I'm pretty good friends with this girl that went to my middle school, "Jane." She really, really likes a guy "Bob."

Bob doesn't like her at all, and Jane knows that, but she keeps trying to get Bob to like her.

I'm honestly not sure why Bob doesn't like her, though. She's very attractive, funny, smart, and a happy person.

I had the job of mediator between the two for awhile, even though I hate BS drama like this.

I can't seem to convince Jane that Bob isn't worth all this trouble, though.

What do you reccomend I should do? I've straight out told her that Bob doesn't like her, he's told her, etc.

Wait. She will eventually realize this is worthless crap to be worrying about. Possibly, she only likes him because he doesn't like her. You want what you can't have type of thing.

Give up your position as mediator, it isn't going to help either party.

Let them work it out by themselves, because it sounds like Bob doesn't want anything to do with Jane, and Jane knows that and is attracted to the thing she cannot have (Bob).

toungue kiss with bob? that will gross her out enough probs

I guess all I can do is: nothing! (Easy is good, eh?)

When you aske her why she likes him, what does she say?

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

When you aske her why she likes him, what does she say?

Usually something like:

"He's cute, and funny, and smart, and nice"

^He's good looking, but only the rest if he thinks he could get laid.

quote:Originally posted by BadIdea:

Usually something like:

"He's cute, and funny, and smart, and nice"

^He's good looking, but only the rest if he thinks he could get laid.

Just don't get into it anymore. She'll either find someone else cuter, and give him up or he'll gain some interest in her and they'll go out.

I doubt the last one, he sounds like he just doesn't want to go out with her.

Just leave them alone, it'll work out for the best.

Of course, Gus is right.

The poor girl is addled. I suspect he's none of those things, except maybe "cute". She has a crush, nothing more, and needs to get over it. She may need to learn the hard way. How can anyone "like" someone who clearly doesn't (and never has) reciprocate the feelings?

Suppossely she is "over him" now, but I really doubt that. The Bob in question browses Totse at least once in awhile, so he probably read this looking for tips on getting the Ch1x0r5.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Of course, Gus is right.

Of course I'm right, I'm always right, unless if I'm wrong, and I'm never wrong, because I'm always right, and I'm always right, because I'm never wrong, and I'm never wrong, because I'm always right.