so, i was on the L (chicagos subway in the sky) and This girl gets on. I was reading the classifieds ( damn it i need a JOB) and i saw her turn around and look at me. When i looked up she turned back. i didnt think much of it cause i get a lot of looks from a lot of people. bad and good looks. well as i read she kept looking at me and her friend was looking at me and they were talking.

Then i heard my stop. Why the hell did i get off!!! Damn it, i was going to say something but it was late and i needed food and shelter. FUCK FUck. usualy i would have asked is she liked sammiches ;P and asked her if she had an email. but nooooo, i just had to get off. FUCK FUCK FUCK. oh well with my luck she woulda been 15. but still, i screwed up.



so my question to you ( the ladies) is why dont girls aproach guys? i mean if you see a guy and you think to your self "hey hes nice, I wish he would talk to me" then why cant you jsut talk to him?

P.P.

this one time a homeless lady tried to get me to go with her, it was funny cause i walked with ehr and she rambled about how her friends were famous and she went in places acting like she knew people. HAHAHAHA

women are supposed to be subservient to men and so they only speak to men when they are spoken to first

duh

^^uh, how about no to that response. I think that guys and firls are equal on this respect. It depends on the setting and how the person presents themselves. Some people just put off the "unpresentable" vibe. Also, some people may feel more comfortable approaching someone in a club or bar with no friends as opposed to a train with friends around.

Women who approach men are generally branded as "sluts" or "hoez" by the overall community. It's sad, yes, but if I've never met him, i'm not going to go talk to him with the intention of getting a date or stuff like that.

quote:Originally posted by avenge96:

^^uh, how about no to that response. I think that guys and firls are equal on this respect. It depends on the setting and how the person presents themselves. Some people just put off the "unpresentable" vibe. Also, some people may feel more comfortable approaching someone in a club or bar with no friends as opposed to a train with friends around.

Do you even know what the fuck you're talking about?

quote:Originally posted by avenge96:

...I think that guys and firls are equal on this respect...

I totally agree. Guys and firls ask eachother out equally. Girls on the other hand...

I think that it is an ego thing. Girls tend to have at least a little bit of low self-esteem. Guys asking them out boosts their ego and their self-image.

=/ I thought he quit totse.

You would have talked to her, bushy, if you weren't gay.

Despite their calling for equal treatment, most women still seem to subscribe to the idea of gender roles, and it's the man's role to initiate the encounter.