and very very happy about it. How many people can say truly that they're in love with who they believe is their soulmate?

I feel S&A has a negative sort of feeling about it recently, im just trying to bring some positivity.

So then, who's in love, and whos happy?

Thank god I'm not in love. Good look to you, but if this is your first love get ready for the break up, that pain will never stop hurting.

It's great to be in love.. or what you think is love. But at the same time, it sucks. To much shit can happen. No matter who you are, I'm sure there is always some jealousy and paranoia. =/ and then when the relationship ends, might as well shoot yourself. =p heh. Yeah, too many pros and cons on this subject.

Oh thanks, a great start to my thread of positivity!

Yes i've been hurt before, but all that did was make me see how lucky I am now.

yes theres enough jealousy and paranoia to last a lifetime seeing as i'm in a long distance relationship, but it doesn't matter. Leave the cons, the pros outweigh them.

lol, sorry about the negativity. =p Completly forgot it was a happy thread. Well I can say.. I am "in love" with someone.

Ya i have.. It Sucks coming down though

DAMN YOU FLOOD CONTROL!!

Doesn't that feel better!

I'm in love...... god its the best feeling inthe world. It makes me feel like I have something to live for now

i'm in love and have been since he and i met . its the best feeling

im in love with her. shes in love with me. were both whores. something is going to go extremely wrong soon, just have the feeling.

quote:Originally posted by whiteass:

im in love with her. shes in love with me. were both whores. something is going to go extremely wrong soon, just have the feeling.

Ahem, not very positive. Although it is good to talk.

Love fucks you up.

Was in love, then idk what happened w/ this girl... but things went wrong and now life sucks even more.

im in a long distance relationship 2, and its the happiest ive ever been. He gives me hope and makes me feel special.I suppose the fact that im jealous and proud and dont like 2 think of him having this whole other life without me (when im not there) isnt a good thing.But that just shows how much i do love him and do care. I love him with all my heart, and i can honestly say that this is all i need,ever.And if ur gunna disagree, well i wouldnt expect you to know anyway.

I do know about long distance relationships... and they suck. When they end, it changes everything about the person. I dont talk to the girl who i had a long distance relationship w/ n e more. I could never trust her and i still dont today.

I'll try not to get too scientific and crazy with this but..

I think at different moments in your life, there are different people that could be a potential soulmate.

I'm going to try and simplify this as much as posible: You know how some theorize that time branches? Like, alternate dimensions and what not? I think let say, when your 16 there's a person out there who's perfect for you. If you meander from that path: make drastic changes in your life, the way you are living, or the way you are, then your soulmate changes.

Bottom line, you can have many different soulmates throughout your life. And the one you end up with, isn't neccessarily the one you were born for or the only one you could be so in love or happy with.

That being said, I'm sure you have guessed thta yes, at one point I though I found my soulmate. We were engaged, in love, all that. It took me over a year to finally realize that we're not right for each other the way we used to be and that I'll find someone else, eventually.

Love kicks ass. Yes, you can only only hurt as much as you care. If love is the epitome of caring (along with a bunch of other things) then it can also be the epitome of hurt.

LOVE IS WHEN YOUR MATE WILL LET YOU PISS ON THEM WITH NO PROBLEM!!!! IN THERE FACE MAN

LOVE IS WHEN YOUR GIRL SWOLLOWS YOUR CUM WITH NO PROBLEM YOU DONT EVEN HAVE TO ASK THE BITCH JUST DOES IT,MAN

IS ANYBODY WITH ME?

quote:Originally posted by Lewneedsrs:

How many people can say truly that they're in love with who they believe is their soulmate?



i can, its just to fucking bad my "soulmate" doesnt feel the same way, kinda really funny and depressing at the same time.

Man, love makes me feel better than smoking an 1/8th of dank in like 2 minutes! I've been in love, wish I could say something actually happened. I tried to hook her up w/ the dude she likes (her and I were like best friends) and told him a bit much and she got really pissed at me, after that I got suicidal and one of my good online buddies worried about me like hell till he got ahold of me on the phone . It was great while we were riends, but now that we aren't, like I said, I got all suicidal and shit. But still, being in love, and having a form of love returned is great, there's no greater feeling, and I hope you can all experience it some day. I can truly say that I was in love with her, and I still am. Well, best of luck to all of you!

