Now it's been like the 6th time i've had sex with this chick (deflowering her obv. bushy), and she ain't very easy to please. I know what i'm doing but wtf. She said it still hurts her a bit and with the pain it's too hard to orgasm. Is this true you guys??? How many times should they have sex after their first, before they start to get great pleasure out of sex like normal chicks. thanx

[This message has been edited by mobassassin (edited 06-05-2004).]

some poeple liek it their 1st time some peeps never like it...how hard and where do u bang her... differnt spots may hurt

after the 6th time shes no virgin.

The first time I gave it to her slow, but made sure she popped. I fuck her pretty hard now and she gets off, but after like 15 min of fucking. will she ever get more pleasure???

women tend to take longer to get aroused than men, but can stay aroused longer.

just take your time and enjoy, its not a race to orgasm. If you cum before here, go down on her after sex so she can get some more excitement.

also make sure she is wet before you stick your dick in.

it takes a while before a girl gets... broken in.... so to speak. just keep trying, be patient.

Maybe she has Endo.

quote:Originally posted by mobassassin:

The first time I gave it to her slow, but made sure she popped.

BA HA HA HA HA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAA!

Maybe it was SHE who made sure YOU popped

Since we are on the subject I am just curious. If a girl has masturbated before (with only her fingers) but never had sex, can she still be popped?

Have you ever heard of foreplay? Most of us get off on that a lot better than by being fucked.If you want to get her off, eat the pussy. WORSHIP the pussy.Then after she's cum, you can fuck her any which way you want and it won't hurt.Trust me on this one, child.

[This message has been edited by Sassinak (edited 06-07-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by slasher_13:

Since we are on the subject I am just curious. If a girl has masturbated before (with only her fingers) but never had sex, can she still be popped?

She can be "popped" (god i hate that term) with strenuous exercise alone. And certainly with her fingers (if there is penetration). And even more so if there is a dildo etc, involved. So guys should really refrain from thinking of it as popping someone.

It's more like just removing the last remnants of a hymen, which in most cases, is already perforated.

Try different things.. or just stick it in her ass.

And as for the cherry poppin question, of course they can man. I popped my first gf with my fingers..

pop pop poppin cherries.

You know, it took me forever to figure out what Cherry Poppin' Daddies meant. Seriously, I'm so dumb sometimes.

Okay, back on topic. I lost my virginity when I was 16, and didn't have sex again until I was 19. (Long story.) When I did start having sex again, it hurt like a bitch. The guy was a fuck-buddy, and he was very patient with me. He was the first person to go down on me, and he always did that before sex so that I'd be wet. And I'd always have to start out on top so that I could control the rate of penetration, etc. So maybe you should let her be on top? After about ten or fifteen minutes, I'd get used to it, but it took months to to get to where it didn't hurt on intial entry. Sometimes it still does, although very rarely. Some women are just more sensitive than others. Be patient, be gentle, and let her set the pace. That's the best advice I can give you.

I'll tell ya what...I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, and we've been having sex on a regular basis for the same amount of time, and it STILL hurts when we do (at first) and a LOT afterwards. He is bigger than I'm used to, but I always thought I would "stretch" to accomodate him by now or something. And the doctors have ruled out any physical problems that could be causing it. So, be patient - give her time, make sure she's well lubed (if she doesn't get wet enough on her own, buy some lube, it can be a lifesaver), let her tell you how slow or fast to put it in, and make sure you pace yourself. You can't just shove it in if she'd not ready...it WILL hurt, a lot. Letting her be on top is good, too...that way she can pace how far and how fast you go inside her...it helps me, and when I do this, it doesn't always hurt me afterwards, cause I get to pace things and know when it's going to cause me eventual pain. She may accomodate someday, she may not....but just be gentle and use a lot of foreplay. Even if it still hurts her, it will still help to make sure SHE'S ready, not just you. And if she still hurts, have her pop a few extra strength tylenol beforehand, it can work wonders. Things may fix themselves over time. Good luck!

just gag her until you're done.

quote:Originally posted by JakeBagoodi:

just gag her until you're done.

And only EVER stop when some of the blood is actually coming from you.