im 17 biesexual a guy and ever since i was 12 i have been in either a rehab or a jail or a hospital i am finally homei can hold a conversation but feel aquard in social situations

i would like to find a girl but if i cant a guy and i need all the help i can get i know i am about to get flamed a shitload but i will post anyway how should i go about finding a [preferably] a girl [if impossible] a guy ill be up as long as i can tonight going on and off of this post every 30 minuts or lower

Maybe a dating service, they have lots of them free online.

Do a little soul-searching and figure out what you feel you have to offer to a partner and be god damn sure of it.

Then, go through life living by the day, putting yourself in situations where there are other people, and just stay the course. You'll find her. Or him.

I've iterated this a lot, for different reasons, but it can help.

^ Way to make my advice look hollow and shoddy :P

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:



Then, go through life living by the day, putting yourself in situations where there are other people,



That would be where yours comes in.

^

Awsome, high five for jesus!

Back on track though; Meet some people and be yourself, let your personality shine through.

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

Do a little soul-searching and figure out what you feel you have to offer to a partner and be god damn sure of it.

Then, go through life living by the day, putting yourself in situations where there are other people, and just stay the course. You'll find her. Or him.

I've iterated this a lot, for different reasons, but it can help.



ill take your advice while looking for more thankyou

You know the drill...First get a plant. If, after a year, the plant is still alive, get a pet. Wait another year. If both the plant and the pet are still alive, you're ready for bf/gf.

Really, a relationship, even a casual one, is fraught with complications. They're work. They (the complications) mess with your head. Just make friends for now, with no pressures or expectations of more.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

You know the drill...First get a plant. If, after a year, the plant is still alive, get a pet. Wait another year. If both the plant and the pet are still alive, you're ready for bf/gf.

Bahahaha!

What if he chooses a venus fly trap, and a pet fly?

I see complications here.

...Oh... That's the entire idea, eh?

Gus! You're the only person I know who would complicate such a simple plan!

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Gus! You're the only person I know who would complicate such a simple plan!

My curse, and my blessing.