|
|
 |
 |
 |
 |
register |
bbs |
search |
rss |
faq |
about
|
 |
 |
meet up |
add to del.icio.us |
digg it
|
 |
 |
| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
 |
|
|
#1
 2004-07-05, 20:29
|
|
|
How do I make an attention whore go away?
Without being too cruel that is. There's this girl that I know somewhat well. She talks to me all the time about random crap, some of which she makes up, some which is true. I dont want to hurt her feelings too badly for some odd reason yet I want to make her go away and find someone else to cry to. Anyone have any suggestions?
|
|
#2
 2004-07-05, 20:49
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
this person sound slike theyre acting real fake and nthat's not cool at all
people accuse me of being fa,e but i'm real
a real hardcore punk
this reminds me of a hardcore punk song i wrote called complicated. i'll post the lyrics and maybe it will help you get through this.
"Complicated"
Uh huh, life's like this
Uh huh, uh huh, that's the way it is
Cause life's like this
Uh huh, uh huh that's the way it is
Chill out whatcha yelling' for?
Lay back it's all been done before
And if you could only let it be
you will see
I like you the way you are
When we're drivin' in your car
and you're talking to me one on one but you've become
Somebody else round everyone else
You're watching your back like you can't relax
You're tryin' to be cool you look like a fool to me
Tell me
Why you have to go and make things so complicated?
I see the way you're acting like you're somebody else gets me frustrated
Life's like this you
And you fall and you crawl and you break
and you take what you get and you turn it into honesty
and promise me I'm never gonna find you fake it
no no no
You come over unannounced
dressed up like you're somethin' else
where you are and where it's at you see
you're making me
laugh out when you strike your pose
take off all your preppy clothes
you know you're not fooling anyone
when you've become
Somebody else round everyone else
Watching your back, like you can't relax
Trying to be cool you look like a fool to me
Tell me
Why you have to go and make things so complicated?
I see the way you're acting like you're somebody else gets me frustrated
Life's like this you
and You fall and you crawl and you break
and you take what you get and you turn it into
honesty
promise me I'm never gonna find you fake it
no no no
Chill out whatcha yelling for?
Lay back, it's all been done before
And if you could only let it be
You will see
Somebody else round everyone else
You're watching your back, like you can't relax
You're trying to be cool, you look like a fool to me
Tell me
Why you have to go and make things so complicated?
I see the way you're acting like you're somebody else gets me frustrated
Life's like this you
and You fall and you crawl and you break
and you take what you get and you turn it into
honesty
promise me I'm never gonna find you fake it
no no
Why you have to go and make things so complicated?
I see the way you're acting like your somebody else gets me frustrated
Life's like this you
You fall and you crawl and you break
and you take what you get and you turn it into honesty
promise me I'm never gonna find you fake it
no no no
rock on- avril
|
|
#3
 2004-07-05, 21:16
|
City of OZ 
Regular
|
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
wow.
|
|
#4
 2004-07-05, 21:17
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
Where's my e-pimp? He needs to slap you.
Todesgehen: When she speaks to you just act like you're uninterested. Don't offer advice or commentary. Use words like "Oh yeah", "cool", "uhuh" often. Females don't like it when they feel they're talking to a wall. She'll get the hint.
Most likely, she likes you. Tell her you have a girl or the next time she starts a conversation, tell her you found a girl that you like and she's amazing blah blah blah. Maybe that will drive her away.
If all else fails, be frank and upfront with her.
|
|
#5
 2004-07-05, 21:19
|
City of OZ 
Regular
|
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
Todesgehen - Don't go out of your way to talk to her, but be polite. Don't fake interest in her conversation. She'll hopefully get a hint.
|
|
#6
 2004-07-05, 21:58
|
PsychoFlower 
Regular
|
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
Todesgehen..
Definitely don't feign interest. If she talks about the same topic a few times in a day, be sure to point it out. Bluntly inform her of anything that she says that you know not to be true, but never get rude. Don't hang out with her on weekends or outside of wherever you see her, and don't go out of your way to say hi, etc. Eventually, she'll go away..
And Avril, what you're doing is not funny. JarJar was funny, but you lack wit and spelling skills, so do us a favor and please die. I hope that's not too complicated for you.
|
|
#7
 2004-07-05, 22:02
|
-Imp 
Regular
|
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
quote:Originally posted by Todesgehen:
Without being too cruel that is. There's this girl that I know somewhat well. She talks to me all the time about random crap, some of which she makes up, some which is true. I dont want to hurt her feelings too badly for some odd reason yet I want to make her go away and find someone else to cry to. Anyone have any suggestions?
well she might just like you, maybe because she thinks that you are nice person.. or she want you to be her boyfriend... don“t know what else to say dude
|
|
#8
 2004-07-05, 22:05
|
whiteass 
Regular
|
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
quote:Originally posted by Todesgehen:
Without being too cruel that is. There's this girl that I know somewhat well. She talks to me all the time about random crap, some of which she makes up, some which is true. I dont want to hurt her feelings too badly for some odd reason yet I want to make her go away and find someone else to cry to. Anyone have any suggestions?
You know Infra is a guy right?
|
|
#9
 2004-07-05, 22:55
|
Trench Coat Mafia 
Regular
|
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
^^^^^^^^^^^that was fucking funny, sorry infra, but you just got owned...
|
|
#10
 2004-07-05, 23:07
|
Bleedthrough 
Regular
|
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
I don't think so.
|
|
#11
 2004-07-05, 23:29
|
AngrySquirrel 
Regular
|
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
Eats, shoots, and leaves.
|
|
#12
 2004-07-06, 00:01
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
Ouch.
This reminds me of how I acted up untill very recently around a guy.
I didnt lie or talk about myself constantly, but whenever he was around I felt so good and confident, I'd go into 'Motormouth mode' and be unable to stop talking.
He solved this problem by on the last day of School patting me on the back and saying 'bye bek. see ya whenever'
and then dissapearing off of the face of the earth never to be seen again.
|
|
#13
 2004-07-06, 02:14
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
I suppose I forgot to mention that she does in fact like me and has stated on numerous occasions that she wants to go out, or in the very least be fuckbuddies. I usually would be happy to oblige except for two things. One, she lives 45 minutes away, and two, she's dumb as hell.
|
|
#14
 2004-07-06, 03:16
|
Little Pea 
Regular
|
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
Well, how do you know this chick? When/where do you see her? If you don't want her as a fuck buddy then you can just shoot her down all of the time. That's always fun.
|
|
#15
 2004-07-06, 20:31
|
deadlycindy 
Regular
|
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
If she's 45 minutes away, how do you get stuck talking to her? I think the best strategy is somewhere between Mojo's and PsychoFlower's. She may take your indifference as a willingness to listen to her ramblings. So if you call her on her stupidity (with comments like "That makes no sense") and put her on the spot when she fabricates things, she may fel less comfortable with running off at the mouth.
Avoid the fuck-buddy situation if possible. Sounds to me like you're in for far more drama and discontent than any possible benefits.
|
|
#16
 2004-07-07, 01:31
|
Little Pea 
Regular
|
|
|
|
Re: How do I make an attention whore go away?
quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:
...Avoid the fuck-buddy situation if possible. Sounds to me like you're in for far more drama and discontent than any possible benefits.
:the voice of reason.
|
|
 |
 |
To the best of our knowledge, the text on this page may be freely reproduced and distributed.

totse.com certificate signatures
|
 |
 |
About | Community | Bad Ideas | Drugs | Ego | Erotica | Fringe | Society | Technology
|
 |
 |
 |
 |
|
|