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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2004-06-24, 02:47
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Default Can't Cum... help... please?

Ok, I searched the archives came up with a little bit of help, but yea. I can't cum when I'm gettin' laid/head/handjob. I had all three last night, in a row, that row, and I didn't cum. I lasted a good while but try as I might, it just didn't gonna happen. Is there anything at ALL I can do to fix this? I'm probably gettin laid again tonight, so yea... Help?
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Old 2004-06-24, 03:02
J-mousy J-mousy is offline
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well i wouldn't be able to cum either if i fucked a sasquatch.
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Old 2004-06-24, 03:07
stupidpunker88 stupidpunker88 is offline
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if ur girlfreind is up for it, have her squeeze your prostate

this however does involve her sticking her finger in ur ass and feeling around for it
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Old 2004-06-24, 03:27
comradeSKATER comradeSKATER is offline
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are you nervous? if so that could be it. i know it used to be when i got head i couldnt cum cuz i was nervous, but one day it just clicked and i was totally relaxed and i could. if its not that, i dont know what to tell you.
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Old 2004-06-24, 03:35
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Not my girlfriend, but yea. Umm, no finger thing. I don't know if it's my thoughts or not, or whether I'm nervous. I don't think I am. It's more or less I have random thoughts when I'm goin' at it. Like I'll zone out or something thinking about other shit.

EDIT: Oh, and as for Mr. 6 Posts, Stfu.

[This message has been edited by [eXo5]Metal (edited 06-24-2004).]
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Old 2004-06-24, 03:39
Little Pea Little Pea is offline
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quote:Originally posted by stupidpunker88:

if ur girlfreind is up for it, have her squeeze your prostate

this however does involve her sticking her finger in ur ass and feeling around for it

Why is it that every idiot on totse has to suggest prostate stimulation as a remedy for the inability to climax?

If you are using a condom, that might be the problem. I could not get off using a condom, except for Trojan Non-Lubricated.
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Old 2004-06-24, 03:44
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Any reason for the Trojan Non-lubricatd?
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Old 2004-06-24, 03:55
Little Pea Little Pea is offline
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Not quite sure, but I think that they allow more friction. Either way, they are the only condoms that work for me; and I must say, they did work quite well.
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Old 2004-06-24, 05:32
LuvBuds LuvBuds is offline
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are u on any medication.

Otherwise i bet u are a weed smoker and when u are fucking u get side tracked and i bet u go floppy half way through as well.

I could be wrong but i think its a concentration thing. Try not to fuck as much or have a break then your mind will want it and u wont loose consentration.

PEACE
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Old 2004-06-24, 05:44
KungFuJim KungFuJim is offline
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i was on zoloft and couldnt come with my gf my determenation made me jack off for 4 hours
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Old 2004-06-24, 06:22
Cutter De Blanc Cutter De Blanc is offline
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She must not be very good in the sack, I say.
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Old 2004-06-24, 08:12
LuvBuds LuvBuds is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Cutter De Blanc:

She must not be very good in the sack, I say.

then your a fucknig idiot. Its the medication. IM the same and cant cum. Until my body gets used to my medication again.
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Old 2004-06-24, 08:18
Little Pea Little Pea is offline
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quote:Originally posted by LuvBuds:

then your a fucknig idiot. Its the medication. IM the same and cant cum. Until my body gets used to my medication again.



Have you ever slept with a chick that's shitty in the sack?
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Old 2004-06-24, 12:52
SilentKill SilentKill is offline
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If you can come when you wank, then try Help her, show her how to... maybe she is ugly and her face scares you... or a bit of fetish or even the gay porn may help (not rippin you off man) have a look round, see what tickles your fancy...

hehe

or just show her how to do it, but of you;re getting laid and no come, either you wank off far to much or there is one big ass problem... if it's the second, go see a doctor.
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Old 2004-06-24, 13:02
crow4523 crow4523 is offline
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Mabye he's gay!!!



