Bah...lately I've realized that everyone around me is getting a girlfriend. Today it just hit me, and now I'm feeling fucking depressed about it. I don't feel a strong need for a girlfriend right now, but then again, I want one. I don't know what I'm asking, as any advice you guys could give me on getting a girlfriend I've probably heard...

Anybody else gone through this in high school? Everyone else is getting with girls...and you are just on the side looking stupid.

You might try a girl FRIEND. I'm serious. I've found that during such times in my life, having a close chick friend (who you're not dating and shouldn't be fucking, at least not at this stage) satiates the need for that feminine comfort; "love", if you will, albeit a different form of it, and also gives you someone to confide in. Try not to let it become love too fast, though, if you have to do it at all.

Yeah, man, don't worry about it, high school girls are immature, and will just use you.

If you want a serious relationship, wait till you get out of school for it. Then you will know if a girl likes you for you, or if she is just using you in some way.

Also, you will be able to tell what kind of person they are better, by seeing where, and how they work, how they manage money, and how they act as an adult as compared to a kid.

You would be surprised how being out of school for a few months can rally change a person. Highschoolers are petty, grow up, and get a grown up girl, and you will be much happier in the end.

But, if you are just after pussy, be an asshole, and ignore the girls, and they will hop on your dick faster than you can get the motherfucker hard. (which is pretty quick at yours, and mine ages hehehehe)

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

You might try a girl FRIEND. I'm serious. I've found that during such times in my life, having a close chick friend (who you're not dating and shouldn't be fucking, at least not at this stage) satiates the need for that feminine comfort; "love", if you will, albeit a different form of it, and also gives you someone to confide in. Try not to let it become love too fast, though, if you have to do it at all.

No one take this guys advice, he's a pussy.

Killa Cas, I bet you have no Idea what the fuck you are saying... I like your "Gerbil up the ass" thread by the way... how retarded...

Anyway... if you really want a girlfriend... go to a disco or something and get a girl.

I'm sure you've heard this before, but its the only way you're gonna get one... dont be a little inhibited fuck sitting in the corner while everyone else is happy...

Then again, what do i know, i'm just a 13 year old kid...

[This message has been edited by Dazzle (edited 06-11-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by Dazzle:

Killa Cas, I bet you have no Idea what the fuck you are saying... I like your "Gerbil up the ass" thread by the way... how retarded...

Anyway... if you really want a girlfriend... go to a disco or something and get a girl.

I'm sure you've heard this before, but its the only way you're gonna get one... dont be a little inhibited fuck sitting in the corner while everyone else is happy...

Then again, what do i know, i'm just a 13 year old kid...

[This message has been edited by Dazzle (edited 06-11-2004).]

Just curious, this isn't an insult or anything, but are your from Europe? I've never heard disco used before as far as parties and clubs [in America].

Back to the topic: YEah, I'm not a loner or anything. I hang around with me people, laugh, talk, etc. I dunno what my "problem" is. I think I'm just too picky. Most of the guys I know with girlfriends have...less than hot girlfriends. That's just my personality...whenever I'm at a dance or something I am often standing around a lot looking for hot girls to dance with. I only dance 7-10 times in the night, but they are with incredibly hot girls. I think my pickiness/choice in girls may be inhibiting my social life as far as girls are concerned.

Infrared is right friends that are girls are way better then a girl friend half of all my friends are girls its better than a relationship

Call your mom.

I hate that shit man. It's usually always like that. There will always be the odd one out. You get fucked out of a lot of things sometimes. Like when they all go out and have fun and you're stuck at home because you don't have anyone to go with you.

Me and my friends are always like that. Usually my best friends it'll be like I have a girlfriend and he doesn't or the other way around. I think he might be hooking up with my girlfriends friend soon. So it'll all be cool then. Then we can go out and do shit.

Well there's your problem. Just start hooking up with ugly chicks. Sounds like they're the only kind of girls that you can get... shallow asshole.

Today i was extremely depressed. I never dated a girl, and this year was my best year because i got less shy, got friends who are girls, and almost... almost had a girlfriend!

