I know a girl that likes me very much, but I don't know what to do with her.

She doesn't know very much, is VERY lazy and naive, and her parents have alot of control over her life.

And from what I get from her, controling as well

Summed up.

She's been sheltered for most of her life and I don't know what to do with her.

Any suggestions dealing with a person like this?

Do you like her enough to "save" her?

As i got older, i started to shy away from people who need "saving" because i'm not a social worker service. BUT hey it would be incredibly romantic and just like the movies if you DID. ...and if she actually wanted to change...

quote:Originally posted by FourUntoFive:

I know a girl that likes me very much, but I don't know what to do with her.

She doesn't know very much, is VERY lazy and naive, and her parents have alot of control over her life.

And from what I get from her, controling as well

Summed up.

She's been sheltered for most of her life and I don't know what to do with her.

Any suggestions dealing with a person like this?

Take her to a crack house, tell her you're just going to the bathroom, then leave. After a few hours she will have learned more about how life really is than she has in her whole life.

quote:Originally posted by Tabiba:

BUT hey it would be incredibly romantic and just like the movies if you DID

...which is why it rarely, if ever happens. Getting with girls with stigmas or problems and trying to help them through it is a gamble with odds against you. You seem disparaging in your post as if it's not worth the trouble, which leads me to assume that you won't succeed. If you're also really interested in this girl, go for it.

do her and her perents...unsheltered

Break her in right proper - from behind!

Chances are you'll have to explain a lot of shit to her. If you don't think you have the patience to deal with the constant questions (most of which will probably seem basic to you) then don't bother starting anything with her.

If you're willing, take her with you to a lot of stuff and expose her, not just to sex or drugs, but to art and cultures and just other ways of thinking. I try and expose people to lots of music and art scenes. She might not be worth it if she's not willing to get rid of her parent's control over her.

Thanks for the advise.

She curious about alot of stuff, but she complains a-plenty about her parents.

For you heartless bastards out there (and I know you guys exist), how can one turn someone like this into a personal nympomaniac?

quote:Originally posted by SublimeZen124:

If you're willing, take her with you to a lot of stuff and expose her...to sex or drugs...

Yes! On with the sex and drugs!

would oyu really want to turn her into a nymphomaniac though (and im fully aware i cant spell that word!, i think) Surely u like her as she is at the moment, so surely her naievity and innocence are part of what you like about her, so you wouldnt want to change her completely.

And as for the parent part, thatll fix itself if you go out with her, coz youll take her out at night, and she wont always be home. This will cause one of the parents to crack and become more liberal, thereby making the control over her life to diminish by half.

And for all you sceptics out there about the above paragraph, this is how i got one of my best mates to not be soo controlled by her parents. I didnt go out with her or anything, i just like invited her to do stuff and shit, and her mother eventually cracked.

And if you do get with her, youll proberbly find out she isnt as naieve and innocent as you think she may be