Wow, so many of us are in love with our soulmates, or who we beleive to be so... and they dont feel the same way. It hurts so bad to feel that way about someone when they dont feel the samy way. I was in a 1 year relationship that ended badly and before that, i liked the girl who i believe is my soul mate. I told her so and she told me she didnt feel the same way. We became extremely good friends tho. Now that my relationship is over, and this girl had some relationship problems and we kept talkin about it, i realized i still loved this girl. The only problem is that there are two other guys who like her, and since she loves me as only a friend, all i can do is help her to fix her guy problems and hook her up with a guy... which is the most painful thing ever. But the feeling of loving some1 is definately worth it.

quote:Originally posted by KillaCas:

Thank god I'm not in love. Good look to you, but if this is your first love get ready for the break up, that pain will never stop hurting.

I am madly, deeply in love with who I believe is my true "soulmate." And, for the first time in my life, the feelings are entirely mutual. It will become a long distance relationship soon, to last about a year, but I know we can (and will) make it. I want to spend the rest of my life with this man, and nothing will stand in my way.

I truly believe that I am in love with a girl who is my "soulmate." However, please allow me to tell you my story. If you don't want to read, then skip to the next reply.

Two years ago, this girl and I started going out. It was going very well, and though we fought, I really loved every minute of it. Well, eventually, I decided that since I was going away to school, I thought it best to end it. It was incredibly hard on both of us.

Well, we remained best friends the entire time, and she (for a while) kept asking me to go back out again. I refused. My heart told me that I was in love, but my head told me that I was too young. This was one of the most stupid thoughts that I ever entertained.

Finally, about two months ago, I realized that I could never ask for a better person to go out with or spend the rest of my life with. This was about the same time that she gave up any hope of us having a romantic relationship ever again. So, she had decided to move on with her life and forget about me (other than remaining friends).

When I finally told her that I was wrong all along and asked her out again, she said that she loved me and saw herself with me in the long run, but there was someone else that she wanted to go out with first. She said that this was because he was the first person she's liked since going out with me and she needed to make sure that she was really in love with me and this was her way to do it.

Now, I know that this guy is a total asshole and he is not nice to her at all; he tells her that she's STD ridden and calls her ugly all the time. But, she feels that this is something that she has to do, and therefore, I must allow it to happen if I ever want to get her back.

I must now live without her for a while, but I know that her relationship with this other guy will never last. We WILL be together in the end. I can feel it.

I wish the best for you. ^^^ From the sounds of it, you'll have her back in no time. and if for some reason she falls for this guy, it will just be time for you to come in and bring her to reality. =)

I wish I was in love.

listen dude love suxs big time...i was just in a realsonship with a girl i did fall for and i coudlnt help it but the other day her she told me and her coudlnt have this realsonship cause shes still has feelings for her old boyfriend(who wasnt to kill me) it suxs man like ive bin depressed all weekedn about it like everything was going so well the nite before she told em i was on teh phoen with her till 1 30 in teh moringa dn she was saying hwo much shes ganan love the summer with ema dn her together then all of a sudden her boyfriend goes on her ICQ and sees a msg i left her and flipped out adn wanted to kill me and she geos back with him now it suxs balls dont fall in love man unless u knwo for a fact its for real because when ur in love man all it is is worrying about what teher doing if they feel how u feel etc. it suxs dude

quote:Originally posted by EyeYamGod:

I truly believe that I am in love with a girl who is my "soulmate." However, please allow me to tell you my story. If you don't want to read, then skip to the next reply.

Two years ago, this girl and I started going out. It was going very well, and though we fought, I really loved every minute of it. Well, eventually, I decided that since I was going away to school, I thought it best to end it. It was incredibly hard on both of us.

Well, we remained best friends the entire time, and she (for a while) kept asking me to go back out again. I refused. My heart told me that I was in love, but my head told me that I was too young. This was one of the most stupid thoughts that I ever entertained.

Finally, about two months ago, I realized that I could never ask for a better person to go out with or spend the rest of my life with. This was about the same time that she gave up any hope of us having a romantic relationship ever again. So, she had decided to move on with her life and forget about me (other than remaining friends).

When I finally told her that I was wrong all along and asked her out again, she said that she loved me and saw herself with me in the long run, but there was someone else that she wanted to go out with first. She said that this was because he was the first person she's liked since going out with me and she needed to make sure that she was really in love with me and this was her way to do it.

Now, I know that this guy is a total asshole and he is not nice to her at all; he tells her that she's STD ridden and calls her ugly all the time. But, she feels that this is something that she has to do, and therefore, I must allow it to happen if I ever want to get her back.

