Ok this is my situation and ill kindly take any advice given since im in need of sum alrite me and this girl have had sumthign going on for liek 3 or 4 months now and i love her to death and she loves me so she says anyways..thats all good but she has a boyfriend who is a real prick and at first she tried ignoreing hima dn stuff for liek 2 months and he still never got teh picture then later on she finally bilt up the nerve and dumped him then ema dn her was ganan hook up and all that jazz..well one saturday i left her a msg in the moring a offline msg on icq sayin like ill call u tonite and all that good stuff and her ex went on her icq (knew the password) and like flipped out and was ganan kill me adn she went back with him to claim him down..and told me that we coudlnt have this relasonship no more and stuff it hurt bad..then a couple days later she came on msn and was like im srry i still love u and all this stuff like me and her are back were we started what shoudl i do i mean i love her and all but its just messed up casue she still goes with him..i need sum advice cause its taking a toll on me what i should do

This girl is messing around with you, you gotta give it up.

Give each other some space.

Cause if she can't say no to her bf/ex and she keeps going back to him, what does that leave you with?

He's getting the real deal...

Plus if this guy doesn't get "closure" he's going to come after you for what he wants (his girl).

Tell her that she needs to solve these problems with the guy and then when she's ready, she can come to you.

From what I gathered from that, I think you should leave her well alone, lad. First off, she obviously can't make her mind up. Indecisive people are a significant irritation in the deriere. Secondly, she still has strong feelings for this other guy. Nought good will come of you carrying on trying to hook up with this lass. You'll just piss off her boyfriend more (and rightly so. Truth be told, you're being an absoloute bastard to him, and wouldn't blame him if he beat you seven shades of violet, but that's not the issue here), which would lead to violence, a bad thing generally. It will also play with both your and this lasses head to much. Find yourself another girl.

thx for the repley but she dosent want to eb with him,she donest do anything with him really she hasnt fucked him for liek 5 months and the only reason she went back with him is beacause he was ganna kill me this is sum hard shit man love is nuttin but trouble

Wait till Cornflake McGruff gets ahold of this one.

I didn't understand any of that, but since you'll kindly take any advice, here's mine: Wear a condom, penis size only matters a little, don't be clingy, money isn't everything, don't go swimming right after eating a gigantic hoagie, don't drive drunk, and drink plenty of water.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

I didn't understand any of that, but since you'll kindly take any advice, here's mine: Wear a condom, penis size only matters a little, don't be clingy, money isn't everything, don't go swimming right after eating a gigantic hoagie, don't drive drunk, and drink plenty of water.

Thx for the tips =) i bet u wanted me to flame right? i ant a flamer dude peace and pot

The choice is yours, if you love her and you don't think she's playing with ya then go for it and face the threat. Anyway, the dude probably is too pussy to go farther with his threats..

quote:Originally posted by PinK_CrimSOn:

Thx for the tips =) i bet u wanted me to flame right? i ant a flamer dude peace and pot

Heck no. I don't throw out flame bait intentionally. Peace, but no pot.

eliminate the other guy

Get him to play you in some (non pussy) sport your good at and kick his ass in it. That should show him, and if that doesn't work or is impossible because your not good at anything, just pay some really hot girl to hit on him, then catch them cheating convieniently with a camera in hand =p that is the best way to handle all of these types of "other guy" problems so watch out if he trys it on you because in all liklyhood he will.