This is a note I got from my girlfriend un-edited and all....

Hey babe. How are you? Me I'm good, anyways to the point of this. I dunno if we're still going out or not, if we are thats cool, if not then I guess oh well... I just want to let you know I do honestly like you and I'm willing to deal with your bullshit games for the 3rd time. So you need to be honest w/me and before you decide remember all the crap you've done to me all (all is underlined twice) the stuff, and think about what I've done to you which is jack shit. I've kept all your "secrets" I've never lied or cheated and I was always there for you. Oh and for the record I never had to take pills or get fucked up to show any of me emotions for you like you did. I'm gonna go now...



First of all, I DO like her. It's just I don't show it as much as I used to when we date the first and second time. The bullshit games, me bullshit games so I didn't talk to her in a week, when we went out for the first time, she would make plans to do something then at the last second she would back out. So I'm kind of doing this as pay back but it's weird.

My "secrets" all my friends know, I've told them all when we have gotten drunk at partys and shit just sitting around the bon-fire we would talk. Then everything would flow.

Her always bein there for me. Twice, twice she was there for me!! When I had a 4 day depression spell, and when my friend got sent away to a mental institution. Was she there on my grampas anneversary of his death? Nope I told her and you know what she said? Hon I wish I could be there for you but I can't leave I don't have a ride. Then I offered her a ride and she still didn't wanna comeover.

I don't know, I do like her, it's just that I don't know what I want out of this relationship.

Her attitide in the note showed the real emotions she felt towards you. Shes talking about your bullshit when she cant smell it coming from herself. This girl is a bitch. What you wanna do is up to you, but just know, she definately doesn't care about you as much as she says.

Write her a note back and tell her exactly that. Dont be harsh or mean with her, just tell her exactly what you told us. How you've made mistakes, but so has she by not being there for you. If you really like her, you will do what you can to try and save it. I know that may seem like your just trying to start a fight with her, but its important that you get your point around, so you dont look like the huge badguy.

I think I'd rather talk to her person to person about it. Not some bullshit ass note. You know?

Person to person is always the best way, but do you know what you want to talk about w/ her?

quote:Originally posted by STORMofDEATH:

Person to person is always the best way, but do you know what you want to talk about w/ her?

Yeah I do know what I wanna talk to her about. I'll tell you about it tomorrow or whenever I get one next.

quote:Originally posted by Lazzaro:

I think I'd rather talk to her person to person about it. Not some bullshit ass note. You know?

Person to Person is better, but are you sure you can get your point across without her interupting, "oh shutup *insert excuse here* " or whatever

My ex and I were like this...I fucked around all the time and she was a bitch...it was a never ending circle...it just became a habit being with her...break the habit...get away...you'll be happier

quote:Originally posted by Memorex:

Write her a note back and tell her exactly that. Dont be harsh or mean with her, just tell her exactly what you told us. How you've made mistakes, but so has she by not being there for you. If you really like her, you will do what you can to try and save it. I know that may seem like your just trying to start a fight with her, but its important that you get your point around, so you dont look like the huge badguy.

As Memorex said, do it person to person. What you've said here and the way you said it, was a great look at your relationship, that's both honest with her and yourself. You should tell her what you've told us and see how she reacts.



[This message has been edited by Durell (edited 06-04-2004).]

Major self-pity there man.

It's all your fault...She did nothing to incite any of your actions....Bullshit!!!

She wants to get back with you because she likes you...But she wants a reason to bitch and moan about you to her cronies!

That's my theory on the subject...However true or exact it is, well that's another story all together!

I'd say give it another go...But before hand, both of you lay down rules and shit to go by.

You lay yours down on the table...She lays hers down on the table then you both see if it will be a worthwhile venture.

All the best of luck, Laz'!