I need to get my mind off this girl. I don't want to mope all summer over her. I think I may never see her again. I want to get over her, but I like her so much. People say that I am in love with her, but that is a really strong word. I might have one chance to see her again which is at the end of June. Please give me suggestions on what to do.

GET DRUUUUUUUNK!!!!!

That's what I'd do anyway.

just talk to her and be real!

ask her for her phone number say you would hate to never see her again or something like that

be REAL!

She is going to a private school then after that she will be moving. So even if I tell her that I would hate to never see her again i don't think it would change anything.

Just keep in mind that everything happens for a reason...I bet you not too long after she leaves you meet the girl of your dreams...its not meant to be if you have to make sacrifices to make it work...niether of you will be happy with one another and you will both feel resentment...just let her go when she goes...keep in touch through e-mail or phone or something though

Life's a bitch mate...Get used to it.

But there are some times in the bitch when there are rays of light.

I say you talk to her when you get the chance and be honest...Tell her how you feel and see what happens.

Go find one of them mythical rays of light buddy!

quote:Originally posted by Blaydes:

Just keep in mind that everything happens for a reason...I bet you not too long after she leaves you meet the girl of your dreams...its not meant to be if you have to make sacrifices to make it work...niether of you will be happy with one another and you will both feel resentment...just let her go when she goes...keep in touch through e-mail or phone or something though



and by that philosophy when you met the girl of your dreams, if something went wrong youd let her go. Fuck that. If you love her, be with her.

There is kind of a love triangle. The is me, her, and another guy. She likes me a little and him a lot. I like her a lot, and he likes her a little. Her parents also think that the other guy would be better for her, but it just an act. He is a jerk. I wish she could see that.

quote:Originally posted by grvdigr69:

There is kind of a love triangle. The is me, her, and another guy. She likes me a little and him a lot. I like her a lot, and he likes her a little. Her parents also think that the other guy would be better for her, but it just an act. He is a jerk. I wish she could see that.

you lose if you dont shape up.

1.he likes her a little (that drives them crazy)

2.hes a jerk (jerks own with chicks)

compared to you

1.the nice guy (nice guy finishes last)

2.likes her a lot (she can sense it, dont overdue it)



i can write out a detailed explanation, but simply i can be fucked for the time. If shes moving, and youve pretty much already lost. Fuck it, move on.

quote:Originally posted by whiteass:

you lose if you dont shape up.

1.he likes her a little (that drives them crazy)

2.hes a jerk (jerks own with chicks)

compared to you

1.the nice guy (nice guy finishes last)

2.likes her a lot (she can sense it, dont overdue it)



i can write out a detailed explanation, but simply i can be fucked for the time. If shes moving, and youve pretty much already lost. Fuck it, move on.

She doesn't know he is a jerk. She thinks he is the one of nicest guys she know.

EDIT: She won't be moving for another year.

[This message has been edited by grvdigr69 (edited 06-05-2004).]

i hate to sound like a bitch but christ almighty are you a man or a loser?

you think you love her ?then why the fuck are you wasting our time with this pseudo-gothic soul searching crap?

drop whatever you are doing ,find away to get to her and tell her to her face what you feel.

she either wants you or she don't so stop faffing around.

the difference between men and boys has nothing to do with the size of their cocks!

FUCK HER HARD AND GOOD.

same situation as me pretty much. DON'T GET DRUNK. i tried that after i became a little impatient and believe me it doesn't help. i'm not anti drinking, just it doesn't solve your problems.

my advice, get your arse in a gym and improve your fitness and physique. work on your confidence and charm. you'll find it's a lot easier to be confident when you look at a girl and realise you're still fixated on a better one. good luck