I went out with this guy last year, from the middle of June 'til the end of August.

Then, around X-mas time, he said he still liked me and he'd always liked me. Then he asked out an ex-gf of his.

Then, when they broke up, he told me that 'he liked me and he'd always liked me' AGAIN!

And yet, he does nothing!! I don't get it!

Everytime he does this, it gets my hopes up...*sniff sniff*

What are your opinions? What should I tell him? Should I tell him to fuck off? Should I just ignore him? Grrr..

Maybe he's the type of person who is shy and wants you to make a move on him.

If you like him back then try being nice to him and say that you like him back.

But if I was in your shoes I would certainly tell him that I don't mind just being friends, because schooling is my main priority. But thats my opinion.

Were you male, I'd say welcome to intellectual whoreville, population: you.

But you're female. So, two possibilities lie before you.

1) He really does like you, and he just sits waiting for you to affirm this.

2) When lacking sex, he aims for you, because he likes having sex with you.

Either way, you win. On the one hand, you get a decent relationship, on the other you get decent sex. Both are good. GO FOR IT!

So he's jumping from ex to ex? And you're willing to put up with that? Forget that zero and get yourself a hero, mmmm-hmmmm!

He's like a puppy that humps your leg, if you keep letting him, he'll keep doing it.

what he's doing is making you his backup bitch. if his girlfriend of the moment dumps him, or somethin goes bad with them, well, he's got you on a leash waiting for him. if you let him do that, then you'll regret it. i'd say tell him straight out, "You can date whoever you want, but PICK ONE."

quote:Originally posted by Chibi Shinigami:

what he's doing is making you his backup bitch. if his girlfriend of the moment dumps him, or somethin goes bad with them, well, he's got you on a leash waiting for him. if you let him do that, then you'll regret it. i'd say tell him straight out, "You can date whoever you want, but PICK ONE."

*nods* or "fuck off"

on the other hand, if you can handle the reputation of being his backup and will NOT complain about being treated badly or pushed aside once and awhile, go ahead and stick with him while he bounces around.

quote:Originally posted by devilsAngel:

*nods* or "fuck off"

on the other hand, if you can handle the reputation of being his backup and will NOT complain about being treated badly or pushed aside once and awhile, go ahead and stick with him while he bounces around.

Can I just ask, is your name Danielle perchance?

quote:Originally posted by PTB:

Can I just ask, is your name Danielle perchance?

nope.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



He's like a puppy that humps your leg, if you keep letting him, he'll keep doing it.

How eloquently and profoundly put

Best 'advice' so far!

-Bill

The way I see it, the guy is a dumbass!

He says he likes you and has always liked you...Then he asks his ex girlfriend out.

That strikes me as weird!

My advice is to tell him to make his damn mind up next time he tells you he likes you.

"I really like you...I've always liked you"

"Yeah I got that part the several previous times you told me...Now are you gonna ask me out or are you gonna keep on with this bullshit?!"

Simple...In theory!

Okay, people, Good News! (I think!) He asked me out. The last time we went out, we kind of avoided eachother, and this time I thought it'd be like a 'history repeating itself' sort of thing, but YAY! I actually said something about it, and we're hanging out more. SO...I'll try to keep you updated (if anyone actually cares )

-Bill

So he's interested in you during the summer and around the holidays. Not only are you the back-up plan, you're the distraction during vacation.