I must now live without her for a while, but I know that her relationship with this other guy will never last. We WILL be together in the end. I can feel it.

your telling me you love this girl, but are going to put up with her being with a guy that does that shit to her. Take a trip to see her sometime, if he does that shit around you, hit him...hard. If some dick said that a friend id hit him, dont ask me what id do to him if he said it to the girl i love.

quote:Originally posted by STORMofDEATH:

Wow, so many of us are in love with our soulmates, or who we beleive to be so... and they dont feel the same way. It hurts so bad to feel that way about someone when they dont feel the samy way. I was in a 1 year relationship that ended badly and before that, i liked the girl who i believe is my soul mate. I told her so and she told me she didnt feel the same way. We became extremely good friends tho. Now that my relationship is over, and this girl had some relationship problems and we kept talkin about it, i realized i still loved this girl. The only problem is that there are two other guys who like her, and since she loves me as only a friend, all i can do is help her to fix her guy problems and hook her up with a guy... which is the most painful thing ever. But the feeling of loving some1 is definately worth it.

You have to tell her how you feel mate, or else you'll be feeling shitty for the rest of your life. Even if she turns around and says fuck off then at least you'll know, and at least you won't have to torment yourself forever thinking about what could have been or what might have happened.

I really wish i could say that to her. The only thing is that i came to this realization sometime during the previous week. I cant just put this on top of her shoulders with everything else that she has to deal with. And then im having my own problems... w/ getting over this 1 girl, not b/c i lover her anymore, but b/c of the pain she gave me. Ive been extremely depressed, filled w/ rage, and suicidal lately. Find my other posts for more details cuz i dont feel like going into everything about it.

I know she wouldnt tell me to fuck off, but i think she would shy away from me if i told her. I know i will tell her in due time. I vowed to her that i would never lie to her, and i havent, but not mentioning something is not a problem. She already is a shy and insecure girl and im more scared of ruining what he have now and living w/ my bottled up feelings then telling her how i feel and losing everything we had. I know she deserves to know thou, considering it is her that these feelings are foor, i just have to find the right time to tell her.

Well when you think it's the right time then tell her, you never know she might love you back, and the rest of your life will probably follow.

The glass is half full.

quote:Originally posted by Lewneedsrs:

and very very happy about it. How many people can say truly that they're in love with who they believe is their soulmate?

...

So then, who's in love, and whos happy?



I don't believe in this 'soulmate' concept. I think there are thousands of people out there that I could fall in love with given the right circumstances. I'm in love and happy, and I wouldn't ever leave her, but I don't think it would be the end of the world and that I could never love again if we split up.

quote:Originally posted by Electron:

LOVE IS WHEN YOUR MATE WILL LET YOU PISS ON THEM WITH NO PROBLEM!!!! IN THERE FACE MAN

LOVE IS WHEN YOUR GIRL SWOLLOWS YOUR CUM WITH NO PROBLEM YOU DONT EVEN HAVE TO ASK THE BITCH JUST DOES IT,MAN

IS ANYBODY WITH ME?

Yeah, love on their part is when they let you do those things, and love on your part is when you don't request them if she's not that into it.

I believe love is all about trust. If you can trust some1 to any extent and they trust you in the same way, to me, that is love. I once explained it to the girl i was talking about earlier, and i saved what i said on my comp. It's a bit hard to explain off of the top of my head right now, but maybe those of you that believe you are in love will know what im talking about. If you dont understand what im saying, ask, and ill post what i said to her.

I don't think there is such thing as love...



but I'm a cynical motherfucker, so fuck me

quote:Originally posted by PinK_CrimSOn:

listen dude love suxs big time...i was just in a realsonship with a girl i did fall for and i coudlnt help it but the other day her she told me and her coudlnt have this realsonship cause shes still has feelings for her old boyfriend(who wasnt to kill me) it suxs man like ive bin depressed all weekedn about it like everything was going so well the nite before she told em i was on teh phoen with her till 1 30 in teh moringa dn she was saying hwo much shes ganan love the summer with ema dn her together then all of a sudden her boyfriend goes on her ICQ and sees a msg i left her and flipped out adn wanted to kill me and she geos back with him now it suxs balls dont fall in love man unless u knwo for a fact its for real because when ur in love man all it is is worrying about what teher doing if they feel how u feel etc. it suxs dude

I know some people like to try to remain friends with thier ex's but I don't recommend it. Especially when there new love is insecure about their girlfriend. He is just afraid that you are gonna try to get back with her. But you should just leave it be and go on with your life.

"Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes...just be an illusion."

- Javan

quote:Originally posted by polonius:

Love fucks you up.

there ya go