Well he hates me. Its because someone imed her on my screen name telling her i was gonna rape her. Now this was last fucking year and i dont know why hes saying something now. No matter what i say he doesnt listen to me. I dont know what his fucking problem is. By the way shes 16 and im 15, if that helps any. Anyone have any experience? I think he just dislikes how i dress. I have multiple ear peircings and i wear black. So i think hes just stereotyping me. Any help would be greatly apreciated.

So? fuck him, if the girl likes you thats all that matters. Girls don't like guys that their parents like anyway. If anything, you should try to piss him off more, without offending her, so that she will want you even more!

quote:Originally posted by stupid noob:

So? fuck him, if the girl likes you thats all that matters. Girls don't like guys that their parents like anyway. If anything, you should try to piss him off more, without offending her, so that she will want you even more!

Are relationship isnt like that. Her father doesnt even know were going out.

Thats a tough one man... maybe you should tell your girlfriend to talk to him? If he wont listen to you maybe he'll listen to her.

How did someone im her on your screenname? Do you have any idea who did that?

^^^not relevant.

Get to know her father and let her father get to know you. If he still doesn't like you, then you're either a shithead that doesn't deserve his daughter or he's an asshole.

Dude, if some fucktard IM'ed my daughter saying he was going to rape her, I'd have him killed. That's just me, but eh... *shrugs* (Seriously, I would have him killed. The mob is alive and well. )

But back to your situation.

So... the father finds an instant message that says, "Im gonna r4pz0rs j00!!!11!1 lolololol!!11!!!1" or something to that affect.

The father doesn't know that you're dating his daughter.

The father won't listen to a word you say. (And you know this for sure? You've tried talking to him, seriously, in broad daylight, in his home?)

You have multiple piercings and dress in black, and you believe the father is stereotyping you.

Have I got that right so far? Yes? Good.

Dude, you need to have a serious chat with this guy. First of all, TELL HIM you're dating his daughter. Secondly, when you have this conversation, leave the earrings and the black clothes at home. No, it's not right to stereotype people, but being well dressed isn't going to hurt your case. Thirdly, explain to him that you're an upstanding young man, that you would NEVER do anything like that to ANYBODY, let alone his daughter, a girl you like and respect. Have some phone numbers of people you know and, if it's possible, people he knows that also know you, as personal references to back up your claim. Fourthly, explain to him what happened when that particular instant message was sent. Be sure to explain to him that it was someone else that sent the IM, and, if you can, give him that person's name. Fifthly, offer to have him and his family over to your family's house for dinner, so you can all get to know each other in an open, friendly atmosphere.

Be willing to compromise (i.e. supervised dating for a certain amount of time, etc.), and don't forget to smile. Just a simple smile helps to warm up potentially un-yielding people.

If he's not agreeable to talking to you in person, write him a letter, and make sure your girl gives it to him.

All in all, it's a sorry ass situation. But it is fixable if you're willing to work on it.

quote:Originally posted by Lilly:

Dude, if some fucktard IM'ed my daughter saying he was going to rape her, I'd have him killed. That's just me, but eh... *shrugs* (Seriously, I would have him killed. The mob is alive and well. )

But back to your situation.

So... the father finds an instant message that says, "Im gonna r4pz0rs j00!!!11!1 lolololol!!11!!!1" or something to that affect.

The father doesn't know that you're dating his daughter.

The father won't listen to a word you say. (And you know this for sure? You've tried talking to him, seriously, in broad daylight, in his home?)

You have multiple piercings and dress in black, and you believe the father is stereotyping you.

Have I got that right so far? Yes? Good.

Dude, you need to have a serious chat with this guy. First of all, TELL HIM you're dating his daughter. Secondly, when you have this conversation, leave the earrings and the black clothes at home. No, it's not right to stereotype people, but being well dressed isn't going to hurt your case. Thirdly, explain to him that you're an upstanding young man, that you would NEVER do anything like that to ANYBODY, let alone his daughter, a girl you like and respect. Have some phone numbers of people you know and, if it's possible, people he knows that also know you, as personal references to back up your claim. Fourthly, explain to him what happened when that particular instant message was sent. Be sure to explain to him that it was someone else that sent the IM, and, if you can, give him that person's name. Fifthly, offer to have him and his family over to your family's house for dinner, so you can all get to know each other in an open, friendly atmosphere.

Be willing to compromise (i.e. supervised dating for a certain amount of time, etc.), and don't forget to smile. Just a simple smile helps to warm up potentially un-yielding people.

If he's not agreeable to talking to you in person, write him a letter, and make sure your girl gives it to him.

All in all, it's a sorry ass situation. But it is fixable if you're willing to work on it.

1. Yes thats actualy how it was written. And it was written by the son of one of her mothers coworkers. He knows my password cause i used to go there all the time.

