a girl told me it doesnt matter what age.

As long as there's a clitoris, she can orgasm. There's no magic age where all of a sudden girls can orgasm.

age isnt a factor, normally experience is. A lot of females have to "taught" to orgasm. Their are many different types of orgasms: clitoral, vaginal, and anal are the most common. Clitoral orgasms are the most frequent, because females can teach themselves to do orgasm from manual stimulation by masturbating.

thats crazy

Any age, I'v made babies cum a million times.

Even in childhood, some girls have orgasms through self-stimulation, though they usually don't yet understand the connection to sexual relations yet. By self-stimulation I mean things like rubbing themselves up against something, such as playground equipment, not actively masturbating.

quote:Originally posted by whiteass:

age isnt a factor, normally experience is. A lot of females have to "taught" to orgasm. Their are many different types of orgasms: clitoral, vaginal, and anal are the most common. Clitoral orgasms are the most frequent, because females can teach themselves to do orgasm from manual stimulation by masturbating.

What the fuck are you talking about? Masturbation isn't teaching yourself to orgasm. It's just rubbing yourself in a way that feels good. Girls don't learn to orgasm any more than guys do. It's not something you learn. At all. I don't understand where you would get that idea

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

What the fuck are you talking about? Masturbation isn't teaching yourself to orgasm. It's just rubbing yourself in a way that feels good. Girls don't learn to orgasm any more than guys do. It's not something you learn. At all. I don't understand where you would get that idea

Because for a lot of girls, you're wrong. Every girl I've ever been with couldn't orgasm through masturbation until she had a partner help her the first time.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Even in childhood, some girls have orgasms through self-stimulation, though they usually don't yet understand the connection to sexual relations yet. By self-stimulation I mean things like rubbing themselves up against something, such as playground equipment, not actively masturbating.



Very true. I discovered that I really liked the edge of my mattress when I was nine. I didn't understand why that was... I just knew it felt good.

quote:Originally posted by Toraton:

Every girl I've ever been with couldn't orgasm through masturbation until she had a partner help her the first time.

I think in some ways you, Glitterpunk and whiteass are all correct.

As I was saying, young girls find that certain ways of stimulating themselves feels good, as in Lilly's example. But then, as they enter adolescence and puberty, the "pressure" of being self-aware, and thus self-conscious, of one's sexuality adds a new dimension and complicates the process of achieving orgasm.

I remember having orgasms when I was 10 and younger. I remember talking about them with friends when I was 12-13, and making the connection with sex. But I didn't have another orgasm until I was 15, with my first boyfriend.

i as a guy was having orgasm's at the age of 9 and 10 dont believe, well i cant really prove it but i know what i was doing! So yeah i believe it is possible for girls to have orgasms at any given age!

And how do anal orgasms happen?

Heh, do you mean via anal stimulation? I think for guys it has to do with the prostate, but I never really researched it, so it's hearsay.

As far as actual orgasms OF the anus...hmmm, that's a head-scratcher.

I think I understand what's meant by girls teaching themselves to orgasm.

I've found that girls who masturbate frequently are just easier to get off, and not just casue they're able to tell you what they want. Being a girls first sexual partner tends to take more time and effort to make it happen. But that's just my experience.

I was recently with a girl who claimed no guy has ever given her an orgasm. Then admitted to shower heading but never to the point of orgasm (How lazy do you have to be? [Actually, she claimed she was scared]) . So this is an 18 year old sexually active girl, claiming to never have had an orgasm. (Until me ) I called bullshit, and still stick by it, but she's still sticking by her story. Meh...What do you think Cindy, is she full of it?



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I think her story is perfectly reasonable.

After all, up until the 60s, women in general rarely had orgasms.

This is a somewhat simplified "history" of the female orgasm. (http://femaleorgasmsecrets.com/historyofthefemaleorgasm.html)