Oh yea... actually a girl asked me out but i dont like her so i told her i think she is pretty but i have someone special in mind (she isnt really pretty... but i do have someone special in mind).

Anyway, let me enlighten you and express myself at the same time. I like this one girl, more than any girl (her looks... i can basically tell her personality even though i hardly know her). Call her K. She is a year younger than me, im 16. I would choose K. over any celebrity and i would still equally like her if she couldnt have sex (i dunno im just saying, if she couldnt (cuz it wouldnt matter i would just love her)]

The thing is... months ago i really liked K. equally with her best friend. As the year passed i lost interest in her best friend and it was all focused on K.

Basically, now, i lost interest in almost every girl (yea its a fucking shame i told my friend about it, they think its pretty fucked up)... But anyway. A friend of mine who is a girl wanted to know who i liked in the school so i told her the two girls (this was months ago). Turns out, she is K's best friend's....friend! (im probably confusing the shit out of you, let me clear this up) :

I like K

I used to like K's friend as well

My friend... is friends with K's friend.

Get it? Good.

So now my friend told K's friend, that i liked her!!! and this was months later, at the point that i dont even like K's friend anymore.

So, the girl instant messages me (got my screename from my friend). I talked to her nice and politely (thats how i am, im not just doing that to look good)... instantly she is in love with me. She makes me walk with her to one of her classes every day... She told me im a cutie and how she feels so comfortable telling me things that she could ever tell anyone else. I was liking it, even tho i am focused on K.

So... this girl has been liking me for about a week and a half now maybe? She's really nice and everything, and she was telling me so much serious stuff, like i was barbara walters or something. I admitted to her that there was someone REALLY special in our school that i liked.... She was okay with it, she still flirted with me like hell, and acted like she was trying to "win" me or whatever, without being all forceful about it. She was really getting open and she told me she really liked me.

Now today... It fucking hit me like a brick wall. I walked her to her class, and then i waited till like 5 oclock to go online (shes always online....)

She usually messages me first, i dont want it to look like im obsessed with her, but dont want it to be like im neglecting her, so i waited about 30 seconds then sent her a message.

She told me that she was having a bad day, so i was all nice about it and asked her whats wrong. She said she didnt know, so of course i told her that a day isnt bad unless there is something that makes it bad <--- that sounds shitty, i said it a lot better when i was talking to her....

Anyway, she told me: "its okay, my BF..." (BF being boyfriend).

I sat there trying to decipher this strange code... Thats not exactly what she said, but her sentence structure could have been read in two different ways:

1. Calling me her boyfriend

2. Saying that it was her boyfriend giving her a bad day

So i just played dumb and said: "I thought you said you didnt have a boyfriend"

She said something weird like "That was before..." (as in... before you told me you didnt have a boyfriend? Oh so you got one in... lets see... 3 days?)

And i was like "oh... alright"

She told me she didnt want to tell me cuz she thought i would be mad. I just said i didnt mind, and i said the only person that would be mad is her boyfriend (Since i was flirting with her and walking with her and shit!)

If i knew this i would have never talked to her the way i did. Now i feel sorta.... violated. I mean, im not gonna cry about it, but i was pretty pissed off. She wasnt even nice about it she acted like i was being annoying talking to her now. There was mad gaps of silence in the rest of the convo. When i talked to her, and she told me how she liked me so much, i totally forgot about K... But now i realise that even the nice people can be deceitful. I won't forgive her yet. At least now i wont feel bad telling her i love her best friend.

Beleive me, this shit really ruined my day though today, i felt like i just wanted to sleep the rest of the day away (i took like a 2 hour nap)

I never eat lunch in school at lunchtime so im just gonna go to the library, just so i dont have to feel guilty walking with her.

See how shit goes over the weekend... i'll probably ask her about K too. It will really piss me off if she gets UPSET that i like her friend, after she lied to me and was deceitful.

Ok, im done with my LIFE FUCKING STORY and i hope you all dont mind me posting my tragedy on your precious forums. Someone might read this, it probably wont be interesting, just johnney5 bitching and being a pansy. At least i got that frustration out

Later all

quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

Well there's your problem. Just start hooking up with ugly chicks. Sounds like they're the only kind of girls that you can get... shallow asshole.

Yeah...I'm a shallow asshole. That's it.

To elaborate though:

I find it hard to be initially attracted to a girl unless she is gorgeous. That's just the way I am. Often, the more I talk to any girl, the more beautiful she seems to me. So, its not like personality is a minor thing. Its a pretty big thing for me in fact. Looks are just a major part of the initial attraction.

About a week from now I'll be moving away from everyone I know to go live in a shitty house in a small town. And not a one of my "friends" has called me to hang out. Not only do I not have a boyfriend or girlfriend; I don't have any friends period. Last time I hung out with someone, it was a "party" to congratulate my friend on graduating. Only she barely said a word to me, so I spent a few hours talking to her dumbass friends about how much they hate lesbians. I'm not asking for pity here. I'm just telling you to suck it.

I'm lonely a lot too. I really miss having a girlfriend. I've got my ex-girlfriend to talk to still, but even though we both have feelings for each other, we can't be together for a number of reasons. I really miss having physical contact with girls because I'm in high school and almost all the people there are stupid. I'm picky too, but only because I look for beauty, intelligence, and depth in girls, and my ex is the most perfect description of what I want. Fucking sucks being alone, mostly the nights of aching for physical contact from someone that loves you, and not having anyone to confide in because the only person that understands you works too much and only sees you a couple times a week for a half hour or so. God I want some alcohol or pain killers right now...

There are times when I find myself wanting a girl to spend some time with, and I dwell upon it for a bit. Then I always think about how easy it is to be single. I can flirt with any girl, any time, and not worry about some innocent joke being turned into a whole "cheating" incident.

When I find myself beginning to become depressed, I find something to do. Go for a ride in a car or on a bike, do something crazy. Get your mind off of needing to have a girlfriend.

I'm a junior in HS, and I still have not had a girlfriend. It's not that I can't get one, it's just that I don't really try hard. Yeah, I joke and flirt with plenty of girls throughout the day, but I'm more in it for the friendship instead of the ass, unlike some men out there who let their penises think before their brains.

Just don't dwell on it... you will find someone some day. High school girls are typically fickle anyway (although, there are a few good ones spread here and there), and usually don't want to get into a really serious relationship.

[This message has been edited by Whiteflame (edited 06-11-2004).]

ya, as lots of people say, highschool relationships suck...Like most people in this thread, single and sometimes down about it...but hey, its not the end of the world...just wait till college man, chicks will have grown up more...and their not the snotty bitches that they were in highschool, and if they are, well, avoid them....

theres my 2 cents

quote:Originally posted by SublimeZen124:

God I want some alcohol or pain killers right now...

I'm glad to be at the point where I can say "I want painkillers because my fucking goddamn head hurts!!", not "I want painkillers so I can run away from it all and sleep". It'll work out, man. If a fragile, borderline psychotic motherfucker like me can fight through that shit, you DEFINITELY can.

[This message has been edited by Infrared (edited 06-11-2004).]

Yeah, everone's been there. Stick it through and some opportunities will come up, I wouldn't avoid dating all together because it ruins the fun of high school!

Just remember that you're not the only person single, lots of people at your school are too and some would probably even fake being with somone.

good luck!

hah sadly i know how you feel, i thought about that shit today, its just the summer, everyone's getting into their little relashionsips, bah!

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

About a week from now I'll be moving away from everyone I know to go live in a shitty house in a small town. And not a one of my "friends" has called me to hang out. Not only do I not have a boyfriend or girlfriend; I don't have any friends period. Last time I hung out with someone, it was a "party" to congratulate my friend on graduating. Only she barely said a word to me, so I spent a few hours talking to her dumbass friends about how much they hate lesbians. I'm not asking for pity here. I'm just telling you to suck it.

Still better than my friends who occasionally show up to my house and then either steal or break sometihng before they done eating a lot of food and leave. Not to mention that they're assholes to each other as well and talk behind each oters backs about wanting them to commit suicide. Did I mention that I live in town that is filled with incredible assholes?

haha.