I'm a 17 year old heterosexual male. I have pretty much no sex drive. I'd much prefer to spend a night cuddling, talking, kissing, playing a game or watching a movie, than having sex. Is this a tad bit strange for someone my age? Keep in mind that I had a rather wild time from the age 12 till 16, when I called it quits on drugs, drinking, and random sex.

If you've had lots of sex in the past, then it's perfectly normal to feel like you deserve maybe some sort of resting period...

Then again, you could be... you know.

Gay? No, tried that already. Didnt really find it all that fun or entertaining. I find the occasional male "hot" but I dont find the idea of kissing or doing sexual things with any male arousing.

Pfft thats exactly how i feel. Ive had enough sex in the past. I dont crave sex anymore, I crave the connection between me and a female partner. No worries, just be happy that your different from the average male in this department.

sad....ur entering your prime...why become so boring?

quote:Originally posted by MurdaMuzic:

damnit, i hate being a totse noob

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Originally posted by Whiteass:

damnit, i hate being totse's gayest white boy

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Do u live in one of those countires wear women have to be covered up? Cuz that ouwld be the only reason I would feel like that,but hey God made us all different.

You have sexually matured beyond your age. Most people your age still focus on getting as much ass as possible, and then finally, years later realize that's not all relationships are about.

Do you still have sex even though you are not feeling it? If you do, you may want to stop having sex for a while. It may regain it's fun and you'll desire it again. If you go for a while denying opportunities for sex and still having no interest and that bothers you, you may want to talk with a counselor about it.

I live in michigan... and no, I havent had sex since March I believe. I've had a few chances since then but I havent acted on them.

quote:Originally posted by MurdaMuzic:

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