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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2004-06-23, 02:11
ShortyMac ShortyMac is offline
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Default Casual making-out and relationship advice

My friend and i are thinking about casually makeing out. I sorta like him, but he's not interested in a relationship bc he going away to college this fall (like a 2-3hr drive).

Im not sure what to do, he tried to make out with me b4 not 2 long ago (respectfully of course) and that sorta moisened my appitite for him, it made me want him more.

This will alos be my first kiss, and i dont know what to do. This is the first guy that ever tired doing stuff with me. So i have no idea what to do in this situation.

Im only 17, can u help me?

ps. i also dont want to get too emotionally attached to this guy, in case we never see eachother again after college.
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Old 2004-06-23, 02:24
deadlycindy deadlycindy is offline
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Default Re: Casual making-out and relationship advice

Do it if you feel like it. What often happens in such a situation (you're friends, you like him, you're sexually interested) is just what you're apprehensive about: becoming emotionally attached.

I have no magic solutions for not getting emotionally attached. Some try to enforce sheer will power, but the only thing that has worked for me is to date others as well. If you expand your horizons you don't feel such a craving for one person.
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Old 2004-06-23, 02:41
pathogen pathogen is offline
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Default Re: Casual making-out and relationship advice

Holy fucking christ, 1st kiss at 17????

Ummmmm, take it slow, be cognizant of the fact that you're young, inexperienced and there's a whole ocean of people out there just waiting to fuck your brains out. Be aware of 'first-time' feelings.. they'll be strong one way or the other. Ignore them, they'll steer you wrong.

Above all go with your gut instincts. And learn from the experience.
 
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