... or not

That's happened to me before. Are you taking any medication? Especially any MAOIs

[This message has been edited by crow4523 (edited 06-24-2004).]
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Old 2004-06-24, 14:07
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quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

they allow more friction

...You're weird. I hope. Otherwise that makes me weird. Oh God it's me isn't it?
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Old 2004-06-25, 00:16
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No scary face, not bad at fucking. First time she was on top. Felt pretty damn good. I quit smoking weed like a WHILE ago. I don't know though damnit. It's just all yea. I think my mind starts to think about other shit. RANDOM shit. It's like just thinking about anything that floats into my mind, like normally, I'll just sit here and think about random shit. But, I didn't think it would happen when I'm gettin' laid. So yea, I think I'll go with the chillin' with the whackin' that way I'll be able to concentrate on fuckin'.
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Old 2004-06-25, 03:53
SupaAznPirate SupaAznPirate is offline
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Ha Ha (http://hahah.ytmnd.com/)
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Old 2004-06-25, 03:57
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You're a fucking queer.
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Old 2004-06-25, 04:28
Little Pea Little Pea is offline
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quote:Originally posted by [eXo5]Metal:

...I think I'll go with the chillin' with the whackin' that way I'll be able to concentrate on fuckin'.

Sounds like a plan. That way by the time you have sex you'll be so goddamn into it that you wont be able to think about anything else. Mmmm...sex.
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Old 2004-06-25, 06:22
J-mousy J-mousy is offline
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< still say its the sasquatch your sleeping with ... big amazon!...
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Old 2004-06-25, 06:28
VladimirIllyichLenin VladimirIllyichLenin is offline
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hay exo baby just come to my house I'll make you cum for HOURS.
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Old 2004-06-25, 07:54
firebird firebird is offline
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Sasquatch=ugly

Amazon=tall and sexy

...just thought I'd let you know that J...

And how in the hell can you think about other things if she's good at it, and good looking? I dunno about you...but I'd be focused in, especially if she's on top, cause then you have the whole bouncing tits thing going on. Do you have ADD, or anything like that?
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Old 2004-06-25, 14:40
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Actually yes, I do have ADHD. Which could possibly play a part in it. But, if I went to the docotrs, got diagnosed, got adderoll or ritalin. I'd be a fucking zombie and wouldn't be ABLE to nut. PERIOD. Because adderoll and shit keeps you awake, and at the same time makes it damn near impossible to nut.

EDIT: So yea, I don't think I want any drugs to take. I could sell 'em though.

[This message has been edited by [eXo5]Metal (edited 06-25-2004).]
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Old 2004-06-25, 22:24
al_ke4 al_ke4 is offline
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who gives a shit .. get a nice young girl on the cock .. get her wet .. play with her clitorus and fuck that hoe for a while . you'll be cumming .. i always am when i get a peice
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Old 2004-06-25, 22:29
Santino Corleone Santino Corleone is offline
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quote:Originally posted by al_ke4:

who gives a shit .. get a nice young girl on the cock .. get her wet .. play with her clitorus and fuck that hoe for a while . you'll be cumming .. i always am when i get a peice

This coming from a 13 year old who gets his kicks by lying and trying to sound cool and impress people over the internet.
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Old 2004-06-26, 04:08
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I'll have to see I'm going to agree with Santino...
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Old 2004-06-26, 06:24
Frank Castle The Punisher Frank Castle The Punisher is offline
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quote:Originally posted by stupidpunker88:

if ur girlfreind is up for it, have her squeeze your prostate

this however does involve her sticking her finger in ur ass and feeling around for it

That's called an a spot orgasam.
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Old 2004-07-06, 07:50
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quote:Originally posted by [eXo5]Metal:

Ok, I searched the archives came up with a little bit of help, but yea. I can't cum when I'm gettin' laid/head/handjob. I had all three last night, in a row, that row, and I didn't cum. I lasted a good while but try as I might, it just didn't gonna happen. Is there anything at ALL I can do to fix this? I'm probably gettin laid again tonight, so yea... Help?



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