Not to sound like I have an inflated ego or anything, but a good number of ladies are attracted to me. Currently there are two good catches I am going after. Both want me, but I have so far not made a move on either.

I flirt all the time with them and they love it, last night i was alone drinking with one at my house, she wanted me to do something, I can tell. Yet I fucking wimped out like some 14 yr old virgin, and made no effort to hook up with her. The other girl has liked me for like 6 months, maybe more, but so far I JUST HAVN'T DONE ANYTHING.

I have had a lot of good looking girls, (and some ugly ones too) but nowadays its like I can't get the balls together to fucking lean in for a kiss. What the hell's wrong with me?

Are you a wimp? No, it could be a few other things. The one I'm going for is your self-image, you are worried about the way you look/act around women, and my second guess is your just scared of rejection, quite normal if you ask me, even if you know they want you, your still thinking in the back of your head that you dont wanna get shut down. Dont make yourself out to be a wimp, it happens to the best of us heh.

[This message has been edited by MP Nesto (edited 06-24-2004).]

i wouldn't say your a wimp. if you don't want to do something then don't.

how old are you? you call women "catches", something i have not heard from someone under 30.

maybe its just not your time at the moment. itll pass.

quote:Originally posted by RAOVQ:

i wouldn't say your a wimp. if you don't want to do something then don't.

how old are you? you call women "catches", something i have not heard from someone under 30.

maybe its just not your time at the moment. itll pass.

No, the thing is I DO want them, I'm 20 years old. "catches" yah, kinda an old guys term.



[This message has been edited by ralldrittvsa (edited 06-24-2004).]

If you do then plain and simple: DO IT

If you're 100%-positivly-fucking-sure then yes, there is something wrong with you.

-Monarchist

Or you might just gotten sick of them.

It happened to me.

One day, I woke up and felt like kissing was boring.

It means you've turned homosexual.

OI, why not 3some them???

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

It means you've turned homosexual.

I wish I could meet these pre-shoolers in real life. It would probably be the only time I wouldn't mind breaking a little kid's jaw.

quote:Originally posted by ralldrittvsa:

I wish I could meet these pre-shoolers in real life. It would probably be the only time I wouldn't mind breaking a little kid's jaw.



And it could probably be fun also.

I had a similar problem, and I guess I still do. I'd get set up on dates with girls that are..ok looking, I mean, a sane straight man wouldn't turn down doing it with them..yet I would "wimp out" and never make a move. And I know if I had made a move, they probably would've let me do just about anything to them.

After a few nights of feeling like a wimp and getting teased by some friends of mine, I just stopped agreeing to go at all. And this is bad when you think about it. I could be having sex regularly with decent girls, either about the same or a little better looking then girls I've done it with in the past, but I don't. And I thought the same as you, what the hell is wrong with me?

Someone said something about self-image, and that's the conclusion I've come to. I was too worried about what the girl would think of me, and so I just didn't even try. It's not like I'm inexperienced or anything, it's just I've been out of the whole dating scene for a while now. I was worried if she would think I was a good kisser or not, or if she thought I was fat, or if she thought I wasn't big enough in other areas, etc, etc. And I still have this anxiety now, so I don't go anymore.

I don't know what to tell you unfortunately. You're not a wimp so to say, I'd say maybe you just have some anxiety about how much the girl would enjoy the sex with you. It's easy to say "don't worry," but harder to do.

quote:Originally posted by ralldrittvsa:

I wish I could meet these pre-shoolers in real life. It would probably be the only time I wouldn't mind breaking a little kid's jaw.



For one I'm not in preschool and if you ever have to balls to come to where I live I doubt you could even touch me.

I guess you don't live in this little thing I like to call "reality", but talking hard over the internet isn't going to get you a date. Got it asshole?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

For one I'm not in preschool and if you ever have to balls to come to where I live I doubt you could even touch me.

AHAHAHAHA! You sound like such a fuckin' pansy! You can do better than that I'm sure!

<UL TYPE=SQUARE>You're in preschool.



I'M NOT IN PRESCHOOL! SHUTUP!</UL>

Sounds like he might be right! Good stuff...

ur not a wimp buddy. it used to happen to me too. im not tryin to push u into anything but maybe u need to kiss her just to take it that one step further.dont get down on yourself, your a normal guy just like me and the rest of them. I DO think that your attitude will change if u kiss her SO TRY IT!!!!

quote:Originally posted by jebuonag:

AHAHAHAHA! You sound like such a fuckin' pansy! You can do better than that I'm sure!

<UL TYPE=SQUARE>You're in preschool.



I'M NOT IN PRESCHOOL! SHUTUP!</UL>

Sounds like he might be right! Good stuff...

Or maybe CarbonB doesn't feel the need to argue with these assholes needlessly for a small boost in ego. Asshole.

or maybe Carbon is an immature asshole?

Or maybe you hijacked this thread, bitching about carbon. Who is actually one of the last intelligent people left in S&A. He is Denis Leary type of person, smart and witty, but why the fuck should he waste his time on the useless fucks that can only think of age related insults. Heres a tip to all wannabe flamers out there, if your going to make useless insults, make sure you have the knowledge to support why your making the insults. Your first grade ultimate insults arent going to work here, its better to show someone why they are a dumbass than it is just to tell them. But chances are they arent going to understand it when you explain it to them anyways. So dont waste your time on the little fucktards.