i miss her its been so long since ive seen her, shes dating anouther guy. Ive been put to the side but that doesnt change how i feel and i wish so badly to be there for her. She may not need me im not able to just take all her pain away but i do understand i can BE somebody to her.

nowhere else to write this

fag.

smoke some weed, get yourself under control man, damn.

im only saying this because i went through a similar situation, and i felt the way you did for awhile, but then i thought what the hell, theres nothing i can do to change the way she feels, i need to smoke some of this dro right here and forget about it, move on, and find someone who will actually love me back.

my advice to you is go do something to make you see the good in things and start thinking about another girl that could be your love, for me that thing is weed, but contrary to popula belief not everyone on totse is a drug user, but do whatever it is you do to get inspiration and forget your worries.

Seraph, shut the fuck up.

Marks, as somebody who's currently in your position, I can tell that your situation is a lot more convoluted and painful than you could ever relate in a post. You love her still, miss her, want to break that guy's fucking neck, you know your girl still isn't entirely happy, you wish you could be her friend and be the one who takes away that pain, even if you don't get her, yet you hate her for hurting you, you can't stop thinking about her, you feel isolated from her and from everything, you feel everyone's blind to the severity of your pain, even those who try to help, you feel so sickeningly overwhelmed by this emotion, that emotion; all you can do sometimes is thrash around and punch walls and yell and cry, because you don't know what to do with yourself. You feel there's no way out of this, you'll hurt forever, you can't fathom this pain doing anything but getting worse, everything reminds you of it and her, just in case it's started to fade from your mind a bit.....

Am I right?

If I am, all I can tell you is that those emotions do stop overwhelming you and you do try to move on, but you may relapse into it sometimes. I honestly don't know when it will get better or how, but just that I can tell you it will.

I'm sorry, friend. Mail me if you want to talk about anything. I'm currently sad over the same thing, sick of my life and going through methamphetamine withdrawal, which is hell, even if it's all in the mind.

-Infrared

I know how you feel - guess most of us have felt it to some extent . It sucks I know , there's not alot you can do but try and keep your mind on other things ( difficult) and move on . Good Luck .

I know how that is. I went from pledging my entire life to her, even though she had left me and cheated on me and stuff, to hating her for it and trying to ruin her life, to being her friend and seeking advice for my current relationship from her. We're good friends now.

quote:Originally posted by D Krunk:

I went from pledging my entire life to her, even though she had left me and cheated on me and stuff, to hating her for it and trying to ruin her life, to being her friend and seeking advice for my current relationship from her.

Whole life? You're still young, why would you want to do that? That's the problem with kids these days, they fall into "love" so fast.

quote:Originally posted by Don Corleone:

Whole life? You're still young, why would you want to do that? That's the problem with kids these days, they fall into "love" so fast.



I will not deny it, I fell in love with her after knowing her 4 months (4 of which we were going out, 2 before that). We went out another 2 months after that before she cheated. I'm with another girl as of 2 and a half months ago who I've known for more or less a year, and it's great.

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quote:Originally posted by D Krunk:



I will not deny it, I fell in love with her after knowing her 4 months (4 of which we were going out, 2 before that). We went out another 2 months after that before she cheated.

Yea man, see what I mean... I didn't even have to know how old you were. Don't take that in the wrong way, I knew many people who were just like that when they were young and growing up. Found a girl they liked, went out, became a couple, and soon after the guy would say that he would do anything in the world for her, or that he would never break up with her as long as he lives.

My gf and I have been a couple for nearly 2 years, but neither of us have said anything about spending the rest of our lives with each other. I'm not saying it won't happen, not saying it will either. I'm happy being with her, and so is she, and we can't see enough of each other. But there is the down side for everything, and I feel you need longer than 2 years, or in your case, EDIT - 4 months, to really understand a person's personality, way of life, characteristics, etc., so what I'm saying is it's going to be difficult when you declare your eternal love for someone and find out that she sleeps on your side of the bed.

Anyways, the thing is don't get TOO attached in your first few relationships, or it can mess you up good. You're still young, who knows what may happen, and you have a lot of stuff that you've not experienced before, so take it easy and see how it goes. Don't commit yourself to her so fast/much and you should be fine... Just some advice from someone who's been there and done that.

Cheers,

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I know what you mean, trust me. My first serious relationship lasted a year, and I got cheated on and dumped. I am not going all apeshit over my current girlfriend, because I don't have to. We're happy now, that's all that matters.

Happened to me, we went out for 3 months and then she thought we should just be friends. I was depressed, hurt, betrayed.

But then I let good old fashioned anger take over and I slept with her best friend.

I lived happily ever after.

bro i feel ya on this one, my girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago for no real reason but she still shows signs that she cares about me but shes with another guy. i loved her and hated her off and on lately until i met this new girl. Finding someone else to work towards is the key to letting this one go. lettin go sucks ya but if it was meant to be she would have came back to u. she may still come back some day but u need to do what is best for you, find someone new.

Because of things like that, I've totally put off playing "the game" until it will really matter.

High school relationships all are stupid anyway.

Fuck off seraph. Mark is trying to get help in this forum and you show up with all your worthless insults.

Mark, I think you should realize that it is over and severe ties with her because trying to be a friend of hers will only hurt you more.

I suffer from the same thing. The girl i love doesnt know i love her and doesnt have those types of feelings for me. Im sure she wont either b/c shes on of my best friends and vice versa and shes told me that... and we all know what the "best friend" thing means...

quote:Originally posted by STORMofDEATH:

I suffer from the same thing. The girl i love doesnt know i love her and doesnt have those types of feelings for me. Im sure she wont either b/c shes on of my best friends and vice versa and shes told me that... and we all know what the "best friend" thing means...

oh yea, i once told her about my feelings, and she said she appreciated it, but didnt feel the same way. Then i found another girl for a while, and i thought my feelings for the first girl would be gone, but they cam back as soon as my relationship ended. And now theres 2 other guys who like her and... ugh... its just hell

crap, i didnt mean to click the quote button... i thought i was editing... oh well...

another thing... nvm...

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