ok about a monthe ago this girl who liked me in middle school asked me to chill. we had sex the first nite. since then weve had sex almost everyday. we chill everyday and its almost like a relationship but i havent asked her out yet. she doesnt seem to mind but i think shes sorta hintin at it. people say ur girlfreind and i just go along with it. i dont wanna mess up what we have goin but i dont know what to do. its kinda awkawrd. usually you need to be boyfreind girlfreind to have sex but we started out with sex. i like her alott. any advice?

Go for it, isn't much you can lose.

i guess not. but what if it changes things. i mean shes a great girl. beuatfull and farily intellicutual. great in bed. but the whole relationship thing might hinder us in some way. or not. i guess imjust confused.

If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

and if it's fixed, don't break it

quote:Originally posted by -Renegade-:

and if it's fixed, don't break it

and uhh if its not smelly dont make it smelly ? o_O

quote:Originally posted by bulllgod66:

ok about a monthe ago this girl who liked me in middle school asked me to chill. we had sex the first nite. since then weve had sex almost everyday. we chill everyday and its almost like a relationship but i havent asked her out yet. she doesnt seem to mind but i think shes sorta hintin at it. people say ur girlfreind and i just go along with it. i dont wanna mess up what we have goin but i dont know what to do. its kinda awkawrd. usually you need to be boyfreind girlfreind to have sex but we started out with sex. i like her alott. any advice?

same exact position i was in. Hung out with this girl all the time, she was always with me whever i went. Fucked her all the time (think our record was 9 times in a 12 hour period) but we were never going out. Everyone thought we were going out, she kept hinting that we should be going out:

"wed make such a great couple, dont ya think whiteass?"

"I wish you were my boyfriend"

etc...

i never did ask her out, and i guarentee id still be fucking today if i had not moved.But i will make it back to her someday, because i didnt realize what i had untill it was gone. I did love her, it went beyond the typical highschool love game. I truly loved her, and she truly loved me.

If i could go back in time would i ask her out? Probably not, she had tons of guys flirt with her and i had tons of girls flirt with me. Even though we got jealous, we couldnt say anything because technically we werent dating. If we were dating, the other guys, and the other girls, wouldve started shit.

quote:Originally posted by celbii:

and uhh if its not smelly dont make it smelly ? o_O

^^^^^^^^Wordz of a wise man

[This message has been edited by -Renegade- (edited 06-14-2004).]

so i should play it out as long as possible vefore asking her out. sounds reasonable enough. but today is one monthe exactly from when we first fucked (and met, well technically not but i never hung around with her before then). i think i might just ask her to stimulate thing. maybe shell become even more wild in bed. maybe?

Never ever ruin a good fuck budy with a relationship. If you have a good thing going then why would you want to mess it up? Yes I read that you said that you are starting to like this girl and from your post it sounds like you are still in High School. So I hate to be the one to break it to you but this won't be the last girl that you will "like" or have sex with. The chances of you guys going out and staying together are slim to none and on top of that the chances of you guys going out and the sex staying the same are slim to none.

Take Care,

Xtreme

My grandmother always said 'Why buy the cow, when ya get the sex for free...'

...Course she became a lesbian on her 60th birthday, but that's beside the point

"why buy the cow when the sex is free" im more confused then when i started.