Recently, me and my gf have been fooling around and I get her off a lot. But she wants to get me off and I can't seem to cum whether shes giving me head or a handjob, or whatever. She thinks I'm too nervous and under some of the circumstances, I guess I was, is there anything I can do about this? Besides telling me to relax....:P

If you jerk off alot you wont be able to cum very easily. And being able to cum off a hanjob or blowjob is damn near impossible unless the girl knows what shes doing. You need to stop jerking off for a while, and just have sex with her. Sometimes guys, just like most girls, need to learn to cum from sexual contact before they can do it frequently.

quote:Originally posted by whiteass:

If you jerk off alot you wont be able to cum very easily. And being able to cum off a hanjob or blowjob is damn near impossible unless the girl knows what shes doing. You need to stop jerking off for a while, and just have sex with her. Sometimes guys, just like most girls, need to learn to cum from sexual contact before they can do it frequently.

This guy knows his shit.

ya he is right on. i could never cum from a blowjob... it felt great but it went no where or the girl got tired but when you get down to the nasty you should have no problem. fuck abstinence just use protection.

once you get a girl dont beat it at all. save it all for her. it will make it better.

is it better to wank the day before or the day of when you go out and you know something might happen? if you "saved it up" wouldnt there be a greater chance of premature ejaculation? just wondering

Have her use a vacuum to suck that cum out!

Gustave I can see why ppl dont like you.

quote:Originally posted by Viking82:

Gustave I can see why ppl dont like you.

Good for you, do you want a cookie or something? Come on, it isn't like I get this five times a day, nooo...

Me too, i cant come from head even though it feels great, i ended up just jerking it until i was about to come and then her finishing it off last time, it worked well.

~H

^Won't be changing for you anytime soon, except I guarantee you the female presence will be gone soon enough.

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

^Won't be changing for you anytime soon, except I guarantee you the female presence will be gone soon enough.

Is that the same reason the "female presence" has left you?

Yea, so I was finally able to do it, by my own hand. but it was good cuz we were just checking each other out and just before I blew, she finished me off, so it was sorta good. I dunno, I dont think the sensations are right, she says shes willing to learn and everything, so I'm optimistic.

Dump her. Your girlfriend doesnt know what she's doing.

Find yourself a slut.

man like everyone else said just dont wack-it as much and youll be fine