I won't bore you with the details. Let's just say that I was in love with a wonderful girl and we broke up without a great deal of warning. Supposedly she wanted time away from everyone. This isn't the case. Every friend I introduce her to she ends up getting really connected with (sometimes to the point of sleeping with them.) I know I can't be with the girl and that it's going to hurt for a while, but what should I do? Just sever contact? Everything we went through feels so cheap now, since I see she can get into anything with ease. Want to be her friend, but how can you be friends with someone who shrugs off your company to go hang out with *your* friends?

I still care about her deep inside. I might even still love her. But I fuckin hate love.

Sever contact. It sounds like she is just trying to hurt you, get away from that sort of situation.

Why did you two break up?

Sever contact for a little while. If, after you move on, you still really believe you two can be friends, then it's worth a shot.

Sometimes a much needed break is all it takes to see things with an unbiased (or less biased) eye.

Nokio

We broke up over some difficulties involving an ex-friend. Let's just leave it that it was a messy situation; to say nothing of a very long story.

Hmmm.. ever considered being a Tibetan monk? That way you don't have to see women and you can focus on meditating.. yeah!

Um, so really.. what to do what to do.. I'm gonna guess she'll just drive you crazy if you try and get back together or something of the ilk.

quote:Originally posted by SmokingEyeSocket:

...Everything we went through feels so cheap now, since I see she can get into anything with ease...

Bah, don't take it that way. Unless you're over 25, this is just something young people are more prone to do. Not all, but many.

So she's the sort that gets together with anyone that gives her some attention. She's lacking in self-esteem, and likely has other issues.

Do you really want to be her friend? Why? It doesn't sound to me like she has much to offer as a friend.

I was going out with this one girl a year back. Well we broke up after about a year of dating. It's was more mutual(not bsing you)but neither of us cheated on the other . Well we both thought the other one hated us so we didnt talk for about another year. But then, after I aproached her one day, we've become great friends again. Everythings behind us and we can laugh again. The girl I'm with now is the most wonderfull thing that has ever happend to my life, and I don't know. I thought the last felt right, but this has much more of a "genuine" feeling.

quote:. Everythings behind us and we can laugh again. The girl I'm with now is the most wonderfull thing that has ever happend to my life, and I don't know. I thought the last felt right, but this has much more of a "genuine" feeling.

Your a fucking faggot. I know a lot of "sensitive" queers like you in real life, all of you deserve a head full of bullets.

"Oh yes! This strong, beautiful woman broke my heart, but now we can laugh again!" kind of shit pisses me off. Why? Because a whore "broke my heart" in the past. Any woman who does this cannot be forgiven. I make this bitch suffer, she's had to change her phone number 6 times ! She's had to block me on about 30 screenames! She is on the verge of suicide!

I am typically proud of these accomplishments.