Some girl i kno, right? ya following with me? she doesnt trust me in what i say about her, but she trusts my advice, she trusts my theories and my comlex's. she beleives everything i say, as long as its not about her

Example: I help her with her problems i.e. schoolwork, and she follows my advice, I tell her shes beautifull, she says she doesnt want to trust me because my mind is too strong.

We used to be best freinds and she knows that i can manipulate people to hell and change their feelings as i please. and she knows how well i can do this... and shes scared of me emotionally...

how can i fix this?

buy her something like a card or a stuff animal,write a love note or a poem and give it to her when she's down

chicks dig that shit

You can't fix it anytime soon. As the saying goes, it takes a thousand ethical acts to make a good reputation, and only one unethical act to destroy it. Since you've established yourself as a manipulative sort, you'd have to undergo a major personality overhaul. This could take years.

So the question is basically how can you manipulate this girl into not thinking you're manipulative?

Good stuff

My only advice is to proove your mind's wall isn't impenetrable. Give her a chance or two to see you vulnerable. Make you "more human" instead of treating people like a chess game.

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she knows that i can manipulate people to hell and change their feelings as i please.

I dealt with this problem once. How can i manipulate someone that knows my manipulative skills. Basically she (lets call her Girl X) ended up being extremely defensive about anything i said or did, assuming it had an alterior motive. Besides the point that she was right, i used that to my advantage. I got her to believe that my "alterior motives" were in good intention. Example?

best one i can think of off the top of my head is from Van Wilders. dont know exact quotes, but goes something like this.

Van: "I cant believe you published that"

Tara: "blah blh blah blah, blah blah!"

Van: "You dont understand, i wasnt just doing it for the money"

Tara: "blah blah blah, blah?

Van "those geeks are cool in their own respect, people just needed to get to know them and realize that"

What i did was lead this chick on, who i planned on hooking up with later on when i had time. THen completely drop her and ignore her the next day. When girl x found out, she came and was bitching me out because she thought id do the same thing to her. I then told her, "blh blha blah, i found out after starting to mack on her, that my friend (named one of my friends that has no success with women, got some pitty illicited) really liked her, and i value the friendship between me and him more than i value her as a possible girlfriend."

Then i basically told me friend that i could tell she liked him, which of course he believed because he assumes i can read people like i can read books. Gave him a few tips, boosted his confidence, and he went out after her. They started dating 3 days later. Girl x came by and said that even when i admitted why i left the other girl, she still didnt believe me. But then she saw me helping (friend) to get her. She said it was a real sweet side of me that she had never seen before.

Once again i played it cool (extremely hard, i was jumping all over inside when i found my plan had actually worked) and said "yea well dont tell anyone, he (friend) is alot more confident now that he has a girl that he think left me for him, and because of that he has been so much happier lately"

To girl x it seemed like i was risking my reputation (which i really dont give a fuck about) so my friend could be happy.

girl x said "i guess my image was completely wrong, you really do care about other people"

and with that, her whole defensive thinking vanished. SHe opened up to me and it was a great feeling. I figured if i could do that, i could anything.

Sorry buddy but once you have a reputation it's hard for people to forget it.

Believe me man, I still have the reputation of being a hot-headed, pool cue weilding lunatic from 4 years ago!

That ain't going away too soon!

I'd say level with her...But be honest.

Like "Look...I know you kno I can manipulate people but I thought we were friends...Why would I do that to a friend?"

Or something along those lines!

dude just be honest and straight forward, tell her what you want, your intentions and how you really feel about her, and if that fails buy her some mushy shit, chicks dig it

if she doesnt want your opinion dont force it opon her if you feel she likes you tell her how you feel and hope for the best

scincerly dark prince