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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2004-06-18, 07:36
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Lazzaro 
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Should I be mad at her?
Okay first I'll give you our history.
We met a year ago.
This is our 3rd time going out.
I cheated on her once before, but never again. It was a mistake.
Okay now down to the point. Me and my girlfriend were about to have sex. We were at her friends house, so as I am going to put on the condom it breaks. We were pissed off, she tells me she's sorry. It was supposed to be a special night now it had gotten ruined. So we are just sittin there for a while. I'm pissed off she's upset. She thinks I'm mad at her. Which I'm not I'm just angry that the damn thing fucking broke.
So I leave the room pissed off ready to go home, because I had to be home and if we weren't going to do anything why should I stay. Her friend asks what wrong, I tell her the condom ripped. She tells me she'll spot me some money to go get me some condoms. I usually don't buy them I usually get them from my girlfriend. So I leave with her friend to the gas station. We come back about 10 minutes later. I find her on the phone crying to my best friend about what happened. I feel like shit because of it.
Okay now we're back at her friends house. She pulls her friend to the side and tells her. I thought you two were going to go have sex. Her friend tells me this. I was thinking what the fuck? Me and her friend are too close for that we've known eachother for about 5 years now. I can see where she's coming from that she thought because I have cheated on her before. Though I won't again because I could have never fucked up so badly in my life.
Just should I be mad at her for thinking this?
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#2
 2004-06-18, 07:47
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Re: Should I be mad at her?
No, but she shouldn't have jumped to such negative conclusions in the first place. Just as you should understand where she's coming from.
Just as blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.
There's no "should I feel this way..." about anything. You feel the way you feel about things, simple as that. Just as she feels the way she feels about things. You seem young in a young relationship. If such problems and uncertainties arise from sex maybe you should just let it die.
Perhaps I'm just in a negative mood about relationships as of late though. Love might just be a joke we play on ourselves, or maybe everything BUT love is a joke we play on ourselves.
Who knows? If you ever find out let me know.
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#3
 2004-06-18, 07:52
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jimmy the gent 
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Re: Should I be mad at her?
yes as a matter of fact slap her and say you've slept with her mom and you dont need her. Say that you cant control yourself because jimmy the gent told you to do this and its all my fault and that you'll never listen to another person off the internet that could give a fuck less about whats going on in your life because everyone knows the answer and if your not sure if you should be mad dont be, now go fuck yourself.
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#4
 2004-06-18, 07:56
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D Krunk 
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Re: Should I be mad at her?
Why didn't you just tell your girlfriend you were going with her friend to get condoms?
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#5
 2004-06-18, 08:13
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Re: Should I be mad at her?
Er......wtf are you thinking ? You say because the condom broke - you may as well go home because you weren't going to do anything anyway  ...so am I to assume you are just with this girl for sex ? Seems that way - why couldn't you just spend time with your girlfried with out having sex? - yeah I'd be mad at you too - perhaps for different reasons though!
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#6
 2004-06-18, 08:19
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Little Pea 
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Re: Should I be mad at her?
^^^totally.
Dude, you're an asshole.
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#7
 2004-06-18, 10:23
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Infrared 
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Re: Should I be mad at her?
Carry your own god damned condoms from now on, ya dumb shit. You can't expect her to be responsible for you. I believe they sell them in your size, too; look for "finger cots" at the pharmacy.
Idiot.
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#8
 2004-06-18, 20:24
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whiteass 
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Re: Should I be mad at her?
Haha, this post is hilarious. And you know I hate you right. The fact that acted like a little bitch because you didnt a have a condom. Grow a pair of nuts. And better yet, you act like you care about her, but then say "i needed to be home and whats the point in me staying if we werent going to fuck"
what a good boyfriend you are. Treat your girl with a least a little bit of respect. If you dont respect her, dont date her! you can still fuck her, just dont date her. What is it with kids and thinking dating is the cool thing to do. Worried about your rep? Your rep is going to be 10x better if your out fucking 4-5 diffferent girls and not dating any of them. Dont go out with someone who you dont *really* like.
Its little bitches like you that make my life hard. Because of guys like you, your girls come to guys like me. Then they get completely obsessed, and want me to date them, because every guy shes fucked before has dated her. Regardless of if he liked her or not. So when i have sex with your girlfriend, shes going to assume were going to be dating, and like i said, id rather be out fucking 4-5 different chicks than dating 1 that i didnt *really* like.
I hate you, I hope you get ass raped in the park contracting the deadly HIV virus, and slowly wither away into nothingness.
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#9
 2004-06-18, 20:39
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deadlycindy 
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Re: Should I be mad at her?
quote:Originally posted by Lazzaro:
... because I could have never fucked up so badly in my life.
Yet you fucked up pretty bad with this episode. That "leaving if there wouldn't be any sex" attitude is childish and self-centered. As is expecting the condom issue to be someone else's responsibility.
Sounds like you need to think about how your behavior affects other people. Until you're willing to own your shortcomings in social interaction, you'll fuck up again. And again. And again. And again.
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#10
 2004-06-19, 01:21
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Blaydes 
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Re: Should I be mad at her?
quote:Originally posted by Infrared:
Carry your own god damned condoms from now on, ya dumb shit. You can't expect her to be responsible for you. I believe they sell them in your size, too; look for "finger cots" at the pharmacy.
Idiot.
Definitely, You should have talked to your girlfriend about what was pissing you off and not just got all mad and left with her friend, that and you know you would hit her friend given the chance...don't play like you wouldn't...You obviously don't love the girl or you wouldn't have thrown such a bitch fit. So what would stop you from fuckin her friend? Who the fuck only carries one condom on them anyway?? I have at least 3 on me all the time...but then again, I'm not one for relationships and monogamy...anyway, quit bein a bitch and get over yourself...shit happens, take it with a coke and a smile.
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#11
 2004-06-19, 02:17
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whiteass 
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Re: Should I be mad at her?
quote:Originally posted by Blaydes:
Definitely, You should have talked to your girlfriend about what was pissing you off and not just got all mad and left with her friend, that and you know you would hit her friend given the chance...don't play like you wouldn't...You obviously don't love the girl or you wouldn't have thrown such a bitch fit. So what would stop you from fuckin her friend? Who the fuck only carries one condom on them anyway?? I have at least 3 on me all the time...but then again, I'm not one for relationships and monogamy...anyway, quit bein a bitch and get over yourself...shit happens, take it with a coke and a smile.
I hate you too. Dont make yourself out to be a player when you ruin it by saying "i carry at least 3 on me at all time". And dont presume he would fuck his best friend of 5 years.
"Im not one for relationships or monogamy"
apparently your one for lying to yourself though.
Go jerk off.
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#12
 2004-06-19, 04:44
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Lazzaro 
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Re: Should I be mad at her?
I spent the last 3 nights with her watching movies and stuff. We've had sex before, so I dont' see what the fucking problem was, god damn.
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