Alright. About 3 months ago i broke up with the coolest girlfriend i've ever had. But she cheated on me, which is why we broke up. Well I didnt talk to her much, and started liking this other girl (we'll call her bert). Bert was very relgious, a very good girl who was home schooled and went to dance class. Well, there was this other girl that liked me (we'll call her hons). Hons kinda bothered me so i'd notice her. and i did. bert didnt mind it because she liked some other guy named kyle, but, when i start dating hons, bert tells me she really liked me. Well now, i dont know what i feel with hons, because of "the coolest girlfriend" i dont want to date bert anymore. Sometimes it's i love hons, sometimes it's i'd really not want to talk to her. any help?

wait.. are you dating guys or girls?

dude. seriously. yes there girls. i just dont say "we'll call HER hons.."

quote:Originally posted by Snarky:

dude. seriously. yes there girls. i just dont say "we'll call HER hons.."

its a loev hate relationship, deal with it. I heard you can't find anything worth your time until your like 25. So I'm staying single for the next 5 years.

how old are you?

And i doubt very much that you 'love' either girls.

Girls are the ones with breasts and no penis (hopefully).

I thought you didn't have a pee pee PTB?

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

how old are you?

And i doubt very much that you 'love' either girls.

im 15. i dont love the coolest girlfriend girl, or hons. it seems like all she wants to do is talk about sex. so i think, when im not around she talks about/bangs other guys. which is why there's always that sometimes where i dont want to talk to her.

You're off the hook because there's really no love here. Plenty of infatuation, yes, but not love. Love isn't just something you feel "sometimes" or only at times things are going well.

You really don't need to tie yourself to one girl. It's challenging enough to maintain a relatonship with someone you do love, so why burden yourself when you don't have to? Give yourself some breathing space.

Tell "Hons" that it sounds like she'd like to explore other guys (since she's talking about fucking others, whether past, present or hypothetically) and that you'd like to explore other girls. The go out with "Bert" and see what happens.