I was with this girl the other day, and she asked for a back massage. So I said alright lay down, she took off her top (was wearing one of those dinky bikini tops, with short shorts) and laid down (I pitched a tent noticable from 50 yards away :P), I started massaging her back in a 'sensual' way, after about 10 minutes of this shes twitching and moving with my hands and I guess writhing (sp?), and then stands up on all fours and asks me to down into her snuff-snuff, wich I do...Anyway the point is, she obviously planned this from the beginning, but how do you get a girl to accept backrub -> fingering that you know, might like you, but doesn't neccessarily want to be finger fucked? Whats the protocol for seducing women into hand sex (that didn't plan it from the beginning)?

drugs

^^^lol

Work your hands lower and lower every time. I fingered this one check that I gave a foot massage too. Drunk as fuck I was, didnt even bother with the pants. Just kept going further and further up her leg, and ended up at a point where I couldnt get any higher, so I comprised by going inside.

quote:Originally posted by whiteass:

Work your hands lower and lower every time. I fingered this one check that I gave a foot massage too. Drunk as fuck I was, didnt even bother with the pants. Just kept going further and further up her leg, and ended up at a point where I couldnt get any higher, so I comprised by going inside.

Smart idea, much better than backrub.Infact, that ingenious. I love you.

I tend to get that alot :/

Keep working that hand lower and lower but watch out for that little trick she may pull, i call it "the gatekeeper". She may lay her arm across there, and as soon as you get "too close" the gatekeeper pushes your hand away. Try again and the gatekeeper breaks your hand off. Then your stuck giving her a backrub with one hand and its no fun because you know thats all its gunna be.

BEWARE "THE GATEKEEPER" !!!!

What would happen if you confront the "Gatekeeper" with some form of weaponry?

quote:Originally posted by VladimirIllyichLenin:

What would happen if you confront the "Gatekeeper" with some form of weaponry?

It tears your balls off.

quote:Originally posted by whiteass:

I tend to get that alot :/

Not nearly enough .

When I give back massages I just give back massages. I like to give then almost as much as I like receiving them. There's just something about a female's back...

Anyway, when I want to get something going I just pull their pants down...lemme explain. I give very extensive and long massages. This icludes their shoulders, upper back, sides, hips, lower back, and ass (<--key).

Start out just pulling her shirt up (possibly off, depending on the amount of privacy available) and her pants (or whatever they are wearing) down a bit to expose more of their back. Then get to the massaging. Be very thorough and act like you know what you are doing. You may want to un-snap her bra.

Once you have gotten her nice and relaxed with your r0x0r massaging skills reach under her (she'll probably lift her body to give you a better reach ) and unbutton and unzip her pants. If she asks what you are doing just ask her if it makes her feel uncomfortable and if she says yes, then just say ok and continue with your massage. If not, then pull her pants a little ways down her ass and continue massaging. Don't neglect the rest of her back, though. Go back over the whole thing many times during this process (which is quite long, but very satisfying). Move the pants down every now and then and massage her ass and sides.

Once she is nice and comfortable with her pants below her ass (since you have been giving her a killer massage, right?) start concentrating more on her ass and work your way twards her pussy. Eventually you should start lightly rubbing he pussy along its length, making sure to brush the clit. Do this a few times and then back away a bit and concentrate on massaging different areas.

After doing the above for a little bit start really concentrating on her pussy, eventually inserting your finger(s) into her (and of course, stimulating her g-spot). You can then take it from there.

Important nuances:

Always keep your hands moving and rubbing.

Every now and then kiss her neck, upper back, side (next to her breasts), and ass.

Massage oil makes the experience 10x more sensual and smooth.

Know how to give a decent massage. Be firm, steady, and thorough.

You may not want to go through all of that trouble just to get your fingers sticky, but I for one love giving back massages and enjoy every minute of it.

Massage, make love, be happy .

I know someome who was giving their girlfriend a back rub and then slipped his thumb up her butt. She was pissed.

quote:Originally posted by #MANIHÜNEE#:

drugs

that's the most intelligent thing you've ever said.

now go away.

quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

Not nearly enough .

When I give back massages I just give back massages. I like to give then almost as much as I like receiving them. There's just something about a female's back...

Anyway, when I want to get something going I just pull their pants down...lemme explain. I give very extensive and long massages. This icludes their shoulders, upper back, sides, hips, lower back, and ass (<--key).

Start out just pulling her shirt up (possibly off, depending on the amount of privacy available) and her pants (or whatever they are wearing) down a bit to expose more of their back. Then get to the massaging. Be very thorough and act like you know what you are doing. You may want to un-snap her bra.

Once you have gotten her nice and relaxed with your r0x0r massaging skills reach under her (she'll probably lift her body to give you a better reach ) and unbutton and unzip her pants. If she asks what you are doing just ask her if it makes her feel uncomfortable and if she says yes, then just say ok and continue with your massage. If not, then pull her pants a little ways down her ass and continue massaging. Don't neglect the rest of her back, though. Go back over the whole thing many times during this process (which is quite long, but very satisfying). Move the pants down every now and then and massage her ass and sides.

Once she is nice and comfortable with her pants below her ass (since you have been giving her a killer massage, right?) start concentrating more on her ass and work your way twards her pussy. Eventually you should start lightly rubbing he pussy along its length, making sure to brush the clit. Do this a few times and then back away a bit and concentrate on massaging different areas.

After doing the above for a little bit start really concentrating on her pussy, eventually inserting your finger(s) into her (and of course, stimulating her g-spot). You can then take it from there.

Important nuances:

Always keep your hands moving and rubbing.

Every now and then kiss her neck, upper back, side (next to her breasts), and ass.

Massage oil makes the experience 10x more sensual and smooth.

Know how to give a decent massage. Be firm, steady, and thorough.

You may not want to go through all of that trouble just to get your fingers sticky, but I for one love giving back massages and enjoy every minute of it.

Massage, make love, be happy .

Well if you finger her, your going to get some, so its better then all the other shit. Good idea also, combining this with the foot massage will be a KO ^^.

I tend to start from the back side of the hips starting from the back rubbing my junk against her buttocks. From there just you know lay your game down gently kissing the back of her neck up to her shoulders. Rub around her stomach area gently and her arms and palm of her hands. After you're through with all this start massaging her feet, they love it. If you want to do it pimp style then go up underneath the pants such as been suggested and starting rubbing the inner thigh area to the spot. Kiss along the inner thighs too. From here you're on your own buddy, good luck!

quote:Originally posted by Lancey Lot Link:

I know someome who was giving their girlfriend a back rub and then slipped his thumb up her butt. She was pissed.

haha! thats some funny shit!i gotta do that.

quote:Originally posted by Aphelion Corona:

It tears your balls off.

That made me laugh...

Yes, a guy did this to me one time, I didn't expect it, and it was certainly an unpleasant, uncomfortable experience. I didn't object to it for the silly reason of not wanting to hurt his feelings. So I let him for a little while, it was weird, and he obviously thought he was such a smooth player. Ew.