Just wondering if it is just me, but do you other guys find it hard to cum when being given a handjob.

It feels good, but it's so hard to get to climax when someone else is giving you one. It takes too long and their arm ends up getting tired.

hand jobs are lame. they dont ave the right rhythym, and they never will. just put it in your mouth.

Damn, you need to teach you woman how to do it.

I just tell her, faster, harder

I don't see how you can't cum from it ?!

Teach the student untill the student can out-perform the master.

Nokio

I don't know of anyone who's actually cum from a handjob, man. Most girls don't know what the fuck they're doing. It's all about communication and being relaxed.

quote:Originally posted by Nokio:

Teach the student untill the student can out-perform the master.

Nokio

Now that's a great quote.

It's a learned skill for women. One of my old ex's was fucking brilliant at handjobs, others have been rubbish. luck of the draw i guess

Everyone is different with it. It's of course harder for most guys with handjobs, because women dont know how to do it the best way, nor will they for a long time. And head, with my g/f for example, sucks. But thats also because I was circumsized, which unfortunatly decreases some of the pleasure. But anyways thats just me. If you have problems with it, then show her how to do it, or let her try different things, and tell her how they feel. You can't expect her to know what works if you don't tell her.

Guess its going to be a case of practice makes perfect with my girl then.

Cheers for the replies.

My gf is shit at them to be honest. I hardly ever come from one & if i do it's after about 90-100mins

quote:Originally posted by Nihilism:

hand jobs are lame. they dont ave the right rhythym, and they never will. just put it in your mouth.

you spelled rhythm* wrong.

quote:Originally posted by billyb:

My gf is shit at them to be honest. I hardly ever come from one & if i do it's after about 90-100mins

Well my girls arm gets tired after about 20mins so that doesn't really help the matter.

Drench your dick in oil and let your girl jack you off. You'll cum. You guys need to involve some lube here.

quote:Originally posted by billyb:

My gf is shit at them to be honest. I hardly ever come from one & if i do it's after about 90-100mins

Thats actually fucking scary, thats well long stupidly long. I don't always come quickly but its just like that sometimes oh well.

nah, thers no substitute to doing to yourslef. theres things shell never know cause she isnt feeling it. ah well.

A lot of my handjobs ended up with me thinking about how much better I could be doing. But sometimes, I cum quicker and harder during a handjob than a blowjob. All a matter of if she is good at it or not.

The handjobs I give me are superior to anything aynone else.

quote:Originally posted by Cornpuff Mgruff:

you spelled rhythm* wrong.

You didn't start the sentence off with a capital.

EDIT: And shouldn't it be "spelt" not "spelled" for correct grammer?



[This message has been edited by 30-06 (edited 07-05-2004).]

There's a very long plateau that they must overcome, before they will acheive that many results. By overcoming the plateau, I mean that they have to keep a steady rhythm/speed for like first 2-3 minutes. Usually a girl gives up after that amount of time (the unexperienced ones, I mean).

quote:Originally posted by 30-06:

You didn't start the sentence off with a capital.

EDIT: And shouldn't it be "spelt" not "spelled" for correct grammer?



[This message has been edited by 30-06 (edited 07-05-2004).]

You don't start sentences with "And...".

You spelled "grammar" incorrectly.

You spelled "spelled" incorrectly.

quote:Originally posted by HJS:

Damn, you need to teach you woman how to do it.

I just tell her, faster, harder

I don't see how you can't cum from it ?!



I agree with this guy... A sudden boost in speed after a while of steady jacking accompanied with pre-ejaculation breathing and you are done in no time



[This message has been edited by ikilluslo (edited 07-05-2004).]

Have them lube up your cock and then spit it on, sloppy handjobs are thet best, it'll make you cum all over the place. Same for blowjobs.