Today I was with this guy (the first guy I've even been close to in months) and we were making out and I discovered that I was giving him signals to stop whenever he got close to doing something. It was really strange. It's like I'm a closet prude or something. I don't get it. Maybe it's because I feel he's a lot more attractive than me. Or maybe it's because I started being less attracted to him when I found out that 1. He's a pretty bad kisser and 2. He's willing to make out with me. I guess I start thinking a guy is a loser if he's making out with me. That's a problem. I think. I don't know. Maybe we would have gone farther if my parents had called, but I'm not sure. It's been so long since I've even like felt the touch of another person. I can't believe how long it's been. I just pissed away a school year. ...I know I'm rambling. I'm high, so give me a break.

Ok, you get a break, I won't go on and on about how much more Punk Rock I am than you.

But, maybe, it sounds like you have some underlying psycological issues. Maybe some counseling would be helpful? You ar either A. Not going to do this or B. Already in counseling. I think I could flip a coin on this one. But, anyway, just get out there and FUCK someone, it's like bursting a pimple: It will cure it, or make it 100 times worse. Flip that coin, baby.

Pass a jay around before you get down to it next time. You're probably just nervous, it'll pass.

Well, Glitts, I'd date you & rub your tits (if it was the right thing to do), but I'd have to respect you first.

I've got no respect for a girl, who'd go out with a guy like me.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Pass a jay around before you get down to it next time. You're probably just nervous, it'll pass.

Did I neglect to mention that I was high when I was with this dude? Well I was. So that's obviously not the issue.

Was it the right guy?

As you know every woman is an individual, not

interchagable. As a guy I know that. In Real

Time...I find myself (especially when lusty) thinking of women more generically.

So, the guy was attractive, so what? Was he the right guy? In theory I know that the nasty girls are just as physically good as the ones that would suit me.

Appearances, they are deceptive. What if he's wrong but you got hung up on him? Couldn't happen? Uh huh.

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

but I'd have to respect you first.

I've got no respect for a girl, who'd go out with a guy like me.

Fucking come on, man! Even I'D go out with you!!

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



Pass a jay around before you get down to it next time. You're probably just nervous, it'll pass.

I don't know if it's just me but when I smoke I feel less into it. Alcohol seems to turn me into a nympho though. Maybe you could get a little drunk together.

I don't think that this is really anything to worry about, haven't you experienced this before with new people?

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

Fucking come on, man! Even I'D go out with you!!



Oooooh! Infra!...Totse would talk & giggle too. What would that * Free Strange Chicken *

PlenteiChicken say?

Grr. They guy who this thread is about called me at noon and woke me up. I don't like him anymore.

ew bad kissers suck. gag.

i don't blame you.

AND WAKING YOU UP! OH MY GOD! jesus, forget him.

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

Grr. They guy who this thread is about called me at noon and woke me up. I don't like him anymore.

I love how these things solve themselves sometimes.

If you aren't up by noontime, sleep longer!

tease!!! keep leading him on , he'll want you even more and then just dump his ass its fun

quote:Originally posted by whatatripthishasbeen:

tease!!! keep leading him on , he'll want you even more and then just dump his ass its fun

i hope you burn in hell

quote:Originally posted by whatatripthishasbeen:

tease!!! keep leading him on , he'll want you even more and then just dump his ass its fun

The two women who have tried that on me have both been shocked by the willpower and the mindgames I can whip out. Normally, I wouldn't ever. But doing that shit is just cruel.

Your credibility just dropped pretty badly, in my eyes.

quote:Originally posted by whatatripthishasbeen:

tease!!! keep leading him on , he'll want you even more and then just dump his ass its fun





quote:Originally posted by Blurry:

i hope you burn in hell



[This message has been edited by watchmeburn (edited 06-15-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

Grr. They guy who this thread is about called me at noon and woke me up. I don't like him anymore.

you spelled the* wrong.

I think relationships are fucked up. Why be nervous abot something which sooner or later is bound to mess up? Plus mind games and shit, are too fun to not do. Sex with acquaintances is better.

In my opinion, the best things about being with someone anyways is: holding hands, sex, company. You can do all this with friends.

What was the point of this?

For you to tell us, you were feeling desperate and hooked up with some bad kissing loser.

While you were high...now he woke you up at noon and you were upset?

Here's a newsflash for anyone who wakes up at noon and complains.

GET A FUCKING JOB!

Oh, but being punk rock is about avoiding all of that "working" stuff right?

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

...I'm high, so give me a break.

You and me both .

I don't know why everyone is telling you to get drunk or stoned to go farther with some guy. You shouldn't have to be fucked up to make out or feel up or fool around with someone.

didnt read it all, but this thread seems to be flameless, could it be because the starter is a girl?

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

What was the point of this?

For you to tell us, you were feeling desperate and hooked up with some bad kissing loser.

While you were high...now he woke you up at noon and you were upset?

Here's a newsflash for anyone who wakes up at noon and complains.

GET A FUCKING JOB!

Oh, but being punk rock is about avoiding all of that "working" stuff right?

Hi, Carbon. Was starting to miss you. Thanks for the pointless flame. But if you actually read a thing I wrote you would notice that this thread is about me being confused about why I'm so timid when it comes to doing stuff with guys. I'm a prude and don't know why. I was mostly joking about the getting woken up at noon bit.

And I'm 14 fucking years old. Who the fuck would hire me?

At 14 years of age - you should be putting on the "brakes" whilst making out . Nothing wrong with holding back a while til you feel more comfortable . It's not you being a prude at all - it's you're instincts cutting stopping you from doing things you don't feel ready for .

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

...I'm 14 fucking years old...

Holy shit !

quote:Originally posted by whatatripthishasbeen:

tease!!! keep leading him on , he'll want you even more and then just dump his ass its fun

I have been reading totse for about a year and a half now and never felt the need to post. But I can't resist. People like you are fucking stupid. Sure teasing can be fun as long as everyone gets what they want in the end. But you pull some shit like that on me and I will punch you in the fucking teeth.

quote:Originally posted by kickboxer:

I have been reading totse for about a year and a half now and never felt the need to post. But I can't resist. People like you are fucking stupid. Sure teasing can be fun as long as everyone gets what they want in the end. But you pull some shit like that on me and I will punch you in the fucking teeth.

Ooh, tough guy.