My friend has a boy problem. The guy she really likes says he likes her too. But he keeps playing mind games with her. He tells her he loves her then tells his friends shes all over him. She knows he still at least likes her because there are so many ways that he proves it to her without really knowing it. She lost his trust and he won't go out with her again until he knows shes trustworthy. How can she earn his trust? (WITHOUT having sex with him)

she can go out with me.im a nice guy! :P

the simple answer is - she can't. he has to decide to trust her again.

and if by 'lost his trust' you mean she fucked someone else then it's damn near impossible.cos i'm assuming he's young as well and not yet mature enough to deal with her infidelity.

becky is 14, and hes actually 16

Im 14, she can go out with me. lol.

Is Becky hot? I'm thinking you have the crush on Becky. I think that you are jealous of him because he's leading her on, and if it were you in his position you would just take her and not let go. You wouldn't be playing all these silly little mind games would you? You know she's only 14 but you can't help but look at her. You know it's taboo yet the very site of her makes you quiver doesn't it? It doesn't really matter where you live but sexual intercourse with a 14 year old is wrong and you love the thought of that don't you. You have a sick mind and you want to fulfil your darkest fantasies with Becky but you can't have her can you! You know he could have her anytime he wanted and that makes you a little angry doesn't it. You know that if you can get her to see that he isn't the right person for her, she will fall for you. That you could hold her when she gets sad about it. Then you have a chance at some sympathy sex. Well, I think you are one sick fucker and shouldn't be allowed on the internet.

wow elf that was very funny

elf, shut up shes only a friend, and im trying to help her out

quote:Originally posted by Nirvanawannamarijuana:

elf, shut up shes only a friend, and im trying to help her out

Well don't try too hard then.

The 16 year old prolly doesn't actually like her, he probably like another 16 yearold, I mean think about it. Would you consider going out with anyone in the year below you? Though if someone in the year below you had a crush on you, you prolly would jokingly brag to your friends. The 'no trust' thing is probably just an excuse to get her to leave him alone.

When I was fourteen, I was fucking a sixteen year old. Not to sound blunt or anything, but you're an elitist prick and I think you suck, Reckoning.

As it turns out, me and that sixteen year old hated each other for a while after we did this fucking, and now we don't hate each other anymore. Things turn out well in the end.

To actually contribute something to this thread, I'm going to make a suggestion to your friend Becky: Becky, this guy is an asshole, and no matter how much he actually likes you, he is too much of a pussy to admit it to his friends (possibly because you're fourteen) and it makes him look like he's got a bigger cock if he reverses the situation when he tells his friends about it (meaning, he tells them that you're all over him). This man is a dick! You don't need to regain his trust (actually, perhaps you do, I wouldn't know) but he also needs to regain yours. Things at this point in your relationship may be too fucked to continue. Unless you're completely in love with him, but I can't see that happening, he's throwing you around like a ragdoll.

quote:Originally posted by Nirvanawannamarijuana:

elf, shut up shes only a friend, and im trying to help her out

No shes not. Dont lie to us. Were not as fucking stupid as "Becky". No guy can ever truly have a friend thats a female. Ask yourself this:

If she walked out of her bathroom, with a sexy pair of panties on, and and sexy lace bra, then she looks right at you and tells you to "take her".

If you would say yes, and have sex with her, shes not your friend.

If you say no, you would fuck her, you are gay.

Shes not your friend, quit acting like she is. Your trying to fuck up her relationship, so you can get her on the rebound.

the words are forming pictures!!

This is Becky. Nirvanawannamarijuana has a gf who is a friend of mine..and he has never seen me in RL. I'm sorry guys..but I'd rather not go out with anyone right now.

quote:When I was fourteen, I was fucking a sixteen year old. Not to sound blunt or anything, but you're an elitist prick and I think you suck, Reckoning.

As it turns out, me and that sixteen year old hated each other for a while after we did this fucking, and now we don't hate each other anymore. Things turn out well in the end.

To actually contribute something to this thread, I'm going to make a suggestion to your friend Becky: Becky, this guy is an asshole, and no matter how much he actually likes you, he is too much of a pussy to admit it to his friends (possibly because you're fourteen) and it makes him look like he's got a bigger cock if he reverses the situation when he tells his friends about it (meaning, he tells them that you're all over him). This man is a dick! You don't need to regain his trust (actually, perhaps you do, I wouldn't know) but he also needs to regain yours. Things at this point in your relationship may be too fucked to continue. Unless you're completely in love with him, but I can't see that happening, he's throwing you around like a ragdoll.

Posted by stephanina

Thanks. You seem to be on the level and you know what I'm talking about. Yes I love him..I love him more than everything. When I'm asked why I have no answer except I just do. I can't explain it....everything about him I love. Except the way hes been acting lately. I just don't understand it. I'm losing faith in everything and everyone lately just because of this. Maybe he does just want to get rid of me...but I doubt it because he would have blocked and deleted me after the last fight we had. Don't ask about the fight. I don't want to talk about it. Nirvanawannamarijuana, you can't say anything either. I haven't fucked him O.o so get that outta your mind..and I haven't fucked any other guys either O.o sick people. Although his best friend Miller keeps hitting on me and flirting with me...which doesn't help because Miller earned himself a reputation with *the guy* as a major PIMP and *the guy* thinks Miller can get any girl he wants. Which is prolly worrying him because right now...his sights are set on me >.<! Talk about unwanted attention! I don't like Miller that way..and hes driving my guy away...I'm powerless to do anything. All I can do is wait and hope that *my guy* will find it in him to come back...the whole fight....iunno. He told me not to contact him. But he didn't block and delete me off msn so I don't know whats going on. I kinda do need to earn his trust back.

One of the last times I was at his house he told me to listen to a song. He didn't tell me the title..just to listen to the lyrics. I didn't get it until the last time I was at his place and I asked the title of the song. It was "Love me" by Obie Trice, Eminem and 50 Cent...I looked up the lyrics and I started crying...But what bothers me, is that I don't know what he meant by "listen to the lyrics" that day. Was he trying to say something to me? Or did he just want me to listen to a new song he found? I don't know..and I may never know. But I DO know that he isn't the kinda guy that downloads love songs just to listen to them...it has to mean something..*sigh* like I said, all I can do is wait and see what happens.

I was listening to a few songs earlier and they really made me think about him (I prefer not to name him for now). Download them if you want to..a few made me cry.

I'm lost Without you - Blink 182

Time to break up - Blink 182

Love me - Obie Trice, Eminem, 50 Cent

So sorry its over - Blink 182

Romeo and Rebecca - Blink 182

Give me one good reason - Blink 182

Can you guess I like Blink 182 alot? Yuh...s'what I thought. Oh well. I like to show who I am through my music.

[This message has been edited by punkbecky (edited 06-30-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by punkbecky:

This is Becky. Nirvanawannamarijuana has a gf who is a friend of mine..and he has never seen me in RL. I'm sorry guys..but I'd rather not go out with anyone right now.



Get over him. You are 14 he is 16. At that age that is too much of a gap. If he is ignoring you that probably means that he doesn't want to talk to you or has his eyes on another chick. Wait a few months and then try again. All you are going to is get on his nerves if you are trying to cantact him all the time, that is if you are trying to contact him. You would only make it worse if you did and that would ruin your chances even more. Maybe get involved with abother guy and see if he gets jealous, that would give you good indication if he really wants you or not. I'm pretty much out of ideas now sooo...just play it cool with him and so get so hung up about it.

Fin.

[This message has been edited by elf (edited 06-30-2004).]

This thread consists of: teenage emotional vomit.

God...where to begin.

Becky, quit being a dumbass. This guy is a total shithead. He is a stupid, confused teenage boy. Let me explain the situation in equation form.

Stupid, confused (not to mention horny, as we all are), teenage boy + your emotions = you getting hurt.

This guy is obviously a shallow moron if he has to express his "love" for you through a fucking rap song. And look at his friend, Miller, the sleezbag.

Just forget that goddamn loser and his retard friends. You will be doing yourself a big favor, which I think that everyone else can agree on.

...maybe Rule of The Bone is getting to me...

quote:Originally posted by punkbecky:

BLAH BLAH BLAH I'M A STUPID ANGSTY CUNT

Haha. So you 'express yourself through your music'?!

OMFG ME TOOO1 I LIEK TEH ANGST! TEH BLNIK! OMFG! WE"RE SOLE MAETS!

Dumb cunt.

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I'd hit it...

And also, there are rap songs that can make one cry. That isn't one of them though. Try Rewrite by Sage Francis, or Glass by Eyedea and Abilities.

[This message has been edited by D Krunk (edited 06-30-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by D Krunk:

I'd hit it...



Yep.

Damn then, he must be blind.

Awww, she's pretty. Um.. have you tried drugs.. drugs work.

Wow becky, that was really fucking pathetic. And wtf is up with all the O.o things. Is that supposed be some binary expression of your eyes? If so, get that check out, ones smaller than the other.

Haha blink 182, thats classic.

Don't listen to whiteass, he's just the resident dateless, bitter virgin.

My suggestion, Beck, is to download "The Trial" by Pink Floyd (because it's uplifting and funny, even though it's serious) and set your sights on a new guy - a real one. If he looks, acts or otherwise even remotely resembles the "average" guy, move on to another: Try the mysterious, quiet ones or even the goths: As for the latter, they're usually always good guys once you get to know them. Also realize that when we're 16, we NEVER have our shit entirely figured out, so don't get too deep, or give anything you're not willing to lose someday. You're not going to find Mr. Right in high school, basically. But, if you play your cards right, you can find a high school sweetheart who you'll remember fondly later on.

Also download "Take It As It Comes" by The Doors.

Good luck. And happy hunting. I wish I'd stayed in high school longer than I did, in retrospect (I dropped out after 9th grade and finished through The American School; sure, I got a damn good education, but I missed out on a lot of good times).

-IR/Bleedthrough

And also, I lied completely about you being even remotely attractive. You look 9.

quote:Originally posted by Bleedthrough:

Don't listen to whiteass, he's just the resident dateless, bitter virgin.

-IR/Bleedthrough

I wish I was a virgin. Sex and drugs have just complicated my life. But at least when i have a problem in life, I have the balls to face it and overcome. I dont need to come to totse and bitch looking for advice and approval from people ive never seen before. Thats your way of life infra, not mine.