ok, so i was watching tv and then i saw a comercial for a diet thing. they had fucking huge women, and then they lost weight, and they were pretty hot.

so, Why cant all realyl fat people just lose the weight?

and would you date a girl if you knew she used to be REALLY FAT?

There's fat, and then there's obese. Nothing wrong with fat people, but I have nothing to do with obese people, as they allow themselves to get like that.

Man, you suck.

Since I was in 7th grade I've weighed 115-120 lbs. To me, that's a perfect weight for my frame.

The past year and half I've been between at 130-135 lbs and it sucks. No one else can notice but I do. You know how hard it is for women to lose weight without drugs?

Men (and this is scientifically proven) can lose weight faster. While the pounds might shed off of you, some people aren't blessed with a fast metabolism.

Some are cursed with fat parents and fat genes!

Like me. My parents (were) fat. At age 50 they both went on Weight Watchers. My dad lost over 100lbs and my mom over 50lbs. I have to watch my weight for the rest of my life so I don't end up like them. Now they're back to a healthy size but for about 10 years they were extremely overwieght. I am frightened/scared/terrified of becoming fat.

Anyway, it's really not as easy as eating healthy and exercising. That might work if you want to lose 5, 10, or even 20 lbs but for overweight people it takes a lot will power.. without immediate results. I watched my parents and it took my mom over a month to see a 5 pound difference. That isn't much when your goal is 70 lbs more. People give up.

Unfortunately, the American mainstream eye sees anything bigger than "waif" as ugly.

quote:would you date a girl if you knew she used to be REALLY FAT?

Ahh! What is this? Now girls that used to be fat are stigmatized? If they lost the weight (which is so important to you) why in hell would it matter what they weighed before?

Before you date chicks do you have a questionaire?

Question #1. What's the most you ever weighed?

Come on now. That's being down-right shallow if you won't be with a girl because she WAS, at one point, big.

Oy.

And Skippy, obesity is in your DNA. People who are obese have a genetic predisposition for it.

[This message has been edited by MrMojoRisin (edited 06-22-2004).]

^^^there's SOME genetic predisposition, but that doesn't mean there's nothing one can do about it. Fat...isn't attractive.



However, i agree that judging someone because they "were" fat is ridiculous.

If you used to be thin, there is absolutely NO reason that you can't be it again.

It just takes willpower.

There's no difference between men and women losing weight, quit making escuses and get your fat ass out on the field.

i used to be fat so it wouldnt bother me if a chick was fat. as long as she was cool and i was at least somewhat physically attracted to her i wouldnt care.

I'm the kind of girl most women love to hate: blessed with a high metabolism, low low blood pressure, and extaordinarily low cholesterol. My health is genetic, you can follow the same body traits back to my great great grandpa... pure luck. I've weighed the same 110 lbs for as long as I've paid attention. Some people don't get such a great break... most of the girls I know really have to work at staying fit... sometimes I wonder what shape I'd be in if I hadn't been given my chub-resistant genes? You can't really point fingers and make judgements until you've been in someone else's shoes...

That said, people who make absolutely no effort to lead a healthy active life disgust me. If anything, you should admire chicks who have gone to the trouble to lose weight.



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My girlfriend weighs 90lbs. Of course, she's 4'3"ish, so it's alright. I weigh 130. That's 10lbs heavier than I've ever been. I normally don't keep weight on; it fluctuates like +-10-12 pounds a week. What if my metabolism is dying? Shitty.

Well, on subject, I dated a bulimic girl once, but she weighed like 160...and then gained 25 pounds while we dated. Fat chicks have stretchmarks out the wazoo, and that is incredibly unsexy.

Stop crying and exersize and eat healthy, if you dont put shit into your body it wont look like shit, its called dicipline try it i have fatass parents and a motabalism like a snail but i dieted my ass off and exersized everyday and lost 15kg in like a month and a half and i have a mad body now, and exersize not olny makes you look better it makes you feel better as well, healthy body healthy mind so that fat genes thing is a crock of shit.

being fat shows a lack of disicpline and disregard for your body, except people with medical conditions who are on medication ect that makes them that way