im 17 years old and im about to have my first kiss.

What do u do? I have no idea of what i should do or say or where my hands should go.

Help me plz.

heres my other post: http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/008419.html

do what i did rip your clothes off and let him go to work....



lol, jk no just take it slow and try not to think of it..

Be calm and relaxed dont worry too much of the hand movement! Remember breathe mints, that will make the experience alot better!

ah i remember my first kiss....

*dazes off*

well anyways just relax and enjoy!

Follow his lead

You'll figure it out

It's all in the wrist sonny jim.

...yeah I agree with above advice.

Okay, whether it's your first kiss or your 100th, don't feel compelled to talk too much. Unless you're in a comfortable relationship already talking isn't going to be on yours or his mind, got it?

The kissing itself will come naturally, your brain, and all the worrying and over-analyizing you're preoccupied with will go away very quickly. How the kiss goes will help you figure out what to do with your hands.

If it goes well and feels right, casually run your hands to the side of his face/neck, play with his hair a little, let him know you're enjoying the moment. {hint} If he's enjoying the moment you're going to feel his hands sliding towards your breasts quickly.. that's a good sign, unless you aren't ready for that, and if that's the case, double up your fist and pound it into his face. He'll get the message.

Hope this helps, be sure to update us.

http://www.totse.com/bbs/Archives/Archive-000002/HTML/20031016-4-004271.html

u have to suck really hard and try and capture the tongue with ur mouth like ur trying to scoop a snail out its shell.

Did anyone else here have pancakes for breakfast? I think I'm gonna go to the kitchen and make me some pancakes for dinner. Pancakes are good.

Waffles are better.

Answer this: How don't you kiss?

Whatever is left, no matter how improbable, is the truth.

Man, totse has gone downhill..if you look at that other kiss thread cindy linked to, there were loads of good posts, and people stayed on topic..

Look at this one

Waffles.

Shittie

[This message has been edited by ShitFace (edited 06-26-2004).]

I say go for the genitals.

your 17 and its your first kiss? may the force be with you

Glue, definitely lots of glue, maybe some paint thinner, but definitely sniff lots glue. Watch how crazy it gets.

alright,this is what you do. move in slowly,open your mouth slowly and insert your tongue slowly then movie it around a bit but not too much or too little.then <dont forget your hands> move your hands around the body.<breasts, neck,legs>its all about equal touching and kissing.

I had my first real kiss when I was 14.. funny, cause all I can remember is her tongue.. mmmm...

Depends on first kiss, doesnt have to be tongue ya know.

I had my first kiss when i kissed her, it just comes natural, just do it like they do in the movies, tilt ur head a little to the side, seriously that's what i was thinking as i kissed her XD

And then she laughed when she saw her lip gloss on my lips. She thought it was cute.

Dudes... my first kiss fucking sucked. So if yours does to, don't worry. First time for everything right? Do what that guy above said, but you can do whatever with the tongues when your tongues are like.. wrestling.

Just act natural its somthing that just comes to you. My first kiss(the girl) didnt even know it was my first kiss.

hey ppl heres the scoop on what happened that night:

i came over at about 8:30 (he had work) and no one was home. we started talking a little bit about music etc. Then we flipped thru the channels and started cuddling a little bit. then his mom's bf came in and was there for like a half hour so we dint do anything. After he left... we started holding eachother and he kissed my arm and my forehead and neck and rubbing my back and my hair..... then my mom had to come and pick me up dammit

thats a bummer,man.^^

You seem to be a bit younger than 17 or perhaps just niave. How old is your guy? It just seems strange that you would need advice on the subject at 17. The having your mom pick yu up bit seems strange too, are you a member of a religion that disallows early dating or are you just being fashionably late on the dating scene?

quote:Originally posted by Hagbard23:

You seem to be a bit younger than 17 or perhaps just niave. How old is your guy? It just seems strange that you would need advice on the subject at 17. The having your mom pick yu up bit seems strange too, are you a member of a religion that disallows early dating or are you just being fashionably late on the dating scene?

Both actually, my father's a bit paranoid and controlling so i didnt get to hang out much to begin with (and the reason why i dont drive a car). Thats changed tho bc im turning 18 on the 9th.

Myu guys 17 too, hes 2 months younger than me but has alot of experience dating (no sex tho). I think the reasom why he didnt go to my lips the other night is bc he knows my shy and it'll be imy first kiss. He wants to warm me up first.

You could try Here (http://www.gopartyhearty.com/kissingadvice.html) or Here (http://www.kissing.com/htfkv.html) and Here (http://www.kissing.com/htfkv.html) are the search results from Yahoo.

Also you could check out some of these pictures:

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<A HREF="http://heartsdream.com/kiss13.jpg">http://heartsdream.com/kiss13.jpg" width="90" height="90 (http://heartsdream.com/kiss13.jpg" width="90" height="90)</A>

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Depending what your looking for this may or may not help. Hopefully it helps.

Snow

haha 10/10 for reseach snow



you sick fuck

i just had my first kiss a few weeks ago...and my advice is to not worry about it, it will b aucquard but theres no real wrong way 2 do it...(well...to an extent...but yeah)

try and make it french

i tried and it didnt work 2 good...but was worth a try

Thanks Certified Dead, you know I do try to be helpful when I can.

Snow

You know what sucks is that the original poster probably won't even let us know if the doggie kiss worked for her. Damn ingrates. You try and help someone, Geez!

Snow

quote:Originally posted by Capt Snow:

You know what sucks is that the original poster probably won't even let us know if the doggie kiss worked for her. Damn ingrates. You try and help someone, Geez!

Snow

Ill tell you all if it works tonite

how do u kiss ? good =D

Ugh. To jack this back on topic: Learn a little lesson from The Lizard King:

Take it easy, baby!

Take it as it comes.

Don't move too fast,

If ya want your love to last!

Works for quite a lot of things, actually.

(Hey, shut up: Been on a massive Doors kick lately. I've always loved them, of course, but they've been my band of focus lately)

okay im sorry, if your 17 and its your first kiss, and your planning out your first kiss rather than just letting it happen, i think you should kill yourself now. you shouldnt have abstained from sex this long, let alone kissing+

quote:Originally posted by whatwouldsatando:

okay im sorry, if your 17 and its your first kiss, and your planning out your first kiss rather than just letting it happen, i think you should kill yourself now. you shouldnt have abstained from sex this long, let alone kissing+

Sorry, i dont just go out and fuck anybody. Besides, he's one of the first guys who actually saw me as a potential gf. So many of my guy friends have a tendancy to think of me as just one of guys that they don't notice me as a women. Also, most men are assholes like you who are just interested in getting laid.