I have a question. Take this a joke post as you all have a tendency to do since a great deal of people put useless posts as I am now.

I have a question of perversion. A scenario of a fetish that I am mentally develop follows.

I'm at a public beach with plenty of women fallen asleep while tanning in the sun. Next to an ideal woman I sit far enough to not awake her, but not too far. I sit and touch myself - stare at her - stroke - and bring myself to 9.8. Then go over whip it out and let myself go all over her however I'd admire; preferably in her hair of all places.

Does this sound all that abnormal of a fantasy? Just a quirk; domination thing I believe. The concept that "Just because I can do this" in an ironically public place is what I think the turn-on is.

Flames/feedback is all open.

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I started that thread. Read the link I posted about paraphilias. Sounds like you have both the exhibitionism AND voyeurism impulse-control disorders.

Really, the scenario you describe isn't original.

I wouldn't coin the term impulse-control disorder onto me. Obviously I have controlled it for it is pure fantasy, and fantasy that is not overbearing, maybe even closer to an occasional thought. I don't recall even masturbating to it. It's sort of a dominating thing; kind of like the fantasy of murdering a stranger.... come on now everyone has that on occassion.

And on a psychological argument it is hard to define disorder concerning fetish - unless your a pure Freudian which does not hold so much ground in todays world of Psychology.

[This message has been edited by MrHunky (edited 06-18-2004).]

well when i have sex, i normally dont use condoms. So when i pull out, I just blow it all over her tits, face, stomach, back, hair, anywhere. I could just do it on a sheet or just turn a bit and spray off to the side. Why do I always like to blow it on them? I dont think its a domination thing. I use it more as...lets say security. When i leave her, and she has a new guy, i find it funny knowing hes kissing her in the same spots I blew my load all over her. Think of how many times you have had the option to make a sexual comment about sperm to a girl. Maybe she spilled a drink on her shirt "I know thats not the only thing thats been spilled there" and smile and laugh as your saying it. It evokes the sexual urges, as well as the comedy side of you. Maybe she was eating ice cream and missed a little on her lip, "Got a little something on your lip there, brings back memories" smile and laugh again. The great thing is, by saying these sexual jokes, is that they have real life facts to back it up. She cant deny that she doesnt remember you blowing your load all over her face. But most guys dont say shit like that because they are afraid of offending the girl. But how can you offend her with a simple joke if your population paste has been splattered across every inch of body?

You're right, I should have been more careful to specify that if you actually acted out that scenario you might have an impulse-control disorder. I suppose you could call it a "dominating" thing if you prefer the term, but in the context of social functioning it's not applicable.

I've never, ever wanted to murder a stranger for no reason. People I know, for specific reasons, yes, but never a stranger.

you're normal kiddo.quit worrying.

- if you'd said she was a red head - now that would be seriously sick!