Ok, so theres two girls right, let's call them Kelly and Sam.

So I've known Sam for a little over a year now and we talked and became pretty good friends and she wanted a relashionship with me, one of which, I frankly wasn't interested in.

So I'm over at Sam's house with some friends of mine and we're all sitting there just kinda chillen and kickin it, and thats when I'm introduced to Kelly, who, in my opinoin is one of the most gourgous (sp?) girls you will ever meet. So we sat over at Sam's for awhile and started talking and we exchanged numbers and we were on our way.

So I'm talking to Kelly on the phone when on my cell phone Sam call's I awnser it and begin talking to both of them at the same time, kind of joking around and just having some fun on the phone. Sam called me mean all coming out as a joke and this went on for like 5 or 10 minuets. Sam got real serious and was like "Andrew I can tell you somthing that will make you not want to talk to Kelly any more" (quite childish if you ask me seeing as how these two are best friends) and she tell's me Kelly called me an ass? Ok no big deal, all of a sudden I hear kelly scream and get real upset, she heard what Sam said and was freaking out.

So these two are fighting and going back and forth and I'm just kind of sitting there and feeling like I initiated the entire thing, which, I still feel partly responsible for but thats not the point.

As I said before Sam wanted a relashionship and I didn't want to give it to her, I still dont. And now that I've gotten to know Kelly she's really the kind of person that I look for and pretty much everything I would want and/or could get. But this fight has like ruined their friendship.

And on top of that all their also fighting over me (go ahead call me a liar) but again as I said, I dont want a relashionship with Sam and I do with Kelly, but I respect them both and I'm afraid that if I hook up with Kelly that I will ruin their friendship, and that would not be good.

So I turn to the experts here at Totse to tell me what to do, because everyone that I actually know has a big ass mouth and would go around saying shit.

Shed me with your advice oh great ones!! heh just messin. Seriously though I would love some help.

im not reading the post...fuck it....i just read the title, its good in any way, shape, or form.....

quote:Originally posted by Duo:

im not reading the post...fuck it....i just read the title, its good in any way, shape, or form.....

Not quite, I have more respect for people then that.

Sam sounds like a jealous girl, and as such, I don't think she'd be a great person to go with. However, since you get along with Kelly so well, I think you should try things out with her. Better to regret something you did do than something you didn't.

Sam = Probably just jealous that Kelly has more chance of getting what she wants.

In light of this, she either lied about Kelly calling you and ass...Or is telling the truth but shit stirring to make Kelly sound worse.

Kelly = Well...As you are saying it she's sexy and the type of girl you go for.

She may have called you an ass but that's for her to tell you...Not Sam.

My advice would be to tell Sam to get over it...You want to be her friend and that's it.

Tell Kelly you wouldn't mind going out with her sometime.

Also...If Kelly did call you an ass, then ask her if if it's true...If it bothers you that much!

Good luck.

It doesn't bother me thats the thing, and they made such a big deal out of it (inmaturity?) I called Sam last night and told her to grow up and I called Kelly and talkd to her for a little while.

Thanks for the advice so far guys!

*update*

Sammi's a cunt, at this point in the game she wont even talk to Kelly or me, she's pretty much acting like a 13 year old girl. Kelly and I sat down tonight and had a long talk about how we feel about each other and what Sam's problem is.

All I have to say is thing's couldn't get any better between us right now.

This girl is the sweetest and most gourgeous person I have ever met

Oh and Thanks for your advice those of you that chipped it.

In a perfect world it would be possible to maintain a friendship with someone who wants a relationship with you when you don't. Drama will happen at some point down the road.

What happened was inevitable. You're entitled to pursue your own happiness; it's unfortunate Sam didn't see things that way.

Thank You deadlycindy

I'm thinking that if Sam is that good a thing, she won't hold it against you if you chose the gal you really like. If she does then she isn't that good a mate in my opinion

You said you were worried about ruining their friendship, but obviously Sam doesn't value their friendship anyway, so do what you want. If your friends with someone, you would not talk about them behind their back, period.

quote:Originally posted by MP Nesto:



So these two are fighting and going back and forth and I'm just kind of sitting there and feeling like I initiated the entire thing, which, I still feel partly responsible for but thats not the point.



And that would have been the point where you hung up the phone. I hate talking on the phone enough, the last thing i want os hearing two females bitch at each other in my ear.

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As I said before Sam wanted a relashionship and I didn't want to give it to her, I still dont. And now that I've gotten to know Kelly she's really the kind of person that I look for and pretty much everything I would want and/or could get. But this fight has like ruined their friendship.



Well what the fuck did you think was going to happen. Any girl will get jealous if you pick up a girl while your chilling with her. Regardless of if she likes you or not, she will still get jealous.

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And on top of that all their also fighting over me (go ahead call me a liar) but again as I said, I dont want a relashionship with Sam and I do with Kelly, but I respect them both and I'm afraid that if I hook up with Kelly that I will ruin their friendship, and that would not be good.



They are not friends. Realize this. Repeat this. Memorize this. Regardless of how they act around each other, they are not friends. Dont believe me? I dont give a fuck. Would you go to your friends girl and tell her if he said something bad about her? Right.

You want some advice? Fuck kelly. Fuck her many, many times. Lick every inch of that females body. And dont worry about her so called "friends". And since you have the "i have respect" bitch attitude, I will say one last thing. You are a man, make no excuses for your sexual desires.

quote:You are a man, make no excuses for your sexual desires.

Heh I wasn't planning on making excuses but I do have more respect for these two girls and I would rather have them happy then me fuck them.

There are plenty of females I know that I can use just for that

[This message has been edited by MP Nesto (edited 06-19-2004).]

In my view, a friend that forces you to make a decision between them and another isn't someone worth having as a friend.

I think you should stick with Kelly. Not to sound cheesy, but she could be the one. I know blah blah blah... but you only live for so long you don't always get to be happy and you could be happy with her. I reckon if you don't see what it's like with her then you could wonder for a long time what it would be like. You don't want to go out with Sam - just because she's a friend and you might loser her as one because you want to go out with Kelly doesn't mean you should go out with Sam.

Good luck in whatever you do.