2. Ive tried talking to him but he just stands there, doesnt say a word and just walks away. I mean he lets me come over to see her, considering shes my neighbor. But, she cant leave the house when im there...

3. If i told him i was dateing her id never get to see her. Shes tried telling him it wasnt me, but he wont listen. And there is some tension between the two and he wont even talk to her in the first place.

4. Yes, he is an asshole. And everybody knows it.

I dont get it, he was all buddy buddy with me. Then out of the blue he tells her she cant leave her house to see me anymore.

Personaly i hate the bastard.

decomfuk resisted flaming here.

^^^^^

Flames?

Blah, id brake you like a little bitch.

*break

Well, I don't know what to tell you then. If you've tried talking to him, if she's tried talking to him, and neither one of you is getting through... meh. Fuck it.

Give it some time. He'll cool off. In the meantime, respect his wishes, and stay away from his daughter. Because if he finds out that you've been seeing each other behind his back, he could press charges. Seriously. Or at the very least, he could get a restraining order. And that would not look good on your record.

I didn't write that shit.

Your a pothead, a drug addict, a thief, and a liar.

Would you want your daughter to go out with someone like you?

I'm accepting of this because I love you both, but saying that I wrote the letter..

if you have multiple ear peircings and whine like a pussy - well

shit son wheres your teenage revolutionary spirit?! just say "im going out with your daughter, do you have a problem?" and if he goes apeshit at you, then at least he's getting it all out! then you can talk it over. i dont know if your an american, but over here that how i'd do it. fathers in the uk dont own guns, so i guess i have less to fear.

quote:Originally posted by Lilly:

Because if he finds out that you've been seeing each other behind his back, he could press charges. Seriously. Or at the very least, he could get a restraining order. And that would not look good on your record.

I thought it was the guy who was underage, not the girl, so how would that work?

quote:Originally posted by HempMaster:

^^^^^

Flames?

Blah, id brake you like a little bitch.

No you wouldn’t because:

a) You’re a 15 year old American bitch who can’t spell

b) Your interests are Magic TG Dungeuns and Dragons

c) You are a rapist, (makes you a pussy who wants to feel in control)

d) You dress like a fucking cliché fag

e) You care that your girlfriends farther doesn’t like you (tough attitude to have mate)

f) Someone gave you tobacco and told you it was weed, which lead you to choosing the screen name HempMaster

quote:Originally posted by Lilly:

*break

. Because if he finds out that you've been seeing each other behind his back, he could press charges. Seriously. Or at the very least, he could get a restraining order. And that would not look good on your record.



No he couldn't. Where the fuck did you get that bullshit from? What charges would he press?

quote:Originally posted by moneyandatv:

No he couldn't. Where the fuck did you get that bullshit from? What charges would he press?

harassment to name one. And yes he can get a restraining order. I had one put on me by a chicks mom. But i fought it in court and won, so it was expunged from my record.

quote:Originally posted by stupid noob:

Girls don't like guys that their parents like anyway.

Not true.

My girlfriends parents like me... well they're nice to me... damn you now I'm paranoid.

quote:Originally posted by Aphelion Corona:

Not true.

My girlfriends parents like me... well they're nice to me... damn you now I'm paranoid.

No he is right. But it another one of those things that it doesnt hurt you, it only helps you. A girl isnt going to like you any less if her parents approve of you, but she will like you more if her parents dont like you. SO you run the possibility of her meeting a guy her parents wont like, and she could like him more.

Haha, twisted but true whiteass.

I still stand by my first post. Fuck him. I have had problems with fathers in the past, one invited me over, we talked nicely for an hour, then I went out back with his daughter and some of our friends to burn one, and the dick called the cops on us for trespassing!

I was 16, and he told me when I turned 18 to come back, and we could finish it like men, I told him fuck you, lets do it right now.

He pussied out, and then once I turned 18, I saw him at a family get together (i was there for my kid, who was off playing at the time) and I walked up to him and asked him about his little offer from 2 years ago, and he just looked at me and walked away.

I was ready to beat that motherfuckers ass, but it turns out he was just talking shit.

Feel him out, most people do not want to hit a kid and go to jail, so you can run your mouth back. If he says you can't see eachother, meet secretly.

Just tell him you are going out, and if he gives you shit, give it back. Fuck him, he doesn't even care about his daughter, he is just trying to be a dick to her, and anyone that tries to make her happy (i.e. you) He won't listen to her, so he won't listen to you. Ignore the bastard unless he starts getting too shitty, then just give it all back to him.

If you do though, be prepared to fight or get your ass kicked, because some people don't care about going to jail, and he might be one of them.

quote:Originally posted by HempMaster:

Are relationship isnt like that. Her father doesnt even know were going out.

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