht its my forst time .. STRESS

-the fact that i could get my dick up.. MORE STRESSS!!!

-the fact that my .. mouth was all dry..

-the fact that she had to go in 40 min .. or else her parents would have known...

-the fact taht it was 4am



well that all.. tell me if its only because i was SO stressed out that i could get up..or cause i CANT get up?... i usealy jack off 4 times a day and NEVER NEVER had probleme getting it up!... so please.. tell me how to fix this shit!.... and tell me about whats my probleme?

You were having a fucked up day, nothing more.

My best guess would be the massive amounts of stress.

Drivers test stress.

Worried about getting caught stress.

First time stress.

Time limit stress.

Trying to convince her to have sex stress.

Try again when there aren't as many things that could go wrong. (I.E. you both have free time, don't have to worry about getting caught.. stuff like that)

Nokio

Someone's gonna say it sooner or later -

GET OVER THE GOD DAMN FULL STOPS!!!

Jesus Christ you were lucky anyone bothered with this thread it was so pain staking.

Anyway - you answered your own question.

Stress.

STRESS.

STRESS!!!!!!!!!!!

You kept saying it yourself - what else could it be?

Aww but run-on sentences are so fun don't you think so I know I do I used to write them all the time when I was little but now I'm big so I don't anymore but yea he pretty much answered his own question you're right



Nokio

Have her give you a BJ to make it hard, or go in the vagina pre-condom to get it hard. Works for me.

quote:Originally posted by soul_assassin_girl:

Someone's gonna say it sooner or later -

GET OVER THE GOD DAMN FULL STOPS!!!

what could it be?

Yeah...what would a full stop be?

again ..i i saw her today.. we were close.. i fingered her.. but i could get a bonner.. if i had.. i would have fucked her for shure.. but.. i cant get it up!!.. at least.. she left.. and 1 min after she left . i jacked off.. and i was able to get it up... lasted about 8 min ... tel me how could i manage to .. run over this stress.... and fuck my girl freind!... any .. advices?..anything.. she getting bored of me not getting up... ... mee too.. also.. ive noticed this.. since the last couple of days of weeks!.. i dont masterbate?..i dont get unwelcomed boners.. i used to get LOTS! of them before...

quote:Originally posted by jcl666:

again ..i i saw her today.. we were close.. i fingered her.. but i could get a bonner.. if i had.. i would have fucked her for shure.. but.. i cant get it up!!.. at least.. she left.. and 1 min after she left . i jacked off.. and i was able to get it up... lasted about 8 min ... tel me how could i manage to .. run over this stress.... and fuck my girl freind!... any .. advices?..anything.. she getting bored of me not getting up... ... mee too.. also.. ive noticed this.. since the last couple of days of weeks!.. i dont masterbate?..i dont get unwelcomed boners.. i used to get LOTS! of them before...

a full 30% of your post was ".". I won't respond to something like that. And yes I do have a solution: it's called taking a chill pill (valium), dude.

[This message has been edited by deptstoremook (edited 07-07-2004).]

If you learn to speak the English language I'll reply to your post and tell you what you can do.

Are that many elipses REALLY necessary?

In...his...case...yes...

It gives me the impression that he is gasping for air whilst telling us this information.

You were probably too nervous. Same exact thing happened to me, and we just lay there together for a while. Then I was like fuck it, and I did.

I think too much foreplay can work against you some times man. Like I'll get a boner as soon as we start making out, and then it's gone after a while. If the girl is ugly just think of porn or her sister or something.

Maybe your are gay homey

You answered your own question. Stress fucks up your performance. It happens to everyone. Just calm down.

"Bullshit!! you got scared!, I put the game in your hands, and you got scared"

hahah yep u got scared, because you didnt think you would make it that far

Viagra.

quote:Originally posted by Unwyred:

In...his...case...yes...

It gives me the impression that he is gasping for air whilst telling us this information.

LOL too true!! hehe

dude normally i wouldn't recommend substance abuse, but how about some substance USE? you seriously need some alcohol in your system, (not lots) just to untie that massively tightly knotted ball you've wound up into.

She's going to get fed up eventually with your:

1) spastic attempts to convince her to have sex

2) spastic attempts to regain your erection

3) spastic attempts to do it all over again the next day

i'm sure she doesn't have THAT much patience. Just simmer down. You're like a bee in a glass, and lemme tell you something kid: the minute you succeed in getting hard and getting it in her, you're going to go "ooph!" and cum within half a milisecond, and she's just going to roll her eyes and wonder for the thousandth time what you're so uptight about.

This thread's been open a day and I'm the first to call TROLL? Weird.

Stress/not ready

Dude shit happens to alot of people. Dont jack off. Just stop all together till you get laid. The longer you go the easier it will be to stay up. And stress yes, but mostly you are nervious at the time. So just relax dont think about "OH SHIT OH SHIT IAM GETTING LAID" think about stuff that turns you on like her chest or whatever else. Dont think about what your doing just think about how good it feels. Let me know if it works.

Just relax & dont think about it...

See if she will give u a blowjob first...

quote:Originally posted by jcl666:

so this is the thing... ive been going out with this chik for like 1 month... weve kissed...touched... all except blow job and fucking .. and fingering... and yesterday , she told me.. well ill come at your house during the night.. so i can sleep with you... i said k... so she arrived.. i was in my sleeping things. boxxers nothing else.. and we started talking talking and getting closer.. untill.. i poped a bonner...... while i was fingering her.. then.. i said.. sorry.. ive gota realy go piss.. so i got up.. and went piss.. she was still on the bed... waiting for me.. so i got back to buisness.. i fingered hr until she said..dam.. thats good... and then i said.. why dont we fuck.. she said na.. im not on the pill... babys.. i convinced her for like.. 30 min.. until she said ok.. so i said.. ill go put on an condom.. but.. THERES THE PROBLEME! .. i could gt my FUCKING dick hard!!!.. for like 30 min i was rubbing , touching .. fucking .. jaking , i even asked hr could i finger you again so that it get back up.. NOTHING! .. PLEASE HELP!

there are several ... things that happed that day...

-i had a drivers licence test...(passed)

-she escaped from hr house to come and see me .. more .. stress

-the fact taht its my forst time .. STRESS

-the fact that i could get my dick up.. MORE STRESSS!!!

-the fact that my .. mouth was all dry..

-the fact that she had to go in 40 min .. or else her parents would have known...

-the fact taht it was 4am



well that all.. tell me if its only because i was SO stressed out that i could get up..or cause i CANT get up?... i usealy jack off 4 times a day and NEVER NEVER had probleme getting it up!... so please.. tell me how to fix this shit!.... and tell me about whats my probleme?

yah like the guy after you said, "you just had a fucked up day" fuck her tomorrow or just eat her pussy till she cums