I have a fetish that during sex my partner has to rip a clump of my hair out or else I can't get off. My girlfriend is uncomfortable with this, but I don't know why, it's not anything gross like golden showers. She has been doing it for me and it has been the best sex I have ever had, but I can tell that it's making it less enjoyable for her. What should I do?

I don't know...find a mate that is into that...

how exactly does that work? won't you run out of hair if you have sex enough? don't you worry that people will be wondering why you are missing patches of hair? enlighten us!!

Well first of all I am not going to break up with my girlfriend or find someone else because of this issue. I love my girlfriend and I want to stay with her. As for the hair thing, it's just a very small clump, and it doesn't have to be hair from my head.

quote:Originally posted by Serrano:

it doesn't have to be hair from my head.[/B]

Oh, in that case...

Ow!

quote:Originally posted by Serrano:

...it doesn't have to be hair from my head.

Well, if she's not into it I don't think that you should be pulling "small" clumps of hair out of her head. If she can not learn to accept your fetish or you can not learn to get off without this fetish then you should find a different sexual partner.

That little bit of pain, right at climax, is what helps me get off.

Anyway does anyone else have fetishes that they've had to deal with because of their partner?

[This message has been edited by Serrano (edited 06-20-2004).]

Try biting